The child is about to be born, and my husband has no sense of responsibility, what should I do

First of all, your child is not small anymore, and it is not possible to do it, or to give birth. After being born, no one can guarantee what he will be like ... Observe first, then communicate...

If you are stubborn after communication, then while the child is young, it should be categorical... Leave when you should leave, come back if you should come back, fight for what you should strive for, be sharp, don't drag mud and water. While you are young, find a good family, the child is small, and it is easier for others to accept it...

Women want men to be hurt, and such people who are indifferent to you, even if they are the country's **, are not a pity.

A man's sense of responsibility depends on you to stimulate it little by little, and find more opportunities to talk to him about children. Let him share with you the joy of being a parent. In short, there is also a child who is about to be born, and it is necessary to purchase with him all the belongings of the child who will be born.

If you do it all, he's going to feel left out. Make him feel that you need him very much in this family, let him have a sense of responsibility to protect you, in addition, when he does something for you, no matter what he does well or badly, you have to praise him, so that he has a sense of accomplishment at home, women can not be too strong at home, let him feel the importance of his home, you can't do anything without him. You tell me?

Perhaps, he is working hard for your future, and he is busy with his career, you should understand. It's just that going home to watch TV and surfing the Internet doesn't share the sweet and sour with you, if it's related to your career, you still have to understand, otherwise, it's a little strange. You can first propose to break up for temptation, if he cares about you, he will not be killed, on the contrary, you have to make a decision as soon as possible!

I think there is a lack of communication between you, and you should use a little strategy, such as: when he is free, you say to him, I am a little uncomfortable today, of course, don't make the problem too serious. Or let him join you in prenatal education, feel the fetal movement, listen to the fetal heartbeat, etc., and let him share the happiness of being a parent with you.

In short, let him feel that you need him very much in this family, let him have a sense of responsibility to protect you, in addition, when he does something for you, no matter how good or bad he does, you have to praise him, so that he has a sense of accomplishment at home, good children are praised, and good men are the same, what do you say? I hope mine is helpful to you, I hope you are a happy mother, I wish you happiness and happiness!

I have experienced this situation of yours for 12 years, and I know the feeling of pain and despair. Let's get a divorce. While the child is young, no matter who follows him, he will not have a memory, which is the least harm to the child.

I wanted a divorce when I was three months old, and I felt that the child was small, and the child was in the sixth grade, and it hurt the child even more if I wanted to divorce. I was tormented only in my marriage.

This condition of yours is a pre-fertility phobia, and like many pregnant women, don't worry. Most men are like this, for many reasons: for example, he will have physiological needs if he is too close to you, and he is afraid that the troubles at work will bring you to you, and he is afraid of making you angry, etc., your husband is a director of a private company, so it is normal for him to have his own different ideas, he is going to be a mother, be happy, be generous, think more about the cute child, I believe that after the child is born, your relationship will be better, and your husband's indifference will disappear naturally.

For the healthy growth of children, it is most important to work hard to maintain your family, and work hard for expectant mothers!

Communicate a lot, that's the most basic, you have to bring it up, if you don't say it, he still thinks everything is right. You have to explain the problem of money to him, the expenses of the children in the future, and the expenses of the family hall, so that he can tell him a solution. See if he makes sense, and if not, you have to put forward your ideas.

I wish you all happiness.

Hold on, just wait for the child to be born, now that the child has not been born, he does not yet know the responsibility of being a father. When he sees the child, he will naturally take on his due responsibility, the child is the core of the family, maintain a good mood, smooth production, the birth of a life, will bring endless joy to the family!

It seems that you are not very happy, is it not that you are not very good to your lover, if you love him, then first of all, you have to find fault with yourself, to see if you care about your other half, etc., it is best that you take time out to have a good chat, but after having a child, it may be better, many families are like this, after having a child, it will be better, I wish you happiness!!

You still need to communicate more with each other, tell him what you really think, and see what kind of answers he can give you. Don't fool yourself around

After work, he can ask him to go for a walk, go shopping, etc., and usually talk to him about children's affairs. Expectant mothers should keep themselves happy

You should talk to him about it, tell him about the troubles in your heart, and listen to his thoughts. I think it's better than having a baby like you're now.

Men are like children, you have to coax them, it seems simple, but it actually works, he also has his own business, after all, it is different from when he is in love.

Incredible. I never knew how much money he had, and sometimes I didn't know his whereabouts."

Every day when he comes back from work, he watches TV and surfs the Internet."

I never cared about my physical condition or how I was feeling."

The baby was almost born, and he didn't accompany me to the check-up."

I can only wish you good luck.

1. Let the child do the family's affairs, simply put, is to let the child participate in family labor, let the child know that he is one of the members of the family, should contribute to the family's affairs, and praise the child's efforts in time, so that the child has a sense of pride. In addition, attention should be paid to fostering a democratic atmosphere in the family, so that children can also participate in and take responsibility for important family decisions.

2. Do your own things, don't do your children's things quietly, parents should let their children do what they can as soon as possible, and they must not do their own things, and let their children undertake appropriate housework, which is the most effective way to form a sense of responsibility.

3. Recognize the importance of a sense of responsibility, which is an important part of a person's personality. In order to reinforce the importance of a sense of responsibility, children can properly taste the bitter fruits of doing things irresponsibly, and if children are repeatedly punished by natural consequences, they will be serious and cautious when doing things next time.

4. Participate in some social welfare activities and arrange for children to participate in some simple social welfare surplus service work, which is also an effective way to cultivate children's sense of responsibility. For example, simply clean the community, give a newspaper, and teach children to take the initiative to care for and help others.

5. Give children more opportunities to practice, the cultivation of a sense of responsibility requires corresponding ability and emotion, and must be carried out through personal activities in a certain situation. In order to cultivate children's sense of responsibility, it is necessary to let children actually take responsibility and let children develop a sense of responsibility in participation. Parents should give their children the opportunity to take some responsibility for the family, their parents, and their families.

Only by providing more opportunities for children to practice, children can gradually improve their sense of responsibility, and children will get a valuable psychological experience of "responsibility" by doing things, and such psychological experience is more, and children's sense of responsibility will naturally be strengthened and improved.

6. Teaching by word and deed, parents should set an example image, do not despise the power of teaching by word and deed, parents should be a good example for their children, and should have a conscious attitude of being responsible for themselves, the family, the society, and the collective, so that children can grow up in an atmosphere of responsibility and cultivate their sense of responsibility imperceptibly.

The home-school lecture hall gives you three suggestions:

1.Children have the courage to admit their mistakes after doing wrong, dare to take responsibility, make up for their mistakes, and be responsible for their words and deeds, so that they can win the respect of others, and they are also more down-to-earth and not hypocritical. Children admit mistakes, to encourage and praise the child's honesty and responsibility, is a brave person, dare to admit mistakes means to learn to change the wrong cognition and behavior, so that they can go further and be better.

2.In daily life, we can find that children who lack self-care ability are often very dependent on their parents, which in turn leads to a lack of sense of responsibility, weak willpower, and easy to withdraw when encountering difficulties. Therefore, to cultivate children's sense of responsibility, we should start from children's self-care ability, so that children can learn to "do their own things".

3.Simply excellent grades do not mean anything, it can only show that the child's ability to do questions is not good, and in social interaction, children do not rely on their own grades, but should be their own character. Only children who have a strong sense of responsibility and dare to take responsibility can be recognized by more people, and more people will be close to the children, so parents should cultivate their children in parallel with morality and wisdom.

What should I do if my child is not assertive and irresponsible?

The first thing to be clear about is that childbearing is an important decision that needs to be considered and made by both spouses. If your husband is not loving you, you need to communicate well to see if your relationship can improve and if you need to seek professional help. If you are unable to improve your relationship, then your husband's relationship with you may affect the growth of the children and the stability of the family, so it needs to be seriously considered.

In addition, pregnancy and childbirth have certain risks and burdens on the body, and it is necessary to be well prepared. It is recommended that you go to the hospital for a comprehensive physical examination and consultation before considering childbirth, understand your physical condition and health risks since early departure, exercise purposefully and adjust your lifestyle habits, and improve your physical fitness. At the same time, it is also necessary to understand the precautions and nursing methods during pregnancy and postpartum, and make the necessary preparations.

Finally, childbearing also needs to take into account the economic and family situation, and it needs to be well planned and prepared. Considering the education, living and medical expenses of the child, it is necessary to have a sound plan and budget. In addition, it is also necessary to take into account family relationships and interaction and communication between family members, and maintain a good family atmosphere and a stable social environment.

It's not easy to find a responsible person in society now, and it's a little emotional to be together for so long, and having a child will change you a little now.

In such a situation, we should ask our husband what he thinks, if the husband continues to develop like this, then choose to divorce, after all, it must be ourselves who will be hurt in the end.

You should talk to your husband about your thoughts, your opinions. If you hold it in your heart, he won't really understand your mind, and he still has no sense of responsibility. At the same time, it is also necessary for your husband to have more contact with the child, so that he can see the changes after having children and be more responsible.

At this time, you should communicate and communicate with your husband in a timely manner, hoping that your husband can correct his wrong behavior. After all, two people still have to live together.

Tell your husband that he should take on the responsibilities of a father, so that his children can have a good living condition.

It won't be good, because he has no sense of responsibility for you, so it can be seen that this person is very bad, and he is also good to his own children.

This is difficult to determine, some men love children very much, even if they have no sense of responsibility for their wives, then after having children, he will have a hail and a great change. But there are men who are the kind of people who have no sense of responsibility, and they are the same for everyone.

I don't have a sense of responsibility for you, how can you be filial to him and hope that he will be good to his children? There will still be no father's love, and there will be no responsibility for the child.

Not necessarily! Some people are not very good to their wives, but they are really good to their children, maybe he doesn't love you that much.

Yes, because everyone will grow up, especially after having children, their sense of responsibility will become stronger and stronger.

I don't think so. Because of his reputation, he has no responsibility for you, how can he be good to his child, after all, he was not born from his own old belly, he can't feel it.

I think it will. Because many husbands have their own sense of responsibility after having children, there is no need to worry.

Actually, it's easy to do, that is:

1. Establish the concept of tasks. Set appropriate work tasks for yourself every day, and ask yourself to complete them with quality and quantity;

2. Set a standard of punishment for yourself. That is to say, you should have corresponding punishment measures for mistakes, mistakes and dereliction of duty, such as fining yourself 10 yuan for each loss caused by mistakes, and this money is consumed by sending red envelopes in a certain group; If it is a mistake, then the punishment should be increased, and you will be fined 30 yuan for each piece, and consume it in the same way; If it is a dereliction of duty, then the punishment will be further increased, and you will be fined 50 yuan for each piece, which will also be consumed in the same way. However, since it is a rule for yourself, then do not be perfunctory, you must implement it seriously, and you must be stricter than others to punish yourself, until you develop a firm sense of responsibility, and in this way, you will definitely be able to cultivate your own sense of responsibility ......Happy to you!