What should I do if I am confused about my future?

I'm in the same situation as you, I work every month for that little money, I want to be filial to my parents, but I don't even have enough living expenses, my father is 50 years old, and I still think about going to work to earn money, my mother has that little retirement fee every month, I was still quarreling with my parents before I came to the field, and now I really regret seeing your situation, I live in confusion every day, complaining every day that I can't do anything, how incompetent I am, I'm really desperate, I can't do anything without confidence and perseverance, the world is still colorful, It's just that we didn't do it, I believe that we work hard to do it, the words of the ancients are not unreasonable, a point of hard work and a harvest, but the hardships are not enough, I now believe that looking for hope from despair, life will be brilliant! Hardship is always a hindrance to those who don't want to get what you want. If you don't want to be brushed off, you should work hard, everyone is the same, anyone can stand on a high place.

First of all, we must be confident and turn pessimism into motivation.

Find a job that suits you, work hard, do a good job, and there will always be a day to get ahead.

Believe that when God closes a door for us, He will open a window for us.

You can't be so decadent.

You've got to at least go for it.

Your parents are dependent on you.

You are their hope.

Start with a down-to-earth approach.

When you have the ability, you can think about other things.

The heart can't be too big.

Work hard first, save some money and go back to school to study, learn some useful knowledge, go to school while working, and use the money from the part-time job to do some business or ** after learning.

This thing can't be rushed, and it's easy to make mistakes in a hurry. Let's do a little more work first, and when you save some money, you can further your studies, learn a craft or something, or do some small business... Take your time and check out Li Ka-shing's biography in a bookstore.

Many famous entrepreneurs are self-made and painful when they slowly persist in success, which is also the time when fate tests us, grit your teeth, and you will definitely get through the difficulties.

Do you know that Master Zhang, who has been selling food in an ordinary student cafeteria at Tsinghua University for 8 years? He is 28 years old and sells food every day, but in that environment, he secretly learned to speak English fluently, scored 630 on the TOEFL test, and was in college English.

The fourth and sixth level exams are passed early.

You can do a good job part-time! As long as you have purpose and perseverance!

Start at the grassroots level, one step at a time. I'm sure you'll succeed, and don't think too much about it now. When you earn money, send it home, don't spend it indiscriminately.

We're all high school students! But I'm better at home! Now it is said that making money quickly and making more money is to do direct sales and the like, that is, to do business. Of course, it's hard work to do this well. It doesn't matter if you don't have the culture to do this. Can diligence make up for clumsiness?

If you are not clear about your future career plan, fundamentally speaking, you do not know yourself and do not know enough about yourself. People often have problems with their self-perception when they are confused. Don't know what you want, don't know what you lack?

You might as well sort out yourself, your strengths, preferences, shortcomings, and what you want? A little bit of combing, after combing, maybe you will suddenly open up.

If you already have work experience, you have an unclear career plan and are confused about the future. Usually you are hitting a bottleneck. What to do if you encounter a bottleneck in your career. Here are a few suggestions:

Summary: What are the achievements of the current work search list? What are some of the things that are not doing well? What's so good about it? What's wrong with that? What's next? This will help you clarify the current situation of the world.

The confusion of the future is also summarized: whether you can't see the future in the current unit, or you don't know how to plan your whole life. If you can't see the future of your current employer, you may need to change jobs.

If you don't know how to plan your life, then you should plan your life well.

It's more motivating to set goals that you can reach than to have them at your fingertips. With the goal standing in front of the gear, it doesn't matter if you don't complete it, at least you're going in the right direction. Career planning is not an assignment that can be coped with because it is related to the development of the whole career.

It is best to be able to combine your strengths and weaknesses while planning so that you can achieve the goals you want.

Life is not planned, it is tossed. Everybody crossed the river by feeling the stones, and no one said what kind of business they wanted to do at the beginning, and then they have been doing that kind of business. Going round and round, ups and downs, crawling and rolling, and then there is a success!

There are some things that you will never know if you don't go on the road, and the scenery on the road is only clear to you when you are on the road.

I used to be very confused, and then I began to play less games, less dramas, less Douyin, start to read, start running and walking at night, go to the mountains on weekends, go to the suburbs to see the mountains and see the water, after a long time, I found that it was very fulfilling, and I slowly became confident, and I was no longer confused. Hopefully you can do the same.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard. Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live, sad and sad to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because, life is like this:

No one's life is smooth sailing, so as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.

Life will inevitably fall and wait, you must be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, and others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about that:

It's a day to be happy, it's a day to be unhappy, so why not be happy every day."

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost the same as you, but they are all living happily, so not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Come on, friend!

I sincerely wish you happiness and joy every day! ~.

Calm yourself down first.

Come to your heart, think about it, what expertise do you have? What are the advantages? What's so special?

It's not too difficult to find a job right now, but don't expect to find your ideal job and ideal income all at once. As the saying goes, ride a bull to find a horse. But it is necessary to have a stable income first, and then slowly find and realize your ideals.

Support your friends.

Hehe, you need to make the right decision, and now there is a saying that choice is greater than effort, so the right decision is important.