How to properly appreciate your child, how do you appreciate your child?

Every child has their own strengths and weaknesses, but parents should look at their children from a developmental perspective, how do you appreciate children?

1. See more of your child's strengths.

Each child is an independent key spring body, may be in the eyes of others, remember that the child has a lot of shortcomings and deficiencies, is a lot of people look down, or will point behind the back, but as a parent, must not be like this, must believe that their children have a lot of advantages, if the study is not good, but his physical fitness is particularly good, regular exercise, love sports, this is his advantage. If he is particularly shy, but he is willing to help others, but when he sees others in difficulty, he runs to do what needs to be done without saying a word, isn't that an advantage? If parents can always see the good in their children, this is appreciation education.

2. Praise your child more.

If parents see the advantages of their children, they should not be stingy with their own language, they should praise their children more, tell their children to do well, and tell their children that they are proud, so that children know that parents love themselves so much, let children know that gold will always shine, and if they continue to improve, their advantages will always cover those shortcomings, so that others like themselves and make themselves better children.

3. Praise your child.

Parents should know how to use praise, praise your child is not just a compliment, you are awesome. Instead, you should praise the child more deeply, for example, if the child writes very beautifully, the parent should say, baby, the words you write are like a calligrapher. If the child washes the little socks himself, then the parents can praise the child like this, child, your hands are so flexible, like the hands of a magician.

I believe that after listening to the words of parents, children will be excited, and children will do better and better in the future, this is what we call appreciation education, in fact, this kind of education is very simple, as long as parents pay more attention, they can become excellent educators.

When the child does the right thing, he will give the child some rewards, and will encourage the child more, and affirm that the child will take the child out for a walk, so that the child will become strong and hidden.

If the child does something particularly well or has achieved corresponding results, I will immediately encourage the child and slowly give the child some rewards.

If the child does a good job, I will definitely grasp the time to enter the sail to encourage him, and I will also praise him for doing a great job.

Li Guifang of the Central Plains Focus Team insists on sharing the 436+119th day 2020 09 18 Friday.

The story of the great educator Mr. Tao Xingzhi's four candies.

When Tao Xingzhi was the principal, he saw a boy on campus one day and was about to hit another classmate with a brick, but the principal Tao Xingzhi stopped him in time and ordered the student to his office.

After understanding the situation, he returned to the office, and found that the boy was waiting for him, so he took out the first candy and handed it to him, saying, "This is your reward, because you are very punctual, and you arrived before me." Then he took out the second candy, which is also a reward for you, I don't let you hit people, you stop immediately, which shows that you respect me very much. The boy suspiciously took the candy.

Then Tao Xingzhi took out the third candy, I investigated, the boy you smashed was because he bullied girls, you smashed them, it shows that you are honest and kind, and you have the courage to fight against bad people, you should be rewarded, the boy was very moved, and said Principal Tao, you beat me, I was wrong, I didn't smash the bad guy, it was my classmate ......Principal Tao Xingzhi smiled, and immediately took out the fourth candy, because you know that you will correct your mistakes, and I will reward you with another one.

Mr. Tao Xingzhi once said,"The whole secret of educating a child is to believe in the child and liberate the child. To believe in children and liberate children, we must first appreciate children. "All children are eager to be appreciated by others, and appreciating children is to constantly explore children's strengths and constantly encourage children, so as to gradually cultivate children's self-confidence and make them believe in their own abilities.

From the story of the four sugars, you can deeply feel that Mr. Tao Xingzhi said this and did so. Through such a small thing, let this child feel that he has so many advantages, so many shining points, punctuality, respect for elders, integrity and kindness, courage to fight against bad people, and know that mistakes can ......be correctedI believe that the words of appreciation from the teacher, the appreciation from the heart, will definitely encourage and reward, and will let these excellent qualities take root and develop in the hearts of children!

It is not the lack of beauty in life, but the lack of eyes to find beauty. Let us learn to discover children's strengths and strengths with an appreciative eye in life, stimulate children's internal motivation, and enhance children's self-confidence.

Every child is a treasure. When a casual exchange after class learned that a child used gestures and smiled to recite the content required to be memorized in class completely and correctly, my heart was shocked (Li Hanxue, a student who loves to laugh and help others) If every lesson is fresh and attractive, I believe that more children will have gains. Because children's curiosity is the strongest.

It may be a casual affirmation and praise during class, so that a child who often does not hand in his homework not only completes his homework but also writes outstandingly (Li Kejie)! Let's make a ......