Why does a baby cry when someone holds him? Can babies recognize others?

<> a few months after birth to about 3 years old, the child will go through a "recognition period".

Perhaps there is one thing that parents will be impressed by is that when the baby is born, anyone can hold him, tease him, and the baby will give positive feedback. However, suddenly at a certain stage, the baby seems to have a temper. No one is allowed to hold him.

If you hold him reluctantly, he will not be happy and will cry, and this will continue until the baby is a few years old.

This is because most children go through the "recognition period" psychologically from a few months after birth to about 3 years old. Although the timing of the start of each child's "recognition period" is different, some earlier and some later, some parents may be caught off guard when the "recognition period" arrives suddenly. However, parents don't have to worry about when their child is in the "recognition period".

This is the only way for children to have their own sense of independence, and it is also a good thing for children to develop an instinct to protect themselves.

Perhaps, when the baby goes through the "recognition period", he always shows shyness or rejection of someone. Parents will feel that their children are not generous enough and appear a little stingy, and they are worried that if they do not interfere, it will affect the formation of their children's personalities, and their children will become sensitive and introverted.

Children under 3 years of age should be allowed to be shy.

Actually, there is no need to worry so much, because children have their own characteristics of growth at each stage, and parents do not need to rush to make their children what we want them to be and use some unconventional methods to force them too early. That will only indirectly make the child more afraid of life and reject the unfamiliar environment.

When a child goes through the "recognition period", what parents have to do is to allow him to be shy, let them relax and show their state, and then parents will look for opportunities to guide their child's growth and take the initiative to deal with strangers. For example, take your children out more often and encourage them to interact with strangers. As long as the child is given enough time, the child can grow into a cheerful and lively person.

For children over 3 years old, try to help him overcome his shyness.

In the "recognition period", most children, after proper instruction, can improve their self-confidence and deal with people naturally without staying in the shy stage for a long time. If the child is over 3 years old and still cannot overcome shyness, parents can observe the specific reasons for the child's shyness, whether it is a lack of confidence, fear of certain things, or worrying too much, etc. Parents need to prescribe the right medicine to help their children solve their problems.

If that doesn't work, parents should also accept that their children are introverted and shy. Everyone in this world has their own unique temperament, and there is no good or bad. Parents' unconditional acceptance and love for their children will become their confidence in their children's courageous growth.

The smell of the mother's body is very special for the baby.

When you are hugged by others, you will cry when you find that there is no smell of mother.

In this case, the baby has reached the recognition period, the baby can already distinguish others, and it should be okay to hold the baby in front of the baby for a long time.

The baby cries when he is hugged by someone, probably because the person's posture is not right, or the smell on the body makes the baby smell uncomfortable, so he cries when he touches it. Five or six months ago, the baby can tell who is the mother by the taste of breast milk, and when his vision is fully developed, he will be able to distinguish more people.

After the baby is born, the mother takes on most of the childcare responsibilities, and the daily life mainly revolves around the baby. Although the baby has more contact with the mother, most of the babies will not reject other people, fathers, grandmothers, grandfathers or others will not cry when they hold them, and some babies cry when they hold them except for their mothers, what is the reason for this?

In addition to the mother, the reason why the baby cries when he hugs him:

1. Usually the mother is the main caregiver of the baby, the father or others do not take care of the baby, and the baby's sense of security mainly comes from the mother. Therefore, once held by others, the baby loses his sense of security and will be restless and crying.

2. The person who takes care of the baby is often replaced, which makes the baby psychologically more insecure, so when the mother appears, he instinctively gets close to the mother, and once he is hugged by someone else, he is afraid that the mother will leave, and he will cry.

3. The baby has only been brought by the mother for a long time, and the mother is usually alone with the baby, and does not take the baby to meet other people, so the baby's social range is only the mother alone. Due to the small social range, when the baby sees a new person, or even is hugged by a stranger, he is very repulsed, and uses crying to express his rejection and unwillingness.

When the baby cries when he hugs him except the mother, it is recommended that parents give the baby more time to adapt to other people. Usually increase the baby's interaction with other people such as father, grandparents, grandparents, etc., so that the baby is familiar with different relatives, and slowly the baby will no longer be so repulsive to others.

Is this situation a lack of security in Bao, so it has been like this recently, usually spend more time with children, take children out to play more, and contact more children.

After Yin Yin cried, her cousin said very guiltily: "Everyone hugged her, but she didn't cry, why did we cry when we hugged her?" Because I look scary? Everyone laughed when they heard it, but they were also puzzled, this is not very familiar with anyone, why did the cousin cry when he hugged her?

1. Recognize life. It is inevitable that the baby will recognize life, the vast majority of children are all recognized, his heart is insecure, he has not seen you, he is full of alienation from himself, you suddenly come to hug him very kindly, this person is resistant, is frightened and will naturally worry, will cry. But there are also some adults who are particularly good at teasing children, and make children giggle as soon as they come up. Proposed:

For the baby who recognizes the birth, you must first have some interaction with the baby, so that the child has less distance and more understanding of himself, so that he will not be so resistant to you.

2. Parents are not around.

However, there are also babies who don't recognize birth, like Yin Yin, most of the time she doesn't recognize birth, but under certain premises, she will be afraid of passers-by, such as parents are not together. I still remember that once when I went home, Yin Yin, who I hadn't seen for a long time, smiled when she saw me, and then my sister-in-law asked me to hold the child, and she went out to buy things. At that time, it was just us and Yin Yin in the house, and suddenly she cried, and she couldn't coax her.

This situation belongs to the child who does not have the most familiar person around him, and it will give birth when the parents are there, this situation rarely occurs.

3. It's not good-looking.

Many people say that children are not beautiful or ugly, but if you put on a strange face in front of your child, the child will definitely be frightened. So, if your child cries when he sees you, it may be that you are not good-looking. This is actually just a joke, what the child is afraid of is not the bad look, but the feeling that is revealed to him.

To a certain extent, children are a stepping stone, as we all know, children are relatively simple and pure, but adults are much more complicated, children will be afraid when they see some adults, that is, they feel that these adults are not pure.

First of all, it is likely that the baby himself is relatively insecure, so he is afraid of strangers holding him, or he is with one person for a long time, so he will be afraid of other people.

Babies are more recognizant, most of the reason is because the baby has less contact with people, there is a fear of strangers, and it will be fine when the child grows up.

Perhaps, when the baby goes through the "recognition period", he always shows shyness, or rejects a certain person, and parents will feel that the child is not generous enough and seems a little childish.

Whoever hugs and doesn't cry can hug it, what else can I do?

When our baby is six months old, it's not that I don't want to hold it, but sometimes I will cry when I hold it, so let it go, who doesn't cry and let whoever holds it, what's the problem? Now the baby is willing to let me hug it, but both of them are almost 30 pounds, and they often want to hug them, and they really don't want to hug them!

Is it possible to compete with a six-month-old baby, so that everyone who wants to hug can be held? What do you think!

The baby is also an independent person, can you respect it? Why do you have to embarrass the baby with other people's wishes?

Don't talk about character to be cultivated from an early age, this is not a manifestation of self-righteousness, personality is basically innate, and the acquired can only be restrained through self-discipline, and it seems that the character has changed. What kind of character is good or bad, who can say? As long as it's not autistic.

Not to mention the six-month-old baby, even if the baby grows up introverted and is not willing to deal with strangers, there is no need to be extroverted, introverts have the advantage of being introverted, just promote their strengths and avoid weaknesses, why bother to take a standard to card everyone, there is no need to promote shortcomings and avoid strengths, and it is difficult for children to be difficult for themselves!

If you cry, you will be slapped twice, and if you don't cry, you will be fed some chocolate. The character of the doll should be grasped from an early age

The baby is good, and others can't take it away.

That should be or not!

When the child is a small baby, if the mother is enough to give unconditional acceptance and unconditional love, the child will establish a stable sense of security, when he cries, it may be because he can't feel the presence of the mother, if at this time, but also to use some similar crying immunity method to train the baby to be "independent and strong", which is tantamount to pushing him into the bottomless abyss.

The baby is in a symbiotic period with the mother in the first two months after birth, and the baby at this stage has little reaction to the outside world, except for eating and sleeping, because at this time in the baby's perception, the world and themselves are one, just like staying in the mother's womb. When the baby cries, the mother will soothe it in time, and the baby resonates with the mother at the same frequency, and the baby's feeling is the best.

If the baby despairs of getting a timely response from his mother at the beginning of his life (the baby does not get a timely response when he cries, and under this torment, the baby will accumulate great fear and anger), his future life is prone to go in two directions: one is to behave very well-behaved, dare not make his voice to the world, and it is difficult to express his needs to others, such as the good old man and the bird, the heavy otaku and the housegirl; The other is the inability to tolerate unfulfilled desires, often hysterical and demanding without boundaries.

When it comes to childhood, some very small setbacks may cause the child to explode and punch and kick the parents, which is unreasonable. In the face of new things, the Harm family was afraid of challenges and did not dare to explore.

Therefore, when the baby is still young, it is very necessary to give positive attention and companionship.

Because children at this age are very insecure, they must be very scared of strangers, and this situation is actually normal.

This is because at this time, the baby already has the meaning of recognizing people, and he also knows who is good to him, and at the same time knows the arms of familiar people, so others will cry when they hug him.

Because I'm afraid of life. The baby has not seen anyone else and is scared of them, so they cry when they are hugged.

When the baby grows to a certain stage, it begins to recognize the birth, and it is normal not to let some people hold it, or to be close, so don't speculate too much.

A few months after birth to about 3 years old, a child will go through a "recognition period".

Parents may have deep feelings about one thing, that is, when the baby is born, anyone can hold him, tease him, play with him, and the baby will also give positive feedback. However, suddenly at a certain stage, the baby seems to have a temper and does not let someone hold him, and if he is reluctant to hold him, he will not be happy to cry. This condition can persist until the baby is several years old.

This is because most children will go through a "life recognition period" psychologically from a few months after birth to about 3 years old. Although the time for each child's "recognition period" is different, some are earlier and some are later, but the arrival of the "recognition period" is sudden, and some parents may feel caught off guard. However, when the child reaches the "recognition period", parents have nothing to worry about, it is the only way for the child to have his own sense of independence, and it is also a good thing for the child to develop the instinct to protect himself.

Perhaps, when the baby goes through the "recognition period", always shows shyness, or rejects a certain person, parents will feel that the child is not generous enough, seems a little childish, worried that if not interfere will affect the formation of the child's personality, the child will become sensitive, introverted.

Children under the age of 3 should be allowed to be shy.

In fact, there is no need to worry so much, because each stage of children's growth has its own characteristics, and parents do not need to rush to make their children what we want, and use some extraordinary means to force them too early. That will only indirectly make the child more afraid of life and reject the unfamiliar environment.

When the child is going through the "recognition period", what parents need to do is to allow him to be shy, let them relax and present their state, and then parents will look for opportunities to guide the child to grow up and take the initiative to deal with strangers. For example, take your child out more often and encourage him to interact with strangers. As long as you give your child enough time, he or she will most likely be able to grow into a cheerful and lively person.

For children over the age of 3, it is best to help them find ways to overcome their shyness.

Most children are guided correctly during the "recognition period", and they are able to boost their confidence and deal with people naturally, and they will not stay in the shy stage for too long. If the child is over 3 years old and still cannot overcome shyness, parents can observe why the child is shy, whether he is not confident, afraid of certain things, or has too many concerns, etc. Parents help their children solve the problem with the right medicine.

If it really doesn't work, parents should also accept that their children are introverted and shy. In this world, everyone has their own unique temperament, which is not good or bad. Parents accept and love their children unconditionally, which will become the confidence for their children to grow up bravely.