Now I feel so lost, who can help me

This kind of thing happens to every child in China, and parents do it because they know the pain of not studying and looking for a job, because they have experienced it, and they have experienced a lot more than us, and you should not complain here, but have a good talk with your parents. Now you can do some things you wanted to do in your spare time, not that your life is only about work, sleeping, eating, there are still many things waiting for you to explore, and use your spare time interest to improve your habits of life. Half of your thoughts are from your parents and half from the pressure of life, so please relax.

I feel the same way, I feel like I'm always doing the tasks my parents have set me, but these are not what I want to do.

How to say, you haven't experienced the difficulties of finding a job now, so you will feel confused about the future. Your parents' work arrangement for you actually seems to be correct in the future, and we are all confused by the "present", and we only think about the present, not the past! It's like (I used to make this choice, and now I'm going to choose that way, and I'm never going to be as stupid as I used to be.)

Your dreams and your job do not conflict and can be adjusted. Don't get into the nitty-gritty!

First of all, let's adjust your mindset. Don't overthink it. Otherwise, you must be a walking corpse, you should have your own future choice when you are an adult, and your parents have no right to decide what you do now, but these are above your filial piety to your parents to make decisions.

Life is to be meaningful, and if you want to have the future you want, you must have that capital to achieve it. Regardless of the outcome, it's good to work hard. At least no regrets.

You should have your own choice, so that your parents will think that you have really grown up, and the path of many great people is not repetition, but multiple changes have made him.

Go with the flow, don't fantasize, be ordinary, unpretentious.

It's the same ... Unhappy, confused, and miserable.

Are you here to show you confused?

All the sighs are not down-to-earth to do and real, confused and helpless, are not born of the courage to face setbacks and failures, so don't sigh, go do something practical, slowly succeed, there will be motivation,

Think about what else you have, think about what you want to do, and finally think about what you need to do to do what you want to do, and then just start doing it.

Life is like a game, the sweetest laugh at the end, success or failure is often converted in an instant.

Life needs to have a systematic planning, need to lay a solid foundation first, first learn to survive and then seek development, and gradually realize ideals and goals.

If you really want to become a successful person and be invincible, you must not care about the gains and losses of the moment, you must have a long-term plan, and you can win a thousand miles by strategizing, and if you want to succeed, you need to have the following basic conditions: 1. A higher level of knowledge; 2. Solid material foundation; 3. Good personal quality; 4. Good interpersonal relationship; 5. Timely opportunities; 6. Have a series of long-term plans and short-term goals; 7. Good economic operation environment in the surrounding area; 8. Stable and harmonious family; 9. Indifferent mood, optimistic interest in life, open-mindedness, gratitude and other excellent qualities.

Generally speaking, there are three countermeasures: upper, middle and lower:

The next policy - complain; The middle policy - patience: the best policy - seek to maximize the value of the existing position:

To get rid of confusion, you need to be clear about what you can do, what you should do, what you want to do, and take different countermeasures for different overlapping areas.

After straightening out the relationship, start from what you can do to what you want to do, and then expand to what you should do.

What you can do requires self-analysis, what you want to do is your dream goal, and what you should do is your life mission.

If you want to get out of the confusion in the workplace as soon as possible, find out what you are suitable for, what you can do, and what you should do, come to the Dream Come True Bootcamp as soon as possible. If you want to improve your thoughts, behaviors, and results, come to the Dream Come True Bootcamp as soon as possible.

If it comes, it will be safe! It's the most basic thing to stay down-to-earth and learn to master a skill, and when you get out of school, you can get a job and support yourself, right?!

Otherwise, what better way out could you have?!

I'm almost 16 years old this year I'm in my first year of high school To be honest, I panic about learning but I have to learn I am not for the envy of others I am for myself I have to learn for my parents' expectations of me In today's society, it is difficult for college students to find a job And although technical schools can also find jobs, but is it not very tiring If you are down-to-earth and willing to learn, in the future, you may be office white-collar workers Love to fight to win As for your current situation, study hard in technical school You have chosen this path There is no way back You have to go Only in the future will you survive on your own parents will not care about you for a lifetime Friends please work hard for yourself.

When you go to a new environment, there will be a moment of discomfort and confusion. But think about your future, and I think you'll make up your mind about how you want to go down that path.