What good advice do you have for your own growth?

Develop good living habits and have a good character and character.

I have 10 tips for growth.

001: Upgrading cognition is particularly important, reading is the cheapest way to upgrade cognition, more expensive, the effect is obvious.

002: Find your own core values and perfect them in practice, sticking to your own point of view.

003: Most of the time, sticking to your ideas is good for your life. Even if you have a little bit of blood to prepare for the flow, it doesn't matter.

004: It is more important to meditate often, organize your thoughts, and reflect on what you have done than to do things randomly.

005: Make a plan every day, focus on what you want to accomplish, and see how it is done at night. Key locust.

006: Write a success diary, small successes accumulate big confidence.

007: When you record like Iwama, you'll know how much time you've wasted and how much you've done.

008: It's very important to buy your attention with time and money. Use takeout when you can, when you need to focus.

009: Nothing more than asking to meet people, actions speak louder than words.

010: Teach others what you have learned, and teach and learn from each other.

Yesterday afternoon, I saw our Class 135 sharing: "Collective Wisdom - Class 135 Daily Topic", which is about what you usually do when others give you advice.

Very good sharing, I have learned the views of all my comrades-in-arms.

In this article, I also write my own thoughts.

Friends, loved ones, and family members are mirrors that can see you in their eyes. Don't dismiss someone else's suggestion lightly, and of course, you can disapprove of it. However, you have to be good at seeing yourself next to the mirror.

My goal is very clear, to make myself more perfect. So, I value other people's suggestions, especially when they are formally giving me advice. Then, I reflect on my actions, investigate the causes, and seek change.

Of course, the way I make the suggestion is very important, but I don't really care about it, I only care about the content of the suggestion, whether it really helps me.

This is my thought and practice as a recipient.

I'll try to do it in the following ways.

1. Strive to grow yourself and become the person who is qualified to give advice to others. A lot of things don't just work if you say them, you have to be the one who can do it first. If you have an aura, you can be effective. This is a real personal growth and the practice of life.

2. Speak well and be calm, objective and sincere when giving advice to others. When I make a suggestion, I also state the reason for the suggestion—why I am making it; What is in your own interest in doing so; What good is it for everyone that you do well.

Make peaceful and pertinent suggestions in a way that the other party can accept, discuss with him, listen to his ideas, and help him realize them.

3. Under normal circumstances, I rarely make suggestions. If you mention it, it's mostly for your family. Because I think that growth is my own business after all, if he has that heart and works hard, and I am the more important person in his growth process, then at a critical moment, he will ask me for advice.

At this time, express your thoughts to him sincerely and truthfully, and he will definitely benefit.

What he asks for is worth cherishing, and at the same time, it is also an honor to be able to reflect the value of his existence when he needs it.

In short, for me.

When I was advised, there was only one criterion to measure, and that was whether it could promote my growth. If so, be sure to accept it in your heart and change it with action.

Giving advice to others is to create an environment where we can learn and grow together, so I will attach great importance to helping him, and at the same time, helping him is helping myself.