What should we learn from The First Half of My Life ?

This TV series is really good, very intriguing, and the actors' acting skills are great. This is a TV series that reflects the work and life of elites in the workplace, allowing us to see the faces of white-collar workers, which feels very real and vivid, and also leaves us with some profound life enlightenment. Women, be sober, no matter what, don't be a full-time wife, you must not be attached to men, you must have self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance, self-improvement, have your own career, and have your own blue sky.

Don't naively believe in a man's worthless oath, because the oath is only one word different from a lie, it's just a play on words, no one is responsible for your life, hold up half of your sky, otherwise, there will be times when you cry. As the saying goes, people are good and are bullied, Zijun is too kind to be bullied by Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling repeatedly. There is a degree to everything, and if you are too kind and unprincipled, you will be stupid.

Besides, kindness also depends on the object, only be kind to the gentleman, not to the villain! Being kind to the villain will inevitably stage the story of "The Farmer and the Snake". <>

As the saying goes, you can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people. Women in the workplace, in love, must know the meaning of their feminine gender, don't make themselves like a man, as strong as men, you must know that men don't like strong women and women, they like little women who are small birds, and they like meek and weak little women. Tang Jing has a high degree of education, is very good, very capable, works very well, is well-known in the industry, almost perfect, and He Han have complemented each other for ten years, are mutual confidants, and seem to be lovers, but they have never been able to achieve positive results and become husband and wife.

The reason is that Tang Jing is too strong, and he always puts invisible pressure on He Han, and He Han doesn't dare to marry her. He Han's feelings for Tang Jing are more of appreciation, admiration and respect, and lack of a deep-rooted love.

Give time to grieve. Psychologist Florence Falk said that after the divorce, the originally filled corner of the mind suddenly became empty, even if the experiences in this corner were not all good. You may still have a lot of regrets or regrets about the past, and you can let yourself fall into sadness at this stage, but don't dwell on it all the time.

Divorced women should come out of the shadow of divorce as soon as possible. When you are unable to change the status quo of your marriage, divorce is a wise choice to give yourself a chance at redress. <>

Divorced women are most afraid of living in the shadow of the past, and only by repairing the pain as soon as possible can they grasp the future life, especially when they are still young, take good care of themselves. After the divorce, you can go for beauty and improve the dull **; You can participate in physical training classes to restore your previous slim figure; If you can, you can also go out to travel and broaden your horizons, etc., these activities will help you forget the past, regain your self-confidence, and meet the challenges of a new life.

Everyone is busy for their own future and happiness, whether it is blind or not, whether it is effective or not, no matter how close the person is, he is willing to take the time to listen and sincerely give you a little advice, which is already a big face.

The rest of the wind comes and goes in the rain, and you must go by yourself.

In this case, it is better to go out if you want more.

A woman can't be the vine that wraps around a tree! Whether in the family or society, women must have their own economic foundation, and the end of the canary is to be slaughtered! Not only take care of the children's family, but also take care of yourself!

No man wants to see his wife lose to other women in the crowd ......

The TV series "The First Half of My Life" inspired me a lot. If a woman is not financially independent and only relies on men to support her, she is simply unreliable. Therefore, women must not only be financially independent, but also have economic **.

Many women will make the same mistake, after getting married, they voluntarily teach their husbands and children at home, and give up their careers and their own lives.

The three views of the drama "The First Half of My Life" are not correct, and the only inspiration is that women should be independent.

Through the TV series "The First Half of My Life", I felt that it was better to rely on others than on myself. Learn to be independent.

I think it is a great inspiration to use, between husband and wife, no matter how good the relationship is, we must walk together, whether it is a man or a woman, we must have our own independent ability in life, and we must be able to walk synchronously with the person we love

"Halfway home"can still achieve something, and Luo Zi is an example.

Women cannot rely on others, they must be self-reliant and enterprising.

I think as a contemporary woman, you have to be independent.

Everyone is an individual, and they have to work hard and be independent.

I didn't get much inspiration from this TV series.

1. Learn the core rules of workplace promotion.

2 "Whose cheese you touch, the question is with whom".

Whose interests have been detrimental to your plan, then the problem must have been with him. Only by prescribing the right medicine can we better solve the problem.

3 "The road to heaven is endless, since sooner or later we have to start again, we should start from now and race against time. ”

No matter what happens in the workplace, it's useless to be sad. Since you have to start again sooner or later, it is better to start now, a little more time, and one more possibility!

4How to grasp the customer relationship?

5. "Always keep customers in mind, experience their pessimistic and happy emotions, and stand on the same front with them".

6. Why don't you talk about feelings in the workplace?

7 "The vase is not aggressive, and it is the most dangerous to live the dragon and tiger".

In addition to Jin Dong's golden sentences, we can also understand a lot of workplace truths.

The first workplace truth.

Don't bring any emotions to work.

It's a very bad thing to have emotions at work, Chen Junsheng's subordinates in the play did their work badly and were criticized by Chen Junsheng, but the subordinates were sarcastic in their language Chen Junsheng shirked responsibility, such a person is bound to lose her job regardless of public and private, we can guess that she will definitely say behind her back that she is unwilling to stay here, instead of reflecting on her own shortcomings.

The second workplace principle.

Don't bring conflicts between family members or lovers to work.

It is very offensive to mix private affairs with official affairs, which is more important, work or love? It seems that many people are struggling with this question, but it is still difficult to solve it.

The most important thing for people in the workplace is to temper themselves, so that they have the right to be willful.

The third workplace principle.

It's not for nothing that big companies are banning office romances.

Tang Jing and He Han, who used to have a relationship between superiors and subordinates, have never been able to get married in order to keep their distance and communicate less.

He Han also said that he was afraid that he and Tang Jing would go around and around for so many years but still get separated.

Many people who are sensitive to feelings must also pay attention to avoiding office romances, which are likely to affect themselves and others.

Marriage requires communication, tolerance, and gratitude from both parties.

Marriage is composed of two people, since it is two people, it is two independent individuals, since it is two people, there can be only one person struggling, since it is two people, there should be communication and interaction. I once read a sentence in ** that I remember deeply: Only a woman like a woman can get a woman's happiness.

Although it is a little awkward, it is very philosophical, and everyone understands for themselves what kind of woman is a woman like a woman.

A mentor and friend say that love needs worship, and I agree with it, love with worship is not only sweet, but also indirectly proves its excellence, and there is no reason to refuse this little pride. Tang Jing and Zijun worship He Han, Zijun and He Han said: So many women love you, you can love me, I am very happy.

I want to say that marriage needs more tolerance and gratitude, and the decision to be together may depend on some external conditions such as appearance and family, but whether you can be happy together depends on tolerance and gratitude. Principled problems in marriage will not be common, more trivial things, tolerance is the most mature way to deal with trivial things.

Everyone has a time when their emotions are out of control, but every quarrel in the marriage should be meaningful, after it subsides, they should snuggle together to reflect, summarize and correct, and face themselves honestly.

Gratitude makes people satisfied, and thus attains happiness. We should be more grateful to the closest people around us, meeting together in this life may be the fate of thousands of years in the previous life, and the fate is over or the next life may not see each other again. If you know how to be grateful, you will also know how to pay, marriage is like a ballet for two people, you go further and I take a step back, I take a step back, there are advances and retreats to achieve a balance that belongs to two people.

Even in marriage, you must have your own income, otherwise you may lose your right to speak, and you will have no status in family life.

Women should have their own careers, their own independent economic ability, and they are the best ones to rely on, and others can't rely on them.

Any relationship will change, and any love is not from the beginning. There are too many stumbling blocks in love. What we have to do is not to put all our hopes on love.

Sometimes marriage is not as beautiful as imagined, sometimes human nature is cruel, and sometimes part of humanity may be sacrificed for the sake of marriage.

In marriage, men and women should be equal to each other, and the women in marriage are not enough to be men's accessories, they must have their own careers and hobbies.

From the drama "The First Half of My Life", I learned that you can't lose your ability to be independent in marriage, you must have your own opinions, and relying too much on others is irresponsible to yourself.

1 Beauty can make a man fall in love with you, but it may not keep him.

2 Women don't necessarily get loved because they're good.

3 A soft-hearted woman will not die well.

A man, he can get used to you, or he can change you! "I will support you" is the most poisonous word in marriage. Independence is a woman's best capital.

That is, don't believe in men's nonsense, men's mouths deceive ghosts, as a woman, you should still maintain yourself in marriage, and you must not lose yourself.

"The First Half of My Life" is on the air, this TV series starring Jin Dong, Ma Yi, Yuan Quan, Lei Jiayin, and guest appearances by Chen Daoming and others has a compact plot, various characters, and sharp golden sentences, and has received high praise.

The play analyzes complex real-life problems from multiple dimensions.

The characters in "The First Half of My Life" have their complete and independent personalities, and the concepts of each character can also stand up from their own perspectives. Characters such as Tang Jing, who adheres to the doctrine of non-marriage, and Chen Junsheng, who betrays his family, not only increases the watchability of the plot, but also provides the audience with more space to think.

The play teaches us that "we must learn to love ourselves before others can learn to love you".

Most of the roles played by Ma Yili in her past works are women with strong and independent personalities, which also leaves the audience with the impression of a "big woman" of wisdom.

The play makes us reflect on "how to position a stay-at-home wife".

Many wives are dedicated women who are dedicated to losing themselves for the family, this drama is actually to tell everyone, sometimes you have to wake up and think about your own value, the beauty of this drama is not how ups and downs its plot is, but tells us that everyone should continue to introspect.

1, love is an unfortunate plague, and it is worth celebrating if you don't meet it in your life.

Deep down, men always hope that their wives will be their wives and their lovers will always be lovers, like two planets that will always remain at a distance of 30,000 light years, running parallel and never intersecting.

People live for a lifetime, there is no next time, this life can not be improvised, it is not like going out to eat, this time this restaurant is not delicious, just make do with the full, the next time to change the house - the truth is understood, but all people are in the future, just like this, after a lifetime.

4. The road has to be walked step by step, and it is hard to stutter by yourself, cramps and peel the skin to be reborn, and there is no shortcut in addition. - The first half of my life" Luo Zijun.

5. Waiter, salesman, I never thought that I would become one of them, as if I was born as Mrs. Chen, in fact, I was proud, forgot the way I came, I decided to work from this day onwards, I witnessed myself, can be low to the humility of the dust, witnessed the plasticity of life. - The first half of my life" Luo Zijun's inner monologue.

What is marriage, isn't it that life is not easy, and you have to find a teammate to help you in the same boat? - The first half of my life" Luo Zijun.

The anger is also relieved, the door is also broken, and I am gone, so what next, what do I use to get back this game, I don't even have the least self-esteem, only a gambling game, Chen Junsheng pulled me in, the capital was given by him, and now he wants to kick me out, what do I take to leave on the gambling table? - The first half of my life" Luo Zijun.

8, in "The First Half of My Life", after Chen Junsheng officially filed for divorce from his wife, he said this to Xiao San: "Just because she is too good, naïve and ignorant of the world, I have always protected her and isolated all the bad things from her, but I am also an ordinary person, sometimes I also need someone to share my pressure and anxiety, why didn't you show up earlier?" ”