What should I do if I can t get along with my husband after less than a month of marriage?

Updated on society 2024-03-01
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you are in your 30s or 40s, it is normal to have sex once a week, and it is normal not to touch you, and if you are less than 30 years old, it is normal to have sex basically every week.

    He doesn't touch you, you should look for reasons from other aspects, don't guess, what husband and wife are most afraid of is guessing each other, if it doesn't work, just ask directly. If you want to die, you have to die simply.

    At the same time, you have to pay more attention to him, maybe because of the pressure of work and life. He was thinking about other things.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not normal, there is something wrong with Tintin.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Calm down first, think clearly about why this is happening, find the reason, and the two of them communicate well to solve it, just getting married is still in the run-in period, and there will definitely be contradictions.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After getting married, it is a family, and it is not easy to become a family, what can't go on, as long as both parties respect each other and tolerate each other, they will be able to manage a good marriage.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After just over a year of marriage, I felt that I couldn't go on. It is difficult to maintain a normal marriage like this. In marriage, there is a saying called the seven-year itch.

    You don't feel like you can go on this year. Is there any reason that people nowadays are pursuing emancipation of the mind and freedom in life. Maybe you fall into that category.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I feel that I can't go on for a year, I think I still think I should run in again, don't blindly bring it up to break up, talk to each other, summarize each other's situation for a year, how can there be any problems, improve each other, I think we should continue to live.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Marriage requires the husband and wife to use wisdom to operate, you can't say that you will divorce when you encounter something, you think that if you can't get by, there must be a problem, two people communicate well, two people to solve the problem, and then the marriage is happy and long-lasting.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you really can't get by, then you can only separate, after all, marriage is like this, if you say reluctantly, you will definitely not be happy, and you still have to go your own way.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What should I do if I feel that I can't go on after just a year of marriage, I feel that I can't go on, and the two of them have a good talk, but they really can't live and have to break up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After just a year of marriage, I feel that I can't go on, which proves that you are still very hasty in this marriage, and if you don't have children, it's really best to divorce.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you feel that you can't get by, then just divorce, there is nothing to worry about this.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Think about what is the reason why you can't get by, whether you don't love it, or if there is a misunderstanding between two people, you can communicate and solve it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If that's the case, I don't think your relationship is particularly good, so there will be reasons why you can't get by.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The days are long, why can't you live for more than a year? Is there a problem with both of you?

    If there is a problem, you should talk to each other openly, see what the problem is, tolerate each other, and change the shortcomings, I think you will be happy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What should I do if I feel that I can't go on after just more than a year of marriage, and what kind of relationship mode will make the marriage and love relationship more stable?

    Many people will always ignore their partners' feelings and lack of communication with each other after marriage, which has a certain relationship with the sudden increase in work and life pressure after having their own small family, and the direct consequence of this is the infinite cold war between two people, and the feelings are exhausted in this infinite cold war. The relationship between husband and wife is to be cultivated by both parties, just like raising flowers, no matter how good the variety, no matter how good fertilizer and sunlight are, but without careful care, it will still wither. Husband and wife have to communicate, no matter what is the situation now, how to get married must be because of the relationship to come together.

    In marriage, in addition to attracting each other's hearts, but also to make the other party feel happy with you, but many couples have their own independent social circle after marriage, both parties are busy with work, and gradually the outlook on life and values will change, and the angles and views on things are different, so that if you do not solve the problems between you in time and change your mode of getting along, it is easy to lead to more and more conflicts between husband and wife.

    Experts say that the stability of the relationship between the sexes is that the two are no longer easily attracted to someone other than their partner, or they subconsciously deliberately downplay the beauty, humor and wisdom of other members of the opposite sex. Therefore, in marriage and love, you must know how to establish the commonality of both parties, increase the communication opportunities between you, and make progress together, which will often make your subconscious docking, look at the problem with the same viewpoint, and reduce the appearance of contradictions, which can make your relationship more firm, and will not easily destroy the love between you because of the appearance of a third party.

    There is a common goal, there is a common belief. Therefore, husband and wife should communicate more, be considerate of each other, open each other's hearts, and ask for leave to spend some time to go out for a walk and recall the good things in the past. Therefore, if you want to maintain this almost broken marriage, on the basis of increasing communication and exchanges, both parties should also think more from each other's point of view, and be more tolerant and understanding of each other.

    Once there are contradictions and differences, find a way to resolve them as soon as possible, instead of adopting the methods of the Cold War, which is a major taboo in marriage and will kill the "life" of the marriage.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello, what is the reason why you have to communicate with the other party in the first place? If the other party refuses to be like this, such a veritable marriage-type search can be ended.

    Yes? You don't want to touch me after a year of marriage.

    Yes. He said he wasn't sick.

    This phenomenon is very abnormal. Either the other party has a very deep love heart, or the other party's sexual orientation is different.

    I've seen that, no problem.

    My colleague's uncle was hungry for a woman he loved, but he couldn't love it, and he was forced to marry her aunt for three years because of the pressure of imitation limbs, and Beisen didn't touch her aunt, and then the two divorced. Her aunt regained her happiness.

    If after the ditch is destroyed, your husband is still my own way, you should choose Xiangqing to end this nominal marriage to find your own happiness, and don't hang yourself on his crooked neck.

    He didn't care about separating.

    He also said that I was cold and that he was not interested.

    Is this a grudge against you that he tortures you like this? Whether he wants to go on or not, you can choose to appeal to the court of appeal or live apart for two years.

    He's insulting and torturing you!

    My dear, he treats you so ruthlessly, don't waste your feelings and time on him anymore, decisively end this nominal and insulting marriage, and find the person who truly loves you and happiness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Marriage is not child's play, you just got married for a month and you don't like your husband, what is the reason? Is your husband doing something wrong? How long have you known your husband and been married?

    Didn't you have an in-depth understanding before you got married? Why did you get married so hastily? Here's a suggestion for you, just for your reference:

    First of all, you analyze the reason why you don't like your husband, if he has any principled problems that are unforgivable, then divorce as soon as possible while he has no children.

    Secondly, husbands and wives should understand each other and tolerate each other. If your husband is not at fault, I advise you not to be too willful. Divorce has a big impact on a woman's worth.

    Even if your marriage history is not long, only a little more than a month, your worth will also depreciate by more than 60%. If you remarry, in fact, other men are very taboo.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    How can this be? You still have a long way to go! It's time to adjust yourself!

    Besides, it's not easy to get out of a house and enter a door! None of the original matches are good! Try to find out what is good about him!

    Try to love him all over again! Having time to calm down and have a good conversation, or going on a couple trip is a great way to improve your relationship!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    How long have you been in love, why don't you like your husband, you are married, and the rice has been cooked and cooked.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't you have an emotional foundation?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Whether it's a flash marriage or another marriage, there will definitely be some stumbles after marriage, but those are trivial matters between husband and wife. Learn to be tolerant and understanding in everything, and everything will work out.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Life will always be bumpy and bumpy, if you can endure it, you can endure it, and if you can let it, you will let it.

    If it's too much, you don't have to put up with it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I've always been cautious about the question of "love", because love is complicated! Sometimes it's simple.

    Regarding your question, you can refer to: Your problem is that you love your husband very much, and your husband loves you too, but he likes another person very much. Ready to divorce you?

    One, if you love him, you have to be with him. During this time, you care about your husband on the one hand, and look for opportunities to meet the female colleague. You can talk about your husband very calmly and ask her a few questions, Do you like my husband's place?

    Why did you want to divorce your husband, did your husband agree? You can give up a 5-year relationship at any time, how can I trust my husband to you? If you really love my husband, I can leave if I am ruined, but after you have to deal with your problem, you can find my husband again?

    Show your generosity, of course, you can't let go), and you have to think of all means to meet the husband of that female colleague to understand the actual situation of the two of them, and decide what to do next.

    Take advantage of your husband's family and show that you are in harmony and harmony. Desperate to leave your husband behind.

    Second, you love him and you want to give your husband to someone else. I won't say much about that. Anyway, your husband is yours, and you have an advantage in yourself, since you love, why don't you work hard? That's it, it's just a superficial personal opinion, good luck!

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