After two people get married, who is the right couple to manage the money?

<> many of the weddings I have attended will have a similar interactive activity - the bride and groom bow to each other, and the master of ceremonies asks: whoever looks up first will be in charge of the money. At this time, the bride usually looks up quickly, and the groom must not make any movements.

Marriage is the emotional union of two people, and it is also the economic union of two people. Therefore, after we get married, we must talk about money, who controls the economic power of the family, and how to divide it, are all problems that every couple has to face.

After getting married, who cares about the money as a couple? After asking a circle of people around me, I basically can't do without these five modes.

First, the traditional male protagonist is outside, the female protagonist is inside, and the wife is in charge of the finances.

Many people believe that "the wife has the financial power to stabilize the family". After the two formed a family, the husband worked hard outside and handed over the money he earned to his wife. With merit and life wisdom, the wife took charge of the finances and settled in the rear.

The family has a clear division of labor, is harmonious, and lives a better and better life.

Most of the older generation is like this, men pay their salaries, receive some pocket money every month, and don't care about anything else, so that women have a sense of security and a sense of accomplishment in controlling the family's finances.

Second, each family manages their own money.

Most of the people who practice this model want to have full financial freedom, some do it for convenience and convenience, and a few do it because "no one can convince anyone, so they just take care of their own affairs".

Third, take care of yourself, but the husband pays half or part of the income specified by the wife.

This model is the most popular compared to others, and for women, it not only gives the husband a certain amount of financial freedom, but also ensures that the power is in her own hands.

Personally, I think this approach is the best, with both freedom and constraint.

Fourth, the husband is in charge of the money at home.

There are generally three reasons for this method: the wife herself is more afraid of trouble and hates numbers; My husband is better at managing money than himself; The wife is a stay-at-home mom and has no income.

Most of the women who don't want to manage money have a good income, are financially independent, don't like to worry, they have a sense of control over their lives, and they don't need the financial power of the family to bless them.

Fifth, no one cares about money.

This kind of family economic model, most of which is because the young couple has no concept of money, and feels that "everyone uses money together, and it is impossible to talk about who cares"; "Both sides are lazy and everything is casual"; There is also "moonshine, no money to care".

We get married and start a family so that 1+1 is greater than 2, so who cares about the money between husband and wife? The essence of the question is, who is in charge of the money, and the happiness index of the family is higher?

It is best for girls to manage money, because in this way the man will be desperate to earn milk powder money, and will not mess with flowers.

Wife, after the wife gets married, she generally has to take care of the children at home and take care of the family, she has no income, and she has to control the money to have a sense of security.

Personally, I think it is more appropriate for the woman to manage the money after marriage. Women are more careful than men in spending money, and women also know how to plan their own money, so that they can make their family's life better and better when they have savings at home. Men are not suitable for money because they spend lavishly.

It depends on who has the ability, and the most suitable for managing money is that it is not impossible to save, or that the money will be spent very quickly without planning to do anything.

Every family has its own way of getting along with husband and wife, how to be comfortable, you can't just because someone else's husband is in charge of money or your wife is in charge of money, your family must also follow the rules and standards of other people's families.

Cutting and hanging everyone's personality is also different, is your husband or your wife exactly the same personality as someone else's wife? Other people's wives or husbands obediently hand over the money to their lover to manage, so is your lover so well-behaved? Is it so willing?

If the money of the two husbands and wives is still in charge of their own money after marriage, then your family income or quality of life will only move forward steadily, which is also very good, or at least to fight and maintain a balance.

If you feel that the income of both parties is stable or gradually increasing, but your quality of life is gradually decreasing, or the relationship between husband and wife is gradually declining, then this pattern of getting along is definitely not right.

This is not to say that after marriage, whoever is the one who manages the money at the beginning will have to manage the money like this all his life, you can exchange financial power with each other, let each other be considerate, it is not easy to be a housekeeper or a better way to manage your life, it is okay, and it is not immutable.

But all the premise is the same general direction, that is, for the sake of a more satisfying family life, the conditions of life are more abundant and improved, if you feel that you are not as good as before after getting along, then you must adjust back to the original appearance.

Therefore, no matter whether the money of the husband and wife is put together, managed by one person, or managed by each other, there is no touching the principle, the bottom line is okay, it is stable with the family, as long as you think clearly, in case the family is separated, whether you can take advantage of the other party's money, with such psychological preparation, you can determine whether it is appropriate or not for both parties to manage their own money.

"If both parties have a certain degree of independent economic ability, and the economic conditions are relatively good, and the earning ability is relatively strong, so that the husband and wife are in charge of their own money, and the AA system is implemented, which also has certain benefits. Because after all, both parties are not short of money, and the aspects of using money are more clear, so the economy is more independent, and the relationship in the family is also more harmonious. I don't care about each other's money at all, I have the ability to earn money, so that the relationship between husband and wife will not cause disputes due to economic reasons, and there are relatively few conflicts in the relationship between husband and wife, because they are all positive and enterprising, and there are more positive thoughts, so it is better to get along with each other without admitting defeat!

Each family has its own habits, and it is normal for both spouses to manage their own money after marriage. Some couples like the AA system and are in charge of their own economic foundation, so that they are also equal at home.

In life, husbands and wives have their own money, good and bad, and each has its own swings. What happens to the money depends on the situation. As the saying goes, "talking about money hurts feelings".

In fact, people who are not mercenary will argue for money. Even intimate couples will have their own views on money. The contradiction between money domination and management is the first cause of marital friction.

First, let's analyze the various aspects of married life.

It would be better to put it together. Because it's easy to control your spending.

This is normal, and it can go on for a long time.

Because each person's personality is different and each family's situation is different, the way of management is also very different. Then I'll talk about a few ways that couples manage money that I have learned. First of all, the husband and wife get their own wages, which requires both husband and wife to have their own jobs and be financially independent of each other, but there must be a clear division of labor in the cost of wages, otherwise it is easy to cause family conflicts.

If there are large expenses and money is urgently needed, such as buying a car, buying a house, being sick and hospitalized, etc., both parties will use their savings to deal with it together. Secondly, it is the woman who manages the money, and the man who earns the money. This method is a more traditional method, and the idea of "male dominant, female dominant" is deeply rooted.

There are generally two kinds of women in this way, one is that the woman does not earn money, and she is a pure housewife, who needs to use the man's economic income to support the family's expenses; The other is that women make money, but the man's money will also be managed by the woman with full authority.

The reason is that if a man gives money to a woman, the woman will feel that the man loves her and loves his family wholeheartedly; Of course, there is also an important reason that men's ability is not as strong as women's, in terms of self-control or investment ability, women are more good, not as good as men gambling and fun, so women must not let men stick to money. Then, it is the man who manages the money, which is relatively small, but my family is like this, because I have a big heart and don't like to worry, so my husband is responsible for all the purchases in my family, including my food, clothing, housing, and transportation, so my salary is under his control after I leave my pocket money. The women in this case are relatively large, not very sensitive to money, and worry-free.

Finally, there is another method that I do not approve of, and the method that very few people use is that the money of the husband and wife is managed by the mother-in-law or mother-in-law. Marriages like this around me ended in failure. I have always adhered to the principle that two people's homes should be run by two people, and no matter which way, mutual trust and mutual understanding are the kings of running a good family.

After marriage, it is better for the husband and wife to manage the money of the woman, the woman knows how to be diligent and thrifty, and knows how to dispose of the money, the man has bigger hands and feet, and it is difficult to control his desire to spend money.

It's better to manage your wife, and if you don't have a suitable investment channel, then it's better to manage your wife.

Personally, I feel that it will be better to keep it for my wife, because it has always been popular for women to keep the family's money, and women also know how to control money.

According to a certain proportion of husband and wife management separately. This method is different from the AA system, but there are similarities with the AA system. I'm not in favor of an absolute AA system, because both parties have different earning abilities, and there is also a difference in the amount of family affairs that both parties bear.

If it is a simple AA system, the woman earns a pitiful amount of money, so can she use her own pitiful money? It is difficult for a woman to earn as much money as a man, or even more than a man, although there are such cases, but after all, it is rare. So, what exactly is the method of managing joint property separately for a certain percentage of husband and wife?

It's hard to fully explain a sentence or two. There are a few key points we can grasp to understand the meaning of this sentence.

1. Separate management, each in charge of its own, each with its own use, which is similar to the AA system, can avoid a lot of quarrels in daily small expenditures.

2. Proportional distribution. This is different from the AA system, which is based on the original proportional management, which is actually a redistribution of the joint property at the disposal of the husband and wife. For example, the husband earns 10,000 yuan a month and the wife earns 3,000 yuan a month, but the wife undertakes the main household chores.

If according to the simple AA system, the husband cares about the 10,000 he earns, and the wife only cares about the 3,000 he earns, and he has to bear the family expenses, is this fair? Therefore, the wife should have the right to dispose of the property of more than 3,000 yuan per month. Whether it's 5,000, 6,000 or more depends on the situation.

Marriage is both a happy time for many people, but it is undeniable that marriage also comes with some additional financial pressures. However, at the same time, there are also some opportunities to save money after marriage. Here are some of the necessary expenses you may be able to save when you get married.

1.Rental and installation costs: Usually, after marriage, the husband and wife will live together with the hail, and they will jointly bear the rent and purchase of the house loan. In addition, marriage can save a couple of dollars and decide together how to decorate the house.

2.Living expenses: After getting married, couples can share the cost of daily living, which means that certain expenses are reduced, such as groceries, utilities, communications, etc.

3.Medical expenses: After marriage, couples can enjoy the common benefits of medical insurance, as well as the policy of medical reimbursement for family members.

This means that some medical expenses are reduced to reimbursement and lower expenses. Out: After getting married, a car for the husband and wife means that they share the cost.

At the same time, after getting married, you can also share the cost of driving, such as fuel parking.

Family entertainment expenses: After getting married, couples enjoy some family entertainment activities, watching electricity, dinners, traveling, etc. This activity and proximity, and can help couples save some unnecessary expenses is just an example, each family's love is not the same as the key is that the husband and wife understand, understand and cooperate, can make a family budget and the rhizosphere situation is only reasonable and moderate consumption concept, in order to enjoy the happiness in marriage at the same time, but also to achieve about and financial planning.

I want to ask you: After you get married, who will take care of the family's money? After the sedan chair banquet is married, how to manage the money, which is a closed problem, today I will talk about my views on this matter.

I am a big proponent of joint management of property after marriage. It is very important for husband and wife to manage their finances together in a marriage. Here are a few reasons to support joint management of your finances after marriage:

1.Reach a consensus: Husbands and wives should agree together on the use and management of shellfish dogs. This will help ensure a fair distribution of assets and avoid disputes and conflicts arising from financial problems.

2.Financial transparency: If the spouses do not have a clear idea of how to manage their finances together, there may be a situation where one spouse has complete control over the financial matters and the other spouse may feel excluded.

Managing finances together can increase the transparency of financial matters and improve the fairness and trust of the relationship.

3.Alignment of goals: Managing finances together can help couples plan their family financial goals and improve the overall effectiveness of their family finances. When it comes to managing family finances, couples should work together to make decisions and make sure that both parties have a clear understanding of the family's financial goals and budget.

4.Preventing Harm from Failure: Managing the finances together can also help prevent financial misconduct from harming the family's finances. Without a common management system, there will be financial misconduct and may even lead to family breakdown.

In short, Wu Kuji, the joint management of property after marriage is to protect family harmony, share financial risks, and reach a consensus. At the same time, it also helps couples to have a clearer and more transparent understanding of their family finances, and to plan their family finances more clearly and methodically.