In love, when do you feel like it s time to stop the loss and break up in time

When you are in love, if you feel that there is nothing to say between two people, and you also feel that you have made mistakes many times and the other party does not correct them, you will also find that your attitude towards yourself is very cold at this time, and you should stop the loss in time and choose to break up.

When you don't pick up, it means that he has no intention of continuing with you, so break up quickly.

When falling in love, many times it is not smooth sailing, and when some of the following situations occur, we should decisively propose to break up and stop losses in time.

First, when you frequently make overtures to the other person, and you keep giving but don't get a response. It is estimated that the other party does not fancy you at all, you have taken 99 steps forward, and the other party is unwilling to take a step to meet you, which shows that the other party has no feelings for you at all, and you need to defend your own dignity at this time and decisively choose to let go.

Second, if you find a character problem in the other party in the process of falling in love, you should decisively choose to leave. When you find that your partner has a problem with his character, such as having a wrong outlook, this is not an ordinary trivial matter, and if you continue to dating, sooner or later you will be led into the ditch, and it will also affect your next generation.

Third, when you find that the partner is actively having an affair with another person of the opposite sex, or stepping on two boats, you should choose to leave quickly at this time, and never try to save your love, because this is definitely not the last time.

Fourth, when you fall in love, you find that the other party has a tendency to do things, and at this time you are decisive to let go, this kind of thing is only the first time and unlimited times, and you must not take chances.

In the process of falling in love, we should be sober-minded, carefully understand the other party's character and attitude towards you, and find that some of the above situations must stop losses in time to avoid falling into trouble.

Falling in love, talking, is communication, in-depth understanding, but also mutual inspection, running-in, to see if the other party is suitable for themselves, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing, one wrong step, one wrong step, irreparable.

1. Have a family history of genetic diseases, that is, parents and relatives suffer from serious illnesses before the age of 50, especially cancer, infectious diseases, and congenital diseases. It's really not discriminating against patients, after all, marriage is really living, having children, and not doing charity. Like is like, pity is pity, don't mess up, stupid can't tell the difference.

2. Divorced families, especially when the children are very young, the parents divorce, the children's unsound growth experience, personality will be distorted, extreme inferiority, extreme, competitive, especially the congenital lack of resilience in marriage, leaving when they say they leave, and extreme selfishness.

3. Falling in love for a short time involves borrowing money, and I still feel that I should take it for granted. On a psychological level, falling in love should be a social behavior, not an economic behavior.

If one party keeps making excuses to borrow money, no matter how much, it should resolutely refuse and not open its mouth. Because once falling in love is mixed with money, the taste changes, and once it is ten thousand times, it becomes a matter of course. When you wake up and feel wrong, the breakup will be entangled and messy.

Falling in love is not a catwalk, not a simple matter between men and women, it should be multifaceted, especially the social background, family style, do in-depth understanding, step by step penetration.

The most important thing is to listen to the opinions of your parents, parents are from the past, other people's, their own, are all experiences, are all advice, parents' love for their children is the most selfless, but also the most thorough, no matter what the parents' attitude and behavior.

Even if you feel particularly sweet now, your love will have to stop in time.

Let's start with the ugly words: the "loss" in love is not all negative, not all of them will bring you negative energy, and even some losses are often wrapped in a particularly sweet coat.

Whether it's negative feedback or positive feedback, when your relationship is "out of balance", you should realize that you need to stop the loss in time.

This is the true description of many couples' relationships: at first we feel that the other half is simply our destiny, and every day with this person will be a sweet love, but after a long time, we gradually begin to become emotionally unstable, revealing a desire to control, and insecure.

I said one thing in the lecture: some of us choose a partner who often exposes our flaws.

For example, if a person who is insecure ends up finding a person with high value and strong attraction as his girlfriend, then the boy is easy to suffer from gains and losses in the relationship, and gradually his emotions begin to get out of control; For example, if a person with a weak personal will finds a person who has no idea about doing things and can't make up his mind, the result will be that the two people will become more and more confused and anxious together; A strong person, looking for a careerist, as a result the emotions become more extreme, and the quarrels become more frequent.

When you realize that your relationship with your partner will gradually bring out the dark side of your personality, you should stop the loss in time and choose to break up. It may be your fault, or it may be his, but what we have to realize is this: if you continue like this, the two of you will torture each other.

That person may be very good at first, and even if you break up in the end, you still think this person is very attractive, but if you are in the process of getting along, your negative emotions are uncontrollably breeding, then you still have to choose to separate.

Some injuries come from the interaction between two people, while some injuries are applied unilaterally, if you directly feel the other party's hurt to you in the relationship, my advice is: stop the loss decisively and leave immediately.

When you are in love, you need to stop loss, and there are many situations of breaking up, of course, because there may be many types of relationships between two people, such as:

1.When the sense of trust in each other is lost, it is recommended to stop the loss and break up.

Couples are two of the most special people in the world, not related by blood, even strangers who have never known each other, but because of hormonal relationships, they can quickly connect.

It is precisely because you don't know each other well that the relationship that is quickly established can become the deadliest thing between you.

Neither of you has a deep understanding of each other, so even the slightest problem can easily turn into a big crisis.

Because of the distrust of the other party, the relationship has reached an impasse.

The least thing that a pair of lovers really love each other is to trust each other and understand each other.

Once the sense of trust in each other is lost, it will be accompanied by all kinds of suspicion and anxiety, and if such a relationship is not resolved, it will be tormented by each other if it continues to be maintained.

Therefore, once the sense of trust between couples in each other is lost, they must either find a way to restore their trust, or leave as soon as possible and stop the loss in time.

2.A relationship, not only the parties themselves, but even others feel tired when they see it.

However, due to various fetters, time, economic and other reasons, no matter how bad the relationship is, the parties are not determined to break it off.

Such a tiring relationship, if you don't find a way to solve it, a stop-loss breakup is the best choice.

Life is too short, why do you have to make it so difficult for yourself, let yourself live a life in quarrels and discomfort?

A relationship, whether it is friendship, love or family affection, or other interpersonal relationships in life, if it feels wrong, it should be stopped in time.

Ending a bad relationship in time is a relief for both others and oneself.

A comfortable relationship requires two people to work each other, and if you stop losses in time, you will definitely get happier and happier.

Ending a bad relationship in time is not a weakness to the unknown, but for everything to develop in a better direction.

How to judge whether a relationship is healthy or not, and whether it should break up.

In intimacy, "love" is disguised. Many people mistakenly believe that as long as they are in love with their partner or even married, it must be a loving relationship.

But not necessarily. The love between many couples and husbands and wives is not actually love.

For example, a person with a low self-esteem, she has low self-esteem in love, has a strong sense of low price, thinks that she is not good enough, and is always dependent on her other half.

Many people who are in love will form a relationship of "dependent and dependent" with their partners. In such a relationship, the dependent partner will stick to the other half, want the partner to be with him often, take care of his feelings at all times, and often express his dependence on the partner.

The dependent party will feel that he is needed in the early stage, and his sense of self-worth will be satisfied, and the longer the time, he will find that the relationship becomes extraordinarily heavy, and he will feel tired and exhausted to meet his partner's dependence and take care of her emotions at all times.

Therefore, the relationship between the dependent and the dependent is not love, love is mutual giving, attraction and appreciation of each other, and "dependent symbiosis" is that one party lacks strength and one party passively pays, and the relationship formed by two people is easy to break down.

For others, their "love" is a need.

Such people are in a relationship, such as insecure, they need their partner to satisfy their sense of security, they will ask their partner to respond at all times, and they want their partner to tolerate them when they lose their temper.

In such a relationship, they will emphasize their feelings, make their partner accommodate and obey them, overemphasize their own needs and ignore their partner's needs.

At this time, she and her partner formed a relationship of "need and be needed", because she lacked strength, so she especially needed her partner to make up for her inner shortcomings. And because the needs of the partner in such a relationship are ignored and always focus on your needs, he will feel that he is not valued, not loved, very depressed inside, and will explode emotionally after a certain conflict arises and leave you.

A healthy relationship is not about dependence and need, but about love.

True love, two people are independent people, the inner independence and integrity of the self, there is no missing, they can attract each other, appreciate each other, will know how to express love, do not escape, do not be anxious, and have the energy to love each other.

And many people do not have the energy of self-love and lovers, so they regard love as the antidote to their own life, but this concept will inevitably lead to the breakdown of feelings.

A healthy partnership must be respectful, trusting, honest with each other, equal and independent, and supportive.

When many people are in love, they don't actually take the initiative to break up with each other, because they think that this kind of thing can still be saved, and they can slowly make the relationship between two people better through hard work. But in fact, if we can stop the loss in time at this time, it is good for both of us, so when we are in love, under what circumstances do we need to stop the loss in time?

In fact, falling in love is also hoping that two people can get along happily, and find their place in this relationship, and find a mode of getting along with each other, so if we often quarrel when we are in love, or even cold war, then I think it may be necessary to consider stopping losses in time. Because in the process of quarrels and the Cold War, the emotions of the two of us are very bad, and if this is always the case, it also means that the two people have a big difference, and if it continues, it will only consume our feelings.

Another point is that if the other party is in the process of falling in love with us, the relationship with other members of the opposite sex is also very intimate, or even excessive.

behavior, then I think it can also be stopped in time, because at this time, he is actually not very serious about our feelings. In this case, many people will actually consider the foundation of their relationship with him, and then choose to forgive them for being like this all the time, and then the two of them can't solve this problem well until the end. So why don't we choose to stop losses in time at the very beginning?

Everyone should have heard the word PUA, so if we feel such signs in the process of falling in love with each other, I think we also need to stop losses in time, otherwise we will only hurt our spirit and emotions a lot. In fact, the biggest thing about PUA is that they will belittle us and then improve themselves, and make us feel very inferior in this relationship. The relationship itself is equal, why should they be promoted through this kind of debasement, and falling in love is also for two people to be able to progress together, so if we feel that there is something bad in the relationship, we must stop the loss in time.

I feel that I have been working hard, but the other party has not responded in the slightest, and is very cold to me, and I can cope with everything or even ignore it at all, and I have to stop the loss in time at this time.

When you know that the other party doesn't really love you, and the other party has a lot of vices, laziness, and likes to abuse others, you should break up with the other party in time.

If you are wishful thinking and there is no return for your efforts, you should stop your losses in time.

When I feel that my girlfriend no longer loves us, I should stop the loss in time and break up.

First of all, when your girlfriend doesn't love you, the relationship has lost its proper meaning. The purpose of two people being together should be to support and love each other, not to make each other feel miserable and uncomfortable. If your girlfriend doesn't love you, then the relationship is meaningless to you.

You shouldn't waste time and energy on someone who doesn't love you.

Second, staying in this unhealthy relationship can have a bad effect on your mental health. When your girlfriend doesn't love you, you may feel hurt, disappointed, angry, and frustrated.

Finally, it is very important to respect yourself. If you stick to an unhealthy relationship, you're actually torturing yourself. You deserve to be loved and respected, not neglected or abused.

Therefore, when you feel that your girlfriend doesn't love you, you should have the courage and self-esteem to end the relationship.

Before ending the relationship, you may be worried that you will be opposed and hurt by your girlfriend. But you should know that this is a normal reaction, as she may feel lost, painful, and frustrated.

However, you must take responsibility for your decisions and explain your thoughts and feelings to her. You can give her respect and care, but at the same time be firm in your position.

In conclusion, when your girlfriend doesn't love you, you should end the relationship in time. It's not just for your own benefit, it's also for her benefit. Although it can be a painful process, it is a very necessary process.