Always deliberately stay away from the people around you, stay away from these seven types of people

You're sick! You'll hurt your friends even more! You shut yourself off and think you didn't pull anything.

You are the one who hurts your friend the most! I have that true friend who wants you to stay away from me! Unless you have autism!

Don't know who the people around you are referring to? It shouldn't be all of them.

If you like (people who are good to you) it's good that you do that, and that shows that you're a good-hearted, kind person.

I want her to be happy and protect her well.

Have faith in yourself, you have to know that you are not a lone star, and you can make others happy because of you.

Distance does exist as a fact.

<> "Human experience is far away from these seven types of people around you.

Otherwise, sooner or later you will suffer, especially the third and fifth.

1. Stay away from people who look down on you.

If someone deliberately belittles you and insults you, you don't need to argue with them, they just want to beat your self-confidence and make you ugly with these words. The calmer you are, the more they look like a clown.

2. People who like to snoop on privacy. Don't think that they care about you, they want to use your privacy to get a hold of you and use your weaknesses to their advantage. Remember, it is often the people you know most who can hurt you the most, and never discuss your privacy and secrets with anyone.

3. Stay away from people who are in negative moods. This kind of bad predecessor is full of negative energy, often complaining, pessimistic, and negative emotions when encountering a little thing, and they will subtly affect your mood and career. After a long time with him, you will also start to become negative.

People who can do it without being negative are not ordinary people. Joy and anger are invisible, likes and dislikes are not expressed, joys and sorrows are not different, life and death are not dependent on the sky, you are a real master.

4. I haven't been in touch for a long time, and the person who suddenly found you hasn't been in touch for a few years, and suddenly comes to you, either looking for you to borrow money, or planning to push you into the fire pit. No matter how good the relationship was before, you must be vigilant.

5. Stay away from people who tell you. Don't be fooled when someone tells you who is talking about you or scolding you behind your back, he is an eventful villain, telling you to see you and the other party have a conflict, and wait for you to lose both. It's not a bad thing for someone to talk about you behind your back, and they don't mix as well as you when they say that they are renting Qingqing.

Whether it's the person who talks about you or the person who snitches with you, it's a group of rabble, and the mouth grows on them, we can't control it, just let them go, there is no need to waste your essence with a group of people who don't have the strength.

6. Stay away from people who only talk about feelings but ignore interests In interpersonal communication, interests are always greater than feelings, which is the essence of human nature. People who only talk about feelings and ignore interests will never be found. Material is the foundation of feelings, free feelings are destined to be exchanged for more expensive prices, in addition to your parents, even your own brothers and sisters may not help you unconditionally.

People who only talk about feelings and don't talk about money are often designing traps for you, and at the beginning they make their interests clear to you, and people who are talking about feelings are often true gentlemen.

7. Stay away from people who don't understand the world.

They don't know how to give, they don't know how to be grateful, they only know how to blindly take from you, and they won't reflect on themselves if something is wrong, but will find problems from you, thinking that you are stingy and we have no reason to treat a person who doesn't understand anything. People compare their hearts with their hearts, and they can get along better if they understand the sophistication of human feelings.

It is time to examine yourself. If everyone starts to distance themselves from themselves, then it must be their own problem, see if you do something wrong, correct it immediately.

You should reflect on your own shortcomings and then change your shortcomings into strengths, so that you can change the situation.

First examine whether there is something wrong with you, and if so, change yourself. If not, you can ask the people around you what they are willing to do, communicate more, and you will naturally become familiar again.

When the people around you gradually distance yourself from you, you have to think about what the reason is, communicate with him in time, and then use practical actions to save him.

Worrying that the other person dislikes you and doesn't like you enough, worrying that you put too much hope into the person you like and the relationship, and you will only be disappointed in the end.

Let's imagine that if someone you like comes to you and confesses, will you say yes? Probably except for a very few, most people will fall into happiness and be happy for this kind of mutual affection. Is it at this time that your heart will not think about how to stay away from the other person?

In fact, the reason why you want to choose to stay away deliberately is because you can't control the other party's thoughts, you don't know if the other party likes you or not, you are pessimistic when you think about it alone, and the emotional ending predicted is not very goodSo you are scared and can only choose to stay away before you get hurt more, so as to protect yourself.

In fact, your own "inner demons" are the crux of the whole problemYou are worried that the other person does not like you enough, that you are not good enough to disappoint the other person, and that you are worried that your normal life has been affected. After all, it is a person who likes it so much, and seeing that he can't get it, his heart is bound to be as sad as being pierced with a dagger, so in order not to experience this feeling, in order not to lose, and to protect himself, most people will choose not to have it, because then even if it is uncomfortable, it will not hurt.

So, the starting point of all actions is because they care too much. But shouldn't young people have a vigorous love? Timidity will only have no chance, be bold once, even if the ending is unsatisfactory, just work hard and not regret it.

Let me answer.,I'm the type that will subconsciously stay away every time I meet a girl I like.,And the more you like it, the more away you are.,Even if the other party shows me favor or has the same good feelings.,I once thought it was my own psychological problem or low self-esteem.,Later, I gradually realized that it's actually too strong to control myself.,I don't like the feeling of uncontrolled emotions.。

If you can avoid violent joy, you will naturally not suffer a great sense of loss.

You may feel inferior and feel unworthy.

You may feel that you have no chance and have to give up.

Does distance produce beauty? Why stay away from it.