Does the big difference in education between husband and wife affect marriage?

Is there a difference between a junior college and an undergraduate? If not, then my boyfriend is also a graduate student and I am a bachelor's degree, I don't think the two people have a common language, and I don't think he is profound, as long as you pay attention to enriching yourself!

Yes, it has a lot to do with it, my boyfriend and I are like this, the so-called common language is ** and the environment you are in, level, not a level, the thoughts are difficult to match, you will always use your own ideas to look at things, after a long time, there will be quarrels, quarrels will hurt feelings, the so-called family pair also has this kind of saying, think about it.

It shouldn't affect the relationship, but both parties will lack a common language!

It shouldn't be anything, and the attraction of two people to each other is not academic qualifications.

For example, I am a master's degree, and my girlfriend is still a technical secondary school, so there is no barrier.

It's you thinking too much about yourself, hehe. I'm often called nerdy by my girlfriend.

Influential.. Hehe. At least there is a language barrier to communicate.

Men should be smarter than women!

Education doesn't mean anything (in marriage).

The most important thing is quality!

Education doesn't mean anything (in marriage).

The most important thing is quality!

Education is now going one way.

The road gets narrower the further you go;

Graduate students study a certain aspect of an industry.

I can't figure out how the so-called academic qualifications are mixed with the holy marriage.

In today's society.

Graduate students still can't find a job.

Be a good person, no matter what life you are.

If you have the ability, you will bring her happiness!!

Two people with too big a gap in education get married, then there may be a situation where there is really no common topic, so the family background should be found to be the right person, and the education level should also be found to be the right person, many times if the education gap is too big, it may end up in separation, unless another person with a low education level can work his own, he did not go to school well in the early stage, and he had to work hard in the later stage.

You have to know that a person with a high degree of education, even if the start is not very high at the beginning, but if he really has real talent to learn, and the school is not bad, and the education is very high, he will slowly catch up in the later stage, at least it is unlikely to do the work of the assembly line, but if a person without education, if she does not study hard, she can only work in the assembly line or a clothing store in the end, and the two people actually don't have much communication, but if the two are really together because of fate.

But if you say what will happen to them in the future, I think even if you don't get divorced, you will not be happy, both of you are like this, because there is a class like this around me, the woman was very beautiful when she was young, she worked as an assembly line worker in the factory, and the man was a poor boy, but he was admitted to a good university, and later entered the factory to do management, originally it was just a small management, but because of the high education of the people, they did have the ability, so they were later promoted.

Now they belong to a very large factory as a factory director, and the wife is still a housewife with a junior high school education, they have been married for more than ten years, and now they have not said divorce, but the man does not have any topic to talk about with his wife, so the wine will see him more, and the wife is the kind of person who has no heart and lungs, but even so, he still has depression, and now he needs to take medicine to adjust his mood.

So you see, two people with a big gap in education, is it difficult to be happy together, because they can't talk together at all, and the person who is poor, if he doesn't work hard, may really be in the end, because the gap is too big.

It will affect the communication between husband and wife, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the education between children, and the difference in three views, and it is often easy to quarrel.

The impact of marriage with a large educational gap is not conducive to the mental health of both parties. To be honest, people with a large educational gap will have a lot of suspicions together, and both parties live very hard in order to integrate into each other's world, and such a high-pressure life for a long time is not conducive to mental health at all.

People with a particularly large learning gap, after getting married, there will be a generation gap between the two people, the words of the two people are always the donkey's head is not the horse's mouth, and the three views of the two people are also inconsistent, and there will be many problems when communicating, which will also affect the feelings of the two people.

The large gap in education between husband and wife may have a certain impact on the relationship, but it is not absolute. The specific influencing factors have a lot to do with the situation, such as the personality of both parties, family background, education level, educational experience, etc.

Some studies have shown that couples with similar educational levels are more likely to communicate and understand each other, and are more likely to form a mutually supportive relationship. Couples with large educational gaps may have large differences in occupation, social circles, etc., and need to spend more time and energy to adapt and coordinate. But other studies have also found that couples with large differences in educational levels tend to cherish each other more and work harder to maintain their relationship, which leads to deeper emotional connections. Punch.

Therefore, whether the large difference in education between husband and wife will affect the relationship should be evaluated on a case-by-case basis, and both parties should respect each other, support and trust each other on the premise of tolerance and understanding, and jointly manage a happy married life.

Generally speaking, there will be an impact. Building a good relationship requires the efforts of both parties.

No. Because there is a big gap between my education and my wife, I graduated from college, my wife graduated from elementary school, and our relationship is very good, so I don't think it's true.

I can tell you clearly that if there is a big gap between the education of husband and wife, it will indeed affect communication. Of course not, academic qualifications alone have an impact, and the family education environment also has a great impact, because if you can be admitted to university, graduate students have a relatively strong learning ability, but your vision and insight have little to do with your academic qualifications.

If the husband and wife have too many educational differences, such a marriage may quarrel constantly, because your three views are different, your cognition is also different, and the way of thinking is also different, which is easy to cause your ideas to become a lot of differences But slowly, the husband and wife can also change, and the other party can slowly change your mind.

This is not true, if there is a stable emotional foundation between two people, and the relationship is well managed, the educational gap cannot be a problem.

False, the educational gap between many couples is very large, but they live very happily, such a statement is too one-sided.

I think it depends on the situation. There are many factors that affect the relationship and feelings of husband and wife, and academic qualifications will also play a certain role in marriage. However, as long as you can talk, academic qualifications are not too important.

Some people may say that this will affect the three views, because the impact of the environment on a person is really too great! In a good university, it is a general rule that you come into contact with all kinds of thinking people, and if you have a high level of education, you will have a high level of personal quality. In such a circle, in the communication with the surrounding classmates, the horizons are subtly broadened, the things you come into contact with are more level, you know more, and you have a set of your own ideas in dealing with things and solving problems.

Over time, driven by high education, the world view, outlook on life and values have changed accordingly.

People go to higher places, and the water forgets to flow low, they will want to open up their own wider world, have higher goals, and pursue a nobler life.

Compared with people with low academic qualifications, those who are in college or even junior colleges, they do not have so many opportunities to contact the wider world, the school's teaching resources are insufficient, the teachers are not strong, the teaching mode is solidified, and the freedom of college students is gradually lost. Schools are relatively strict because they don't have enough autonomy.

But I don't think this can affect the two people getting along, they can be together, they must have something to attract each other, and there is a common idea. Ideas are important, and even if there are big differences in academic qualifications, they can complement each other, so I think love is enough.

The big gap in academic qualifications does not mean that there are no common hobbies, common topics, common beliefs, and common goals, but these are the basis of feelings.

So I think that when talking about feelings, we should not pay attention to academic qualifications, but also pay attention to the similarities, in layman's terms, it is compatible, in addition, we should also pay attention to ability, which is the guarantee of the future, only this can make life secure!

Talking about feelings needs to have a foundation, there is a premise, feelings can not be eaten, life needs to have a material foundation, but also a spiritual foundation, only a reasonable combination of the two, feelings can be long-lasting.

agrees, because when getting married, they should be the right person, and the two people should be of equal strength, so that the two people will have the same three views.

agree, because the disparity is too great, there will be great differences between the two people's behavior and thoughts, quality education, life experience, social experience, treatment of people, interests and hobbies, etc., and often make the two people appear different frequencies.

I agree. Because if there is a difference in education between husband and wife, then there will be a generation gap, which is not conducive to improving the relationship between husband and wife.