What should I do if I like someone but don t know how to get along?

Have skills in getting along with people you like. Cultivate common hobbies to have a common language, but also have your own unique hobbies and keep them unique so that you can be attractive. Learn self-control, don't show it too obviously, don't lose yourself if you like to care, self-esteem and self-love.

Be confident, don't interfere with his personal privacy too much, whether he likes you or not, you have to be confident, once people have low self-esteem, there is no point, be a sunny person. Know how to properly cover up your shortcomings, don't expose them in front of the people you like, and then strive to become better and better. Look around more often, don't blindly only look at him, so that if the result is not good, it is easy to accept.

Psychologically, you should relax yourself, go with the flow, and don't imagine your shyness too seriously, you must first have self-confidence, think more about your strengths, don't always think about your shortcomings, gradually change your opinion of yourself, and give yourself more confidence. And as you get older, the chances of contact with the opposite sex will also increase, and with the experience of contact, the tension will gradually decrease. Pluck up the courage and keep practicing, after a long time, you will be naturally generous, come to the level of tension, no matter who you get along with, there will be no problems!

Give it a try! ‍‍

There are many people who always like to disguise and hide in front of the people they like, and they are too much to please, and deliberately portray themselves as a good man, so that not only they are very tired, but they may be beaten back to their original form at any time, and they will not have a deeper communication and understanding with each other. So you have to be your true self and show yourself calmly, I am who I am, although I am not very good, but I have my personality and principles. ‍‍

If the other party knows that you like her and is willing to continue to get along with you, it means that she also has a good impression of you, then you are very likely to be together. In this way, in the process of getting along, you should be sincere with each other, understand each other, and treat each other sincerely, so that you can go further. If the other person doesn't know that you like her.

At this time, you should take the initiative and be enthusiastic when you interact with her, so that you can get closer to her and understand each other more. But don't confess too early, which will make the other party think that you are frivolous and have a weak sense of trust. ‍‍

For the person you like, there is really no need to cater to each other's preferences everywhere, learn this and that to make each other happy, you can tease for a while, can you be willing to tease each other for a lifetime, then again, the other party will definitely not like a person who does not have his own principles of behavior, it is better to be the original self than to hollow out the hollow to manage a relationship to be much happier. ‍‍

Meeting is a kind of fate, when you meet someone you like, don't only see his sunny side and his advantages, but also have the courage to face his shortcomings, but also have a tolerant heart. Don't play a little temper or because of some small contradictions, just say that you break up easily, hurt others and hurt yourself, be true to yourself, I am me, don't deliberately cater to him, because no one is perfect, we must continue to improve ourselves. ‍‍

Boys are used to attract. Then the premise is that you have to enrich yourself, improve your social value, and naturally attract others. Specifically, it is about paying attention to the external image.

Make more friends of the opposite sex. When getting along, show weakness to the opposite sex appropriately, so that his desire to protect is stimulated. Don't do gratuitous giving.

Occasionally, create opportunities to be alone. ‍‍

When I was in college, I met a girl I liked, but I didn't know how to get along, I was too introverted, and I didn't know what to say to a girl. Later, I went online on my own, and I should talk about some topics with girls when I was dating. Luckily, we're happy now.

As for the question of whether to talk to the person you like, and what to talk about to the person you like to get him, I will give you my opinion.

If you are a person with a high level of love and a very good mentality, then you can take the initiative appropriately, and the masters are good at taking the initiative. But initiative is not equal to upside down, initiative is not equal to entanglement, initiative is not equal to low. (emphasis added).

This kind of initiative is a kind of relaxation.

A kind of moisturizing things silently penetrates into the other party's life, greetings, care, small talk, and in general, it is an output of value.

What is the output of value, I will send 2 dialogues for you to compare.

F: Are you off work?

M: No. F: Do you have to work overtime today?

M: Plus, it's going to be a busy day.

F: Then you should be busy first, pay attention to rest

F: Are you off work?

M: No. F: Do you have to work overtime today?

M: Plus, it's going to be a busy day.

F: I'm busy and I want to eat.

M: Got it, I ate it.

F: What do you eat?

M: Whatever you want.

F: How can you eat as much as you want?

If you were a boy, which girl would you prefer to talk to?

The correct posture of the initiative is to know the sense of proportion and continue to output value.

What is the output value, your care, your care, your praise, your thoughtfulness, your sympathy with the other party, the other party's pleasant emotions by chatting with you, etc., are all considered a value output.

People naturally want to get close to people who output value, and remember that it is output value, not entanglement. Many girls can't grasp the sense of proportion, and they turn their care into entanglement.

What is entanglement, when the other party is busy, they still talk to each other, when the other party is not very interested, and when the desire to reply is not strong, they continue to have nothing to say, and when two people have nothing to say, they continue to talk awkwardly, and every time they wait until the atmosphere drops to the freezing point and the other party does not reply to you before ending the topic.

There is also a kind of entanglement is the desire to preach and solve the problem is particularly serious, when the other party just complains to you, you analyze the matter from the beginning to the end from the inside out, from top to bottom, and you are almost a mind map.

And SWOT analysis table,Basically, in this case, the other party will reply to you with a word.,Plus an emoji.。

Because when the other party complains to you, what he wants is emotional resonance, and if he wants a solution, he will tell you clearly that I have a problem and want to ask you for help.

If you are the kind of girl with a weak mentality, then I don't recommend you to be particularly proactive, because when you take the initiative more, and the boy's reply is not as you expected, you will fall into self-doubt and self-denial, you will suffer from gains and losses, and you will be frightened, and you will collapse before you start the war.

The so-called appropriate initiative to adjust their communication methods and communication frequency according to the feedback given by boys, if you can do a one-to-one ratio is the best, if you can't do it is at least 3 to 1, that is to say, your initiative is to be effective, is to hear the splash, is to have feedback, rather than blindly active, if one party blindly takes the initiative then it can only be called self-moved.

So don't dwell on whether or not to take the initiative, or when to take the initiative, the question is not that important at all.

When you like someone, you should get to know him slowly, and then get along with him as a friend, step by step.

If you don't know how to get along, it means that you don't know each other very well, and after more contact with each other and a lot of common experiences, you won't have this feeling.

If you like someone very much, but you don't know how to get along with him, I think it takes two people to slowly get in touch with each other and get to know each other.

You have to have a way to do things that she can get along with. You and he get along together and relax the relationship.

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Summary. Let's talk to him briefly about his daily life and learn about all aspects of his life.

What if you like someone very much but don't know how to get along with them?

Let's talk to him briefly about his daily life and learn about all aspects of his life.

Get along like ordinary friends, slowly get used to it, and the feelings between each other will also increase.

We're already in this together.

According to his interests and hobbies, talk about what he likes.

For example, how is today's work and study.

But I wonder what to talk about after the conversation.

You can also talk to him about more meaningful things that have happened in your life.

You can also talk about your plans for the future.

Maybe I've been used to pretending to be sensible with objects before, and I'm used to getting along with objects like this, of course, the previous ones were not as good as him.

He kissed me hard, and the first time he kissed me, I felt better, why is this?

He was the first time.

Maybe it's because the first time was clumsy, but both sides have a good feeling.

Summary. In fact, two people have to feel when they are together. If you don't meet and don't know what to talk about on WeChat, you can suggest greeting them at ordinary times and then do your own thing. Give each other some space.

What if you like someone very much but don't know how to get along with them?

How old are you? If you are young, don't confess to him, you don't show that you like him, it's okay to have a normal relationship, and if you like others, you should like it silently. Otherwise, it will ruin your friendship.

If you confess, whether he accepts it or not, no one will benefit in the end, either like the enemy, or no one will pay attention to anyone in the future. Really, it's a rule of thumb.

We're already in this together.

Actually, it's good to meet in real life, better than not knowing what to talk about when you don't meet.

If it's the other way around, then you have a sense of crisis.

In fact, two people have to feel when they are together. If you don't meet and don't know what to talk about on WeChat, you can suggest greeting them at ordinary times and then do your own thing. Give each other some space.

But I don't like him, I hope we have a good conversation.

Really, don't talk deliberately, it should be natural.

1. The first thing you need to do to like someone is to express your love and let the person you like know.

2. Because true love is the courage to express, no matter how the other party responds, it must be expressed first.

3. Secondly, you need to dare to accept challenges, dare to face reality, like is two people's business with each other, if you are rejected, you must dare to face it.

4. In the end, if you like it or not, you must grasp the opportunity, but you must also grasp the proportion, and if you have the opportunity to pursue, then take advantage of it, if you really don't have the opportunity, don't fall into fantasy, treat it correctly.

Whether you like it or not, you have to get along with him, let me teach you a few points: 1. Learn to be tolerant Don't worry about small things. As the saying goes, "if you lose, you will fight together".

When you encounter a little unexpected conflict of interest, you might as well learn a little golden mean: let you take a step back and be naturally wide.

In addition to the working relationship.

Don't have too much contact with him.

But don't let him know that you don't like him.

If you make him think that you have a better relationship with him.

Then your way of doing things is more mature.

Smile at everyone every day, only maintain a working relationship, work interactions, and don't speak ill of him, if he is a bad person, everyone knows that gossiping will affect your image in the eyes of others, and you must be calm and calm to deal with all kinds of people. Just my opinion.

Try to get along with him as little as possible, and if you really have to get along, persuade yourself to calm down. Don't do anything against him. Just do your part.

The world is pluralistic and complex, and people are also multi-systematic, so we must learn to be tolerant of others, not only to appreciate the advantages of others, but also to strive to tolerate the shortcomings and shortcomings of others. Don't always focus on the faults of others, but always think about the good of others and always think about the kindness of others. In this way, after a long time, it will be adjusted, otherwise it can only add troubles to yourself for no reason.

I still think you should treat him sincerely, look at his good qualities, and slowly resolve the conflict between the two of you. If you have more friends, it's easy to walk!

Don't clash head-on, reduce the time and space of contact, and slowly move away from each other.

Find out why you hate each other.

Only by finding the cause can we solve the problem at the root.

Out of sight, out of mind.

If this annoying person can cause your mood swings to a large extent every time he appears in front of you, then you might as well take the initiative to avoid the other person and make yourself out of sight and out of mind.

Learn to control your emotions.

If you really can't avoid the other person, you don't need to take the initiative to talk to the other person at this time.

Keep your mouth shut.

When facing people we don't like, in addition to learning to control our emotions, we should also control our mouths, and never let ourselves fall into an embarrassing situation because of the momentary speed of our tongues, or directly hand each other because of "misfortune comes from the mouth".

Learn to look at things in two.

Sometimes the reason why we dislike each other may be because we don't have a good understanding of each other's character, and we just look at each other from a single event, so that our view of each other will become a little biased and not comprehensive enough, which affects our pertinent evaluation of this person.