What kinds of children seem to be very sensible, but it is easy to suffer dumb losses?

When I took my children to play in the community, I witnessed such an incident, the two children were happy to play together, but child B suddenly snatched child A's toys, and the parents arrived in time during the dispute, but because child B was more eloquent, and child A did not know how to express emotions, the end of the matter was that child A apologized to child B. I was very helpless when I watched it from the sidelines, it was obviously the fault of child B, but child A suffered a dumb loss because he couldn't express it. In real life, children with the following personalities are most likely to suffer dumb losses, and parents should help him correct them in time.

Paying too much attention to other people's evaluations.

In life, if there is no evaluation of others, then it is difficult for us to have an objective understanding of ourselves, and the evaluation of others is like a mirror to a certain extent, which can reflect some problems that we cannot find ourselves. So it's not a very bad thing to pay proper attention to other people's evaluations. However, some children are more sensitive and fragile and not very confident, so they will be very happy when they hear praise from others, and they will be very depressed when they hear criticism from others.

If your child has such a personality, parents should educate the child in time, don't let him care too much about the feelings of others, and live his own life is the most important thing.

Doesn't express emotions reasonably.

I have found that many children do not express their emotions well, when they are angry, it is like a small cannon fight, no one can provoke them, and when they are wronged, they will only cry vigorously, these manifestations show that children will not express their emotions reasonably. Such a child is at home, and the parents may let him, but when he enters the society, it is easy to suffer some dumb losses, like child A, who does not know how to express his true emotions.

Always trying to please others.

Today's children basically grow up in honeypots, so they like to be self-centered. But there are also some children who are very fragile and sensitive in their hearts, because they are worried that others will not like them, so they will try their best to please others. Such children may seem to give people a very sensible feeling, but they are actually exchanging their own compromises for the love and praise of others.

In the face of this situation, parents should educate their children in time and tell themselves that they are the protagonists of life, and they do not need to accommodate others, but they must live their own wonderful lives!

Zhang Ailing once said that no matter how bad your conditions are, there will always be people who love you, and no matter how good your conditions are, there will always be people who don't like you. If you don't want your child to suffer dumb losses in the future, parents should actively guide and help your child form a good character!

There are many children with different personalities, such as shy, and then non-talkative, these children are easily bullied at school, and then it is easy to suffer dumb losses.

Children of these personalities. The first is unscrupulous, and the second is generous. The third type has a dull personality and does not like to say it.

The first point is that the child does not like to talk much, such a child seems to have a good personality, but in fact he is a mute, the second point is that he does not like to talk very much, and the child who is not confident is definitely a dumb loss, and the third point is that the child is particularly introverted, and seriously autistic, such a child basically suffers from a dumb loss.

<> "Children have these 7 personalities, and they are easy to suffer when they grow up.

Can't hide it. Everyone knows that big things are big, and if there is no city government, it is easy to be manipulated.

I can't stand the grievances.

If someone scolds you once, you have to reply to him ten times.

Irritable personality. But if something happens, the first year of hunger can't be solved immediately.

I can't tell the difference between truth and falsehood.

Always take other people's polite words as sincere.

It's too easy to give sincerely.

casually met someone who could chat a few words, and thought that he had met a true friend.

If you don't get along with someone, you will turn your face on the spot.

Without tolerance, it will be difficult to get along with each other in the future.

Unforgiving.

Grabbing a problem can keep talking about others, which will only hurt people.

As the saying goes, personality is determined by the fact that every child's personality is different when they are young, and each has its own personality. Children with a more cheerful and outgoing personality are generally more likely to have better interpersonal relationships when interacting with others, but some people are more cowardly, love to take advantage of small advantages, and do not know how to reject others.

Children with general personalities will be more timid when dealing with others, dare not do one thing independently, and rely on their parents to do things, if their parents are not there, they will only use crying to solve the problem. When the child is in kindergarten, the teacher will cultivate the child's ability to be independent, if the child is very weak in kindergarten, I am afraid that he will often be bullied by other children, and slowly become particularly easy to suffer in the collective, and after a long time, the child will lose so self-confidence and become particularly courageless. Therefore, if parents find that their children are cowardly and timid, they must encourage their children more and let them try to make them brave.

Many children develop the habit of being greedy for small things when they are young, because children don't know what is their own and those things are not their own, so they like to take what they want as their own, which is a typical phenomenon of being greedy for small and cheap. Some parents always feel that their children are still young and ignorant, and they will give their children what they like, so that after a long time, they will become very fond of their children, take advantage of other people's things, and even go to other people's houses to play, and they will take some things away. Such children will suffer a lot when they grow up.

Some children do not know how to reject others when they interact with others in their daily life, they are afraid that they will hurt others, and they are also afraid that they will lose friends, so they are always not so much under the command of others. Although such a child has a good reputation when he grows up, he always suffers and does not know how to refuse other people's requests, which is not good.

Children with cowardly personalities, children with low self-esteem, children with a not particularly good family environment, often bullied by others, have no principles and no bottom line in doing things, and will always be dependent on others.

Temper is particularly big, does not know how to be modest, often loses temper with others, very arrogant character, children with this character will definitely suffer in the future.

Children with a pleasing personality are likely to suffer in the future, and children with this personality will rather wronged themselves in the future than fulfill others, which is particularly hard.

As parents, we hope that our children will grow up safely and happily, and we also hope that our children will be excellent and prosperous in the future.

The old man often says: children, three years old to see the old, seven years old to see the old. This sentence makes a lot of sense, what the child will do in the future can actually be seen from the personality when he was a child. If the child has this kind of personality since childhood, then it is easy to suffer in the future, and parents should not be regarded as sensible!

I was too sensible to see a sentence that day, and I instantly burst into tears: Children who didn't want candy when they were young don't want it when they grow up.

Many times adults expect children to be sensible and obedient, hasn't Jay Chou also sung such songs? "Listen to Mother", we ask our children to be obedient, but when the children are really obedient, they will feel very sad and distressed.

Take the baby to the supermarket to buy something, he wants chocolate, in fact, in terms of candy and chocolate, I have never been too strict, I promised to buy it for him, and then I saw a cookie, I asked him if he wanted it? The baby shook his head: No!

At that moment I really wished he said: I want to!

Coming out of the supermarket, I held his small hand with my big hand, and we walked all the way home, and there was a sigh in my heart: the child has really grown up!

Why do children who are too sensible tend to suffer when they grow up?

This morning I came to the company, when I was about to sign in, I found that the mobile phone was not connected, I thought it might be the beginning of the month in arrears, so I called**, sure enough, **could not be dialed out and prompted that the mobile phone was in arrears.

I was thinking, if you didn't charge your phone bill at that time, then who would find out that your phone was out of charge? Probably no one!

Sometimes it's like this, when you are too sensible and well-behaved, others will ignore you, because you always don't ask, why do others think of you?

How to let children grasp this degree?

Sensible is not the same as being a good bully, this must be taught to children, no matter at all times, there must be principles, to know how to refuse, if you don't know how to refuse, then people will live very tired.

I remember when I was in school, the teacher told a story that A and B were good friends, A didn't like eggs, and every time he gave B the eggs from the cafeteria, one day A and B had a new friend C, and A gave C the eggs to eat, but B was in a mood and didn't want to be friends with A anymore, but B forgot that the egg was originally A's.

People are like this sometimes, just like in "The Sea of Life", the colonel was driven crazy in the end, in fact, because of the evil in everyone's hearts.

Just like a good person, you should do whatever others say, and after a long time, others will not remember your goodness, and once you refuse, others will think that you are not interesting enough.

Therefore, at all times, we must teach our children that they can be kind and sensible, but they can't have no bottom line and can't be bullied.

It's generally a more forgiving character, because such a character will suffer a lot.

It is an introverted personality, because introverted children will not fight for their legal rights.

Forbearance, whether it is a child or an adult, blindly forbearance, in the end it is only yourself who suffers.

Children with this kind of personality are the most likely to suffer losses in the future, but unfortunately many parents think they are sensible!