When there is a crisis in marriage, how to tactfully repel a third party?

My husband and I met on a blind date, and I was 28 years old at the time, so my parents were anxious to ask people to help me introduce people. Under their arrangement, Wang Jie and I met.

I graduated from graduate school and worked as a teacher at a university, and I was a good-looking person. Wang Jie is also very good, graduated from a prestigious school, worked in a public institution, and served as a small leader. We got a marriage license after a year and a half of dating, and on our honeymoon, we went on a trip to France, and our friends were very envious of us as a couple.

After our honeymoon, our lives were calm again. Wang Jie is very busy with business, often socializing, and I am also busy preparing for classes and conducting research every day, and the communication between the two is slowly decreasing. But out of trust between husband and wife, I am still full of confidence in married life, and I think that I will definitely grow old with Wang Jie.

I remember that it was a weekend, Wang Jie had just returned from a business trip, and I took him shopping. We arrived at a shopping mall, and Wang Jie was changing clothes in the fitting room. Suddenly, the phone in his coat rang, it was a text message.

I flipped through it, but it was a woman who said, "I miss you." "I know the sender, it is Wang Jie's colleague Zhang Yun, and they are in the same office.

Just as I was struggling with my thoughts, Wang Jie changed his clothes and came out, I didn't speak, I just handed him the phone. He took it, glanced at the text message, and pretended to be calm and said, Zhang Yun likes to drink, and after drinking, he sends text messages everywhere, and the one he sent to Xiao Liu last time is my turn this time. I didn't want to make a big fuss, so I didn't say anything more.

My silence does not mean retreat, I have heard too much about this kind of thing, and I have seen it too much, but as a knowledgeable and cultivated woman, I have to solve problems in my own way. In order to keep my happiness, I told myself that I must first make myself "strong". In the following period, as long as the conditions permitted, I would go to Wang Jie's unit to wait for him after work, and sometimes I would bring some homemade snacks and ask Wang Jie's colleagues to share them, of course, including the woman.

At the same time, I began to bask in happiness in Wang Jie's QQ space, pasting all the ** during our honeymoon and outing, hoping that woman would retreat in the face of difficulties.

Unexpectedly, my strategy quickly worked. Her husband rarely receives ** again, and Zhang Yun often makes sentimental remarks in the space. One night, I told my husband that I had known about him and Zhang Yun for a long time, but I was willing to give him a chance again, and I didn't want to ruin our relationship.

Wang Jie may have realized my hard work, hugged me, and said that he was just confused for a while, and he would completely cut off contact with Zhang Yun in the future.

After the turmoil subsided, the husband felt guilty and often rushed to do housework at home. Looking at his lost appearance, I think that forgiveness should be worth it. And I also want to change the posture of a strong woman, be a smart woman who knows how to live, and firmly grasp the heart of her husband.

When encountering a third party in marriage, the most taboo is to cry and hang the third child, it is recommended to find real evidence, and then the husband and wife sit down to talk, can the marriage continue?

If you can't continue, if you can't get it back, then try to fight for your own rights and interests, and if you can get it back, then find a way to break them off.

Let yourself get out of this marriage this morning, when you encounter a third party in the marriage, it proves that this marriage has come to an end, and you should quickly get out of this marriage and let yourself return to the original A

Be brave and face up to your own shortcomings when a third party appears. What made the other party betray him? Sometimes the forces are mutual, and it cannot be one-sided. Find some reasons from yourself to get yourself back on track.

can only divorce, so that you will not be wronged in any way, and it will also let the relationship end. You can get the corresponding property.

First of all, you can communicate with the other party to understand your own shortcomings, and secondly, you can threaten the other party with divorce.

I think that at this time, we must adjust our attitude in time, find the right way to deal with it, don't blindly tolerate it, protect our rights, take out our own posture, and let the other party realize its mistakes.

You should understand the problems in the marriage, find a third party to meet, explain the husband's living situation, and you can also choose to divorce by agreement to solve the problem.

In such a situation, you should discuss it with your partner first, and be sure to verify it before dealing with it.

You should negotiate calmly, or choose to divorce, draw a line with the other party, and be sure to maintain a calm attitude.

I think it's okay to divorce each other, because a relationship like this is not very happy at all.

It is necessary to strengthen communication, but also to understand the real thoughts of the other party, and not to be too impulsive when encountering problems. Resolve it calmly.

Legal Division:

Here's how to deal with a third party in a marriage:

1. If the other party can change, use hints to resolve the conflict. Generally, the man has a mistress, and the woman doesn't want to divorce, so he quietly hints in life that the man already knows that he has a mistress, but the woman doesn't say it clearly, so she saves enough face for the man.

2. If the other party is always teasing, you must resolutely leave the other party.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1062 The following property acquired by husband and wife during the period of marriage shall be the joint property of the husband and wife and shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife

1) Wages, bonuses, and remuneration for labor services;

2) Income from production, operation and investment;

3) income from intellectual property rights;

4) Inherited or donated property, except as provided for in item 3 of Article 1063 of this Law;

5) Other property that shall be jointly owned.

Husband and wife have equal rights to dispose of joint property.