Debate competitions are easy to fall in love with, and difficult to debate

Why is it easy to fall in love and why is it difficult to get along?

What you have to do is to find evidence that it is easy to fall in love, but it is difficult to get along, and to find the kind of person who has a lot of experience in love is a kind of evidence that it is easy to fall in love, and then it is difficult to get along, that is, there are so many divorced people. It's because it's hard to get along. And so many lovers didn't go to the marriage hall in the end because it was difficult to get along.

In short, if you think about these aspects like this, you should know what to say.

Scientific research has proven that men and women fall in love because of a secretion inside the brain, and this secretion does not last very long, so love cannot last forever. Long-term love is usually not real love, and it may be responsibility or family affection for two people to maintain a lover relationship, or it is the regeneration of secretions when both parties call again. So it's easy to fall in love.

And getting along is related to the personality and hobbies of the two people, etc., two people may fall in love with each other for a moment, but it takes a lot of time to get to know each other.

I've played this debate, it's the opposite, I'm defining him as falling in love is a relatively long process, and even getting along has the meaning of being included, but it's a bit of a suspicion of sophistry, although in the end it was won.

To get back to the point, I'll give you a definition of yours.

1 First of all, you can define getting along bigger, not limited to 2 people, but also involving their social relationships, family means that 2 people get along not only to consider themselves, for example, parents restrict you from interacting with someone, which brings pressure to get along with the scope of difficulty, (the definition should be very careful, this definition should stand on its own).

2 In this way, Juliet and Luo are a good list, and there are a lot of them in life, and then they say that love is simple, 2 people fall in love with each other, are introduced by friends, and they will love each other after getting along for a long time. But if you want to make someone fall in love, it's very difficult, for example, 1+1=?Simple and easy, isn't it?

Now everyone knows it, you go and let the baby who is just 3 months old do it, 3 people will inevitably experience at least one love in their lives, and it is true that it may not be successful, but will it be difficult for everyone to experience this basic thing? (Don't care about the result of love, just say that people will experience love).

Okay, let's talk about it, and I'll do it for myself.

Falling in love is often just a moment when two people meet.

It often depends on fate, and when fate arrives, it is a natural thing to produce love.

It's like meeting the right person in the right place.

Love is usually able to talk about everything.

But getting along is not the same.

Getting along is not a momentary thing.

In fact, getting along is the process of falling in love.

At the same time, getting along is not only the beginning of love, but also the beginning of the end of love.

So when they are in love, it seems that anything can be tolerated between men and women, including each other's shortcomings and mistakes.

When people who love each other start to get along, for some reason, it is often difficult to tolerate these shortcomings and mistakes, if not if they are not shortcomings and mistakes, it is difficult to accept.

So it's common to hear blaming the other person, such as: Why did you become like this, you weren't like this before.

But these can be solved, how to deal with these problems, is the problem in getting along.

Therefore, some people's love is consumed by these problems. : Love, become not love: Therefore, fate must be cultivated, otherwise we can only face fate without fate, and it is really easy to love someone

But when we get along, we know that it's not as simple as we imagined.

Everyone is changing because of something.

There are also some people who change in order to adapt themselves to certain environments.

When the two adapt to each other, if they don't handle it well, there will be problems getting along.

Love someone, perhaps because of what they look like or what they are easy to touch on the surface.

To understand a person is to see through each other's hearts.

No one has some "secrets" hidden, often just someone can't grasp it and gets lost.

Hello dear, we believe that the so-called love is based on the premise of a certain economic and social foundation, and the feelings of mutual love between men and women. And the eternity of heaven and earth is as long as the existence of heaven and earth, and it is described as eternal. In addition, "once had" means to have before, and finally "to be" means to point out the essence of things.

Bai Yang, a master of humanities, once said, "Love does not develop logically, so we must always pay attention to its development and changes." Love is not an eternal shirt, so it must be constantly pursued. "For love, we must look at it in combination with social reality, so that we can find the true meaning of love that conforms to objective facts.

Now listen to our point of view: it is true that there are only two kinds of human love, one is the eternal love that starts from the Angwang, that is, the eternal love. There is also a kind of love that is based on objective facts.

However, people live in this society and cannot exist independently of the objective environment. So now we can only regret to tell the other side that the eternal love is just a beautiful virtual scene, which cannot be touched or eased.

Only the love that we once had is the love that can be obtained, and the love that is worthy of our cherishing and care. Of course, it is also the ideal realm that we dream of, but how many dependents can last forever throughout the ages. Su Shi once had the eternal swan song of "I wish people a long time, thousands of miles together", and he himself is just wishing.

It can be seen that this eternity is just an ideal, and the conservative ancients did not dare to say that the eternity is eternal, let alone today's people. Mr. Lu Xun once said: "In a non-ideal society, there can never be an ideal love."

Can the opponent's friend rationally tell me that "modern society is a completely ideal society"? Apparently not. To sum up, eternal love is just a kind of self-deception, the once romantic has become perfunctory, and no matter how beautiful the feelings have become textureless after a long time of worldly washing.

And the love that once had makes people cherish it. That's why I think love is about having it. Thank you!

Hello, about the summary of the 4 debates of the debate competition that love can always be reconciled, I think we should consider the following aspects in the debate: First, we need to clarify the meaning of the proposition that "love can always be reconciled", which is an optimistic attitude, a belief and persistence in love, and an understanding and tolerance of human nature. In debate, we can prove the correctness of this proposition by citing relevant cases, stories, or survey data.

Secondly, we need to deeply analyze the internal logic of "love is always reconciled", which is a way of communication based on empathy and understanding, a mutual respect and positive problem-solving attitude. In the debate, we can illustrate the merits and feasibility of this style of communication by comparing and contrasting different situations and behaviors. Finally, we need to expand on some digressions in the debate, such as love, human nature and social trends, or share some interesting perspectives and experiences.

This will not only add interest and depth to the debate, but also allow the audience to be more inspired and think about our views and thoughts. In short, in a debate where love can always be reconciled, we should maintain a positive attitude and an open mind, respect each other's views and feelings, pay attention to the support of logic and evidence, and also pay attention to the way of expression and the choice of language, so as to better convey our thoughts and opinions. Thank you!

Dear listeners: In this debate, on behalf of the opposing side, we insist on the view that love is always reconciled, and believe that in the world of love, we should not only see differences and quarrels, but should focus on communication, understanding and tolerance. We refuted the opponent's argument and explained that all kinds of differences arise after mutual understanding, and that people who love each other must be able to understand and tolerate each other, transcend differences, and achieve harmony.

At the same time, we also propose specific ways to get along, such as communication, compromise, respect, etc., which can help us reconcile differences and avoid deepening conflicts. We believe that love is always reconciled as a positive attitude and action, which can not only promote the development of love, but also an essential element of interpersonal communication. It is only on the basis of mutual understanding and tolerance that we can build long-lasting and healthy relationships.

Thank you all for listening.