Find a wife to quarrel with me every day? What am I going to do?

I think it depends on the situation.

First of all, I want to say that there is no husband and wife who do not quarrel, how can anyone be 100% compatible together, even the loving couples we see in life will quarrel.

The most important thing in a quarrel is tolerance and forbearance, This can make the relationship warm, and the old husband and wife are generally well versed in this, so they can go through the cold and summer together one after another.

There are two contradictions:

One is the ability to distinguish between right and wrong.

One is that there is no distinction between right and wrong.

I remember that my parents are like this, I often see them quarreling, but in the end, there must be someone who will compromise, it has nothing to do with who is right and who is wrong, pure tolerance, I remember once my mother and father quarreled about the tense mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship when they first got married, and the relationship between sister-in-law and sister-in-law, in my opinion, in fact, in those years, no matter how much the mother-in-law or sister-in-law was at fault, after all, a slap did not make a sound, and the war was about to break out, but the father apologized with a smile and said sorry, you were wronged in those years, And then they vanished.

For those who can distinguish between right and wrong, when two people are arguing, they must apologize in time, for example, they are discussing whether to wash clothes, and two people have a dispute, one person's point of view is to wash, and one person's point of view is not to wash first, because it is cloudy outside, it is going to rain, and it can't be dried after washing, at this time, the thoughts of two people should be towards a more convincing person.

But when there is no right or wrong in one thing, it is okay to tolerate each other, for example, today I want to live a two-person world with my wife, go out to have a meal first, my wife says I want to eat barbecue, you say I want to eat hot pot, there is no right or wrong in this matter, then let it go! Or when you are chasing dramas at home, the dramas that your wife wants to watch are not to your taste, so you can accompany her to watch them! I believe that every tolerance can be exchanged for more love from the other party.

Then again, if the three views of two people are particularly inconsistent or the other party just blindly asks for you, and every quarrel is a matter of principle, and the frequency of quarrels is particularly high, then you can consider not being together, the longer the couple is together, the deeper the hurt will be, and after a long time, they will be reluctant to break up, and the relationship will become more and more deformed.

Finally, I remind you that you should judge which one it is according to the specific content of the quarrel with your wife, and then decide your relationship problems, and wish you and your lover a better and better life!

Discuss how often to quarrel every other time, classify and record the content of each quarrel, and take it out to solve it at the agreed time, so as to reduce the number of quarrels, not to be sad to each other, and to solve the problem, which will help the relationship to warm up and the family to become more and more harmonious.

First of all, I don't agree (personal opinion) that it is not good for couples to "quarrel", it is just annoying. "Quarrel" is that both parties do not agree with each other's views, ways, etc., if there are opinions, they have to mention, it is a manifestation of caring about each other, if the husband and wife have no interests, regard each other as passers-by, I believe that no one can quarrel.

It's okay to quarrel, but it's worth arguing every time, and you promise not to start again next time for this problem. Second, we must consciously control our emotions, since husband and wife, we have to get along, or two people who get along day and night, and they must agree on a good way to get along with each other, after all, "quarreling" is a matter of labor and money, and there is no substantial benefit to both parties, so they can reduce the number of times as much as possible, and they can not quarrel without quarreling.

I think we should sit down and talk about it.

Why quarrel? What is the reason for the quarrel? That's the key.

Personally, I think it's inevitable that the family doesn't quarrel, but you shouldn't quarrel all day long over small things.

Let's take my neighbor again, both of their children are married, and the old couple is left in the family, but they keep arguing all day long.

Men say that women don't cook in time, and that women make a mess in the house all day and don't clean up the house; And the woman said that he went to play mahjong after eating, didn't do any work at home, and lost money every time, and the couple quarreled every day because of trivial things.

It annoys everyone in the neighborhood.

What do you and your wife often quarrel for? If there is no big thing, don't be like this neighbor who keeps arguing every day about small things.

is a handful of age, can you still get a divorce after a quarrel?

Besides, arguing all day long makes the children miss it, and they are laughed at by others.

I think the solution is very simple, do more self-criticism, and think about what you are doing wrong.

Don't look for each other's faults, always keep your eyes on each other's shortcomings.

You all have to empathize and think about each other, and I think the problem of quarrels is solved.

In the end, I still advise you, as long as it is a major matter without principles, please communicate and solve it calmly.

May you husband and wife be in harmony and your family and all things prosperous!

Impose your will on the other person and let the other person do what he wants. When the other party speaks and acts differently than he thinks, he is dissatisfied and begins to nag. If the other side is a stronger person, or has endured it for a long time, then the quarrel war will be on the verge of breaking out.

Put down the face, the two people who quarreled did not bow their heads to each other, just to save their face. At this time, you might as well put down your face and get close to him, ask him to help get a courier or let him share the housework.

It's not good to quarrel with your wife often, men don't fight with women, endure it when you're angry, let it go, calm down and then theorize, when you're in a good mood, both sides communicate it, in order to reduce quarrels, three chapters of the law, and abide by it together.

I don't know what to do because it depends on the specific situation between you. If you and your wife often quarrel, it may be due to a number of reasons, such as when she is tired from teaching or having difficulties at work. It is advisable for both of you to sit down and have a good talk and find out what the problem is.

Maybe you should try to change the way you get along and pay more attention to each other's needs and ideas, rather than just your own wishes. In short, try to avoid making marital disputes the main theme of family life.

There will always be some unsatisfactory things in the life of the husband and wife, and they must understand each other.

Find out the cause and be sure to solve it. The most important thing is for both parties to sit down and communicate and get to know each other.

Can't you just shut up! Don't worry about life in life, what is there to think about, as the saying goes, family harmony can make money.

Be sensible and don't quarrel because you don't agree.

Look at your age, if you are young, it is good to get together and disperse. If you are older, go to a psychiatrist together.

1. Lack of problem-solving skills.

When two people step into the marriage hall, they leave their parents and live the life of two people, and in the face of a new environment, sometimes women are powerless when they encounter some things, which requires two people to solve such things together, if the solution ability is very poor, they will face the problem of quarrels between the two, and always have to fight for the right and wrong of this matter, and such frequent quarrels have brought a lot of shadows to their own psychology, and slowly make their feelings crack.

Second, the more noisy a happy marriage is, the weaker it becomes.

If two people encounter some things and keep quarreling, the original two people have a dull foundation, plus the relationship has not really grown, and in the face of an unstable relationship, such a quarrel is too hasty, and the frequent quarrels between husband and wife can not solve the problem, but hurt each other's feelings, let their feelings become more and more noisy, and the marriage will not last long.

3. A quarrelsome marriage is not conducive to the growth of love.

After getting married, I know that the character of two people slowly appears in life, because of the trivial things in life, and the habit of quarreling, but frequent quarrels will hurt the feelings of two people and each other, and give their own home is also noisy, not peaceful, so that their feelings can not continue, but also to one party caused psychological fear and fear, a long time on their feelings do not have any benefit.

There will always be a reason for quarrels, avoid conflicts, talk calmly about problems, quarrels will not solve problems!

Women are like this, as long as they are dissatisfied with you, they can always find a lot of faults and think of ways to mess with you, which belongs to a woman who has changed her mind, is dissatisfied with her husband, and compares it with a certain man. Find a way to talk calmly, if it doesn't work, there is no way.