How can parents accept the son of someone who is at odds with their own career? begging

Updated on psychology 2024-03-14
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no love for no reason, there is no hate for no reason, his parents are very good, he doesn't love his parents that is his problem, what if his parents are bad? How can he afford to love?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Keep your phone with you, ready to call the police at any time!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    People in junior high school are paper tigers, and when there are more people, they reconcile, and when there are fewer people, they pick up the bench.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Find out first which class he is in, and he is looking for a teacher.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Tell the teacher to ask parents to pick up and drop off from school.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't be afraid of him Maybe he scares and scares you, even if it's really don't be afraid of them, or they will think you're a bully I support you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Isn't it over looking for parents to pick you up?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Sincerity is a necessary condition for doing everything well Interpersonal relationships should not be rushed to form a network of interpersonal relationships in the slow social experience Volunteer fitness meals can be created in work, and secondly, we must learn to maintain interpersonal relationships Interact with those who are worthy of interaction Villains can not be close friends But you can't show your dislike for him and care more about friends Take friends as your own business.

    For the time being, I can think about these I hope that the landlord will establish a good network as soon as possible (

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    "1 deputy general manager of the group company with high salary, under 45 years old, self-taught person with a bachelor's degree or above or equivalent to a bachelor's degree. Good conduct, filial piety to parents ......Recently, this recruitment advertisement published by a private enterprise has attracted widespread attention (China Youth Daily, July 5).

    Jiang Yi faced the doubts of the applicants, and Mr. Lu Shitai, who was in charge of the recruitment of the company, explained: "If a person can't even fulfill his filial piety to his parents and can't handle family relationships well, how can he manage the company and handle the relationship with customers well?" ”

    Mr. Lu Shitai's explanation reminds me of the standard of virtue as an official in the ancient Chinese probation system.

    The so-called virtue refers to loyalty to the emperor. This cannot be directly observed in advance. The probationary system cleverly found an alternative:

    Evaluate a person's virtue by observing a person's filial piety, and infer whether a person is loyal to the king by observing whether he has filial piety. At that time, the probation system believed that virtue was more important than ability, so filial piety was regarded as the most basic condition for the election of officials.

    A careful comparison of the ancient probationary system and the selection policy of this private enterprise shows that the two are strikingly consistent. The purpose of the probation system, "taking morality as an official", is to demand loyalty, and it is also to reduce the management cost of officials. The private enterprise's "filial piety" approach also exposes its purpose of requiring absolute loyalty from employees and reducing management costs.

    It is undeniable that a person who honors his parents has certain advantages in personal qualities. But isn't "honoring your parents" necessarily "loving and dedicating yourself"? The answer is no!

    In the long process of the implementation of the probationary system, people have inadvertently mastered various tricks to "increase" filial piety——— by-product of the probationary system, and filial piety has been noised as a signal of personal virtue. And this phenomenon is also prone to appear in the selection policy of this private enterprise, and there may even be a ridiculous farce of hiring people to be parents.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No. But you can go to the notary office to apply for the "bequest and maintenance agreement" In short, you take care of him during his lifetime, and you inherit his estate when he dies.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, adoptions can only be for orphans.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Parents can agree in writing with the adoptive family if they wish.

    Finally, I would like to say a few words: children do not care about the wealth of their parents, and no one can replace the love given by their biological parents.

    If you have special difficulties, remember to ask for help** or well-meaning people in the society, I believe they will help you.

    Please think twice about your child's feelings!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. Understand and accept children. A series of physical and mental changes in children are beyond the child's ability to control and require the understanding and acceptance of parents at this time. Don't see some changes in your child, or yell and panic when you find your child's abnormal behavior, let alone scold and reprimand, and blame him.

    Otherwise, it will only exacerbate the child's rebellious psychology and increase the estrangement with his parents.

    2. Be a friend to your children. The greatest desire of adolescent children is the desire for respect, the desire for independence, and the desire for others to treat them as adults. This requires parents to change their roles and educational concepts, and change the condescending and commanding one-way education to an equal and first-class two-way education.

    From simply caring about children's daily life to guiding children's development and growth, and strive to be a good teacher and friend to children. According to the survey, more than 90% of teenagers do not talk to their parents and teachers when they have troubles, but talk to friends. Most of the children who go through adolescence smoothly and smoothly have a good family atmosphere and a harmonious mother-child relationship.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As parents, most of us want our children to not only have excellent grades, but also to be good people, and we want our children to grow up independently. But if our child doesn't live up to our expectations, when he doesn't follow the path of most people, we have a lot of anxiety.

    First of all, I would like to say that there are many, many college students who are in such a state right now. I've met a lot of friends who are facing this problem, two years after graduating from college, they have no interest in working, so they stay at home and play games. They want to fill the emptiness inside of them with games.

    They also thought about how to live the life they wanted, and they also wanted to live a meaningful life, but they didn't find it at the moment.

    And if you go back further, it is likely that when they were in high school, this problem was already highlighted, but many parents did not notice. Maybe his parents thought it would be good to wait for him to go to college in the future.

    But can going to college solve their problems? Often in college, they have not found their interests or hobbies, then it is likely that they have been mixed for four years.

    We need to know that we need to see the essence through the phenomena.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Nowadays, people have problems with their ideological understanding, in the past, our class reunions were all good fun, sitting together and chatting until the end of the party, the relationship is getting better and better, almost every year, but it has changed, and when eating, they often play their own games, and there is less chat. Especially nowadays, young people don't play with their mobile phones until they sleep. Nowadays, people have problems with their ideological understanding, in the past, our class reunions were all good fun, sitting together and chatting until the end of the party, the relationship is getting better and better, almost every year, but it has changed, and when eating, they often play their own games, and there is less chat.

    Especially nowadays, young people don't play with their mobile phones until they sleep.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Children's obsession with the Internet and games is not new, but with the popularity of smartphones, this situation is likely to intensify, making parents worried, and forcing many parents to compete with their children for mobile phones.

    In fact, parents know in their hearts that they can't blindly blame their children. Today's smartphones are multi-functional and highly humanized, and mobile phones have become indispensable in many people's lives.

    Instead of fighting wits and courage with their children for a mobile phone and getting exhausted and disheartened, parents should honestly do two things: one is not to be a bad example; The second is to be a good guide - the best way to keep children away from mobile games is for adults to be good role models and guide children.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It seems that your baby is not small, communicate more, now the child is difficult to manage, too strict will make a fuss, no matter how it goes on, it is also wasted, it is a problem with discipline since childhood, parents should reflect, and expect children to understand the difficulty of parents.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Nowadays, young people, whether they are middle-aged or elderly, are so obsessed with mobile phones, but they also have to have a degree of playing mobile phones. Then one day you can't fall in love, you have to have your own home, you have to have a sense of responsibility, and the girl can like you. People must be self-motivated and work hard to make their dreams come true.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You communicate with your son first. If he can't communicate, then he can only learn to be independent. Let him pay for food and let him learn to be independent.

    Now he eats yours and lives yours, he doesn't have to worry about anything, and naturally he doesn't want to work, he just thinks about playing games. You have to be ruthless in everything, otherwise the child will never grow up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This problem should be very serious now, I hope you can communicate with him in time and give her the right outlook on life. And the right approach, if it goes on like this, it will not affect grades and life, if it is serious, it may develop into autism, or even mental illness, which will affect the healthy life of the child in the future, as a family member, we must care more about the child, and don't let them feel lonely.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Nowadays, it is a common phenomenon for children to play with mobile phones, and parents feel a headache and do not know how to guide their children. First of all, parents must understand their children's thoughts, find the root cause of the problem, and let their children realize the harm of playing with mobile phones. Find him a psychiatrist to enlighten him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    cut off his financial ** and gave him a reason to support himself. As long as the parents are ruthless, I believe this is the best help for your son.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Praise the children more, the good children are praised, praise the children for being smart, excellent, and diligent, and encourage the children to do things persistently and step by step.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Answer 1: Efforts start from today, and success starts from "zero". 2. Being willing to use your brain will make you smarter. 3. Face difficulties with laughter, greet victory with tears, and be a strong man from an early age.

    4. If you are diligent and conscientious, no matter how serious and down-to-earth you are, you will definitely receive fruitful results. 5. Let me walk through this wonderful time with your little hands. 6. Mutual trust between classmates is priceless.

    7. Love others with kindness and treat others with kind words. Children, let's create a caring world together. 8. Think about it again.

    9. Self-confidence is the first step towards success. 10. Diligence is the cradle of genius, and hard work is the source of wisdom. May you be a good boy with excellent character and learning.

    11. You know that you care about your parents, which makes me happy. 12. You are like a flying flower, quiet, intelligent, and fantastic. 13. You are excellent in character and learning, forge ahead, and are the most satisfied students of the teacher.

    14. Learn from the strengths of others to make up for the shortcomings, there are examples to learn from everywhere in life, and everyone has something worth emulating and learning. 15. This semester, you are not as outstanding in all aspects as before, but the teacher believes that you have great potential and will shine like gold again. Go for it, kid!

    16. I believe you can regain your confidence in learning. 17. Your self-consciousness and self-motivation make teachers and parents feel gratified. 18. As long as you work hard, you will definitely be able to do well in the exam next time.

    19. Sharpening now is the capital for success in the future. May you develop in an all-round way and excel in the new millennium. 20. Looking up at the dangerous peak, you can only know its height, but exploring the dangerous peak, you can know your own height.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Your child doesn't need to be praised with flowery words, just persuade her and encourage him when he wants to give up. Say more: you're the best!! This can also increase the child's confidence. ]

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Son, do you know why there are no rainbows, because rainbows only appear after the baptism of wind and rain. In the same way, growth without difficulties will not create manhood, work hard, as long as you work hard, you can solve any difficulties. ]

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    1. Don't lie at any time.

    2. Everyone has something to learn.

    3. You must control your temper.

    4. Self-restraint is to be responsible for oneself.

    5. Swearing is a shameful act.

    6. You are a sensible child.

    7. Be patient to do anything well.

    8. Let's find a careful thing to do.

    9. Be calm and not impatient in everything.

    10. The game can be played, but don't get addicted to it.

    11. Be bolder and bigger.

    12. Picky eating can hinder your growth.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    As a woman's parents, they also have a lot of difficulties, deep down they don't necessarily want the man to have a car and a house, but more value the man's character and potential, but the potential is the potential, who can say what will happen in the future? Therefore, most people retreat to the next best thing, at least for the time being, marrying a person with a car and a house, first of all, they feel that their daughter will not suffer too much, it will be a comfort to themselves, and they will not lose face too much in front of the people around them. So don't take the opposition of the woman's parents too seriously, and it is even more stupid to complain about the woman's parents, as long as both parties love each other and move forward hand in hand, when the parents see hope in you, they will not object.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Life is stressful.

    Possibly, who doesn't want to, and boys too.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Life is cruel, and there is life with wealth.

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