Like a man, to chase or not to chase, he has already rejected me once

First of all, I think it's important to confirm the relationship between the two of you. 1.Ordinary friends.

Such a relationship should only exist in his heart now, because you already like the other person. In the emotions between boyfriend and girlfriend, it is difficult to distinguish between friendship and love, if the rash impulse will sacrifice the original friendship, but since it has been chosen and confessed once, then there is no need to think about it more, the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference! 2.

Friends who have a crush on each other. In fact, sometimes there are many reasons for rejection, it is not that you don't get along or don't like it so simple, if you are sure that each other's feelings are in love, then help the person you love to cross the unspeakable heart wall, because true love contains care, such love can last. 3.

You are a stranger to him. Maybe it's love at first sight, maybe it's admired for a long time, then I can only say come on, show all your unique advantages, and prove your difference with strength, this kind of love requires the courage not to be afraid of setbacks, but also needs perseverance.

Secondly, I would like to say some personal opinions, regardless of the familiarity with each other, love needs a necessary impulse and madness when you are young. Maybe you will be worried, if you are always stubborn and blindly pursuing, the other party will be disgusted, in fact, although these are necessary, but also a little worried, because if you don't have the courage to insist, how can love withstand the wind and rain in the future? But stubbornness does not mean entanglement, and entanglement can only be disgusting for anyone.

There are actually many ways to stick to it, as long as you uphold one principle: leave a little leeway for everyone, and be moderate. In this case, maybe now he doesn't notice your flash, but after a long time everything is possible; Or maybe you are just a momentary love (no malice), and you meet your destined other half in the time of pursuit, and you can get out completely without regrets.

Finally, I just want to tell you that love needs the test of time, and since you have chosen to love, you should be brave enough to bear everything, no matter what the consequences are. Some people may not be able to meet lovers who love each other in their lives, many people are together but do not really love each other, and more people have become relatives instead of lovers. I hope you can find the enviable happiness of being able to meet the other half of your life on the journey of life, and always cherish and remember that love!

A few more verbose words, all the answers here can only be a reference, the real answer needs to be found by yourself, maybe after twists and turns, but please be brave, cautious, and don't forget to love yourself and care about your relatives and friends. I sincerely hope that people who really love each other can rely on each other to the ends of the earth!

I wish you the happiness of finding yourself! o(∩_o

Then give up, men have always been those who come and do not refuse, Ah, since I refuse you, then there is no play.

Look at how much you like him, and then there is whether he deserves you like this.

If you really like it, chase it, but pay attention to what kind of person he is, if you are too active can cause him not to cherish you much, then ... The happiness you seek is not necessarily true happiness!

I think that if you really like it, you can always be good to him, and one day when he finds out about you around him, there may be results. If he also has someone he loves very much, I think it's better to give up and let go when his injury is not serious: but if he doesn't have a very loving person, you still have hope!

A lot of feelings are born over time!

Recognize your love first, whether it is blind, whether he is worth it for you to do this, if it is worth, as long as he is not married, he will chase it.

Love makes people forget time, and time also makes people forget love. Even if he doesn't love, then give up and stop wasting time and youth.

Your efforts today may bring back your happiness, or it may go downhill, but just know that you once loved.

If he wants to be interesting to you, he will chase you, or he will waste his youth.

If I don't want to chase it, why don't you keep chasing it? The following are all personal opinions.

1.I don't think it's worth chasing a boy who doesn't like him, because no matter how much you chase him, he won't like you, but he thinks you're annoying, and instead of hating you, he hates you, and even wants you to disappear from him.

2.If you insist on chasing it and stalking all the time, then you can only wish you good luck.

And then I personally think that if you keep chasing it, it's really not worth it, and boys really don't like you, they don't like you, and they won't be moved by you, and there's a possibility, he may have always regarded you as a friend, and he hasn't thought about that kind of relationship, and if you suddenly confess to him, it will surprise him, and in short, there will be a lot of possibilities, depending on what kind of situation you have.

Anyway, it really doesn't make sense to keep chasing unless it's the kind of insistence that is easy to be disturbed, and the girl is easy to be moved, but it's really rare Really recommend Don't be stupid and keep chasing Reality is different from TV series If you basically insist on catching up on TV series, it's perfect, but the reality is very cruel.

I wish all girls no such thing as this, and they can have a boy who likes each other!!

No. If Li Shenguo boys don't like you, it is more difficult to change It's better not to chase it, because they are very rational and will not easily change their decisions, and it is basically hopeless.

If the boy doesn't like himself, he must not continue to chase, because Tan Xianwei is better to find someone who doesn't like him than to find someone who loves him. Someone who likes you will naturally come after you.

If you don't want to give up, you can continue to chase Wusong Mountain.

However, you should know what he likes and so on, and cater to him to cooperate.

You have to know what type of person he likes and try to be the type he likes.

Of course, if you give everything or fail, you can also give up.

If you don't like yourself, then you have to choose to give up, after all, if you don't like it, you don't like it, no matter how hard you try, it won't help.

Although the other party doesn't like him, as long as he doesn't reject himself, he still has a chance. Go for it.

Pursue a dislike.

Your people, there's no need.

Chase it again, love doesn't.

I can force it.

As long as you like it, it's worth the effort, you say?

If you don't like it, don't chase it.

1. Since you rejected the boy's pursuit, why do you still feel sorry to ask such a question, it can only prove one thing, you still care about this boy.

2. As a girl, since you have a good impression of this boy and reject him, it is nothing more than to reflect your "value" and face, to put it bluntly, vanity is at work, and therefore you will also pay irreparable consequences, and your current mentality is regret.

3. Falling in love and making friends are equal opportunities for both men and women, and girls may think that there are many good boys in their hearts, although there is some truth in theory, but in real life, often a passing relationship is not grasped, which will lead to lifelong regrets.

4. Everyone's personality is different, some boys like to stalk when pursuing girls, and even do not hesitate to use despicable means to achieve their goals, while some boys are very rigorous and honest.

5. Judging from the performance of this boy who said he would not bother you in the future after being rejected by you, it shows that he is still very cultivated and polite, and you didn't agree to him, not because you didn't like him, just because he chased you too little, and this responsibility is entirely on you. 6. If you care about him, it's not irreparable, he said that he won't bother you anymore, and he didn't say that you can't bother him, you can directly send him a signal of love, or send a message through classmates, friends, etc., that you also want to be good with him, and the boy will gladly accept you.

7. Love is also about opportunity, girls have a good impression of boys and accept them bravely, don't be foolish to take care of cheap vanity, on the contrary, girls also take the initiative to pursue boys It is also a beautiful thing, I hope you will boldly move forward.

Most people don't fall in love in this way. The woman who dares to use this method is generally very bullish, the kind of woman who almost makes men look up to her, she has a special ability, she can refuse others at any time, and she can also summon others at any time.

Maybe it's because you're rejecting too hard, and he thinks you don't like him but hates him very much. It is also possible that he finds that he doesn't like you so much, or has a new person to like, it is recommended that you observe it carefully, and if you like him, you can give him some more hints to express your affection.

Hello I'm glad to answer for you at the end of the day, I summarized the reasons why some boys stop pursuing after being rejected once There are probably the following three reasons: 1. Personality reasons are like the example of my college classmates, some boys are naturally shy and not good at expressing emotions, even if they finally meet someone they particularly like, when they really want to confess, they have mustered up a lot of courage to take that step. People with this kind of personality are always at a disadvantage in emotional problems, maybe other boys can easily say things, they don't know how much mental construction they have done for themselves before they say it, and there may be a scene where confession has been practiced for the sake of confession, and your refusal is like a fatal blow to them, so they will alienate you.

They may still like you, but they won't confess to you anymore. When you meet such a boy, if you are also interested in others, it is best to take the initiative to show him your heart, and when he can't wait, he will not be beaten by chickens and eggs, and other girls will be the first to take the lead.

2. You are not very close to some girls with a cold personality, at first glance, they are the kind of people who are very assertive and say the same, like this kind of girl most have a strong aura that the opposite sex does not approach, in fact, maybe he was scared away by you. Some boys may indeed like you, but your refusal makes him feel that no matter how hard he tries, there is no play, because you give people the impression that you are the kind of person who can't be done by stalking alone, maybe you are very demanding, maybe he himself feels that he is not worthy of you, instead of spending time on a hopeless thing, it is better to shift the goal to find a girl who is more suitable for him. In fact, cold girls are not really that terrible, and their requirements are not unattainable, most women have a similar view of love, they just want to find someone who can understand her and understand her.

We can see that many former cold goddesses are looking for ordinary men in the end, not how good these men are, but they are more attentive and understand her real needs.

3. He doesn't like you much, why do you say that men are more likely to cheer up from a failed confession, while a woman collapses after a failed confession? This is because the mentality is not the same. Some men advocate the principle of casting a wide net, the east is not bright, the west is bright, and when he confesses to you and is rejected, he will shift his goal to find the next one.

In this kind of man's heart, there is no difference between women and women, only what can be done and what can't be done, what he wants is to find a girlfriend, and it has nothing to do with who his girlfriend is, so he can quickly get up from a failed confession. If you don't agree, there will always be other women who agree, and it's not a big deal.

Maybe it's because he likes you too much, and it took a lot of courage to confess, so he doesn't have the courage to accept the second rejection after you refuse; Not bothering is not wanting to annoy you because of this.

Maybe this guy knows the gap between himself and you, and instead of chasing you far behind you, it is better to take the initiative to give up and find a more suitable one.

In fact, this thing is normal, the other party may just want to give it a try, and he doesn't have such deep feelings for you, but you rejected him, so he gave up, the main reason is that there is not so much love, so there is no need to dwell on it.

Some people may feel that they don't belong to themselves, so there is no need to force it, and being able to chase one shows that they have taken the courage, and once they are rejected, they will not bother the other party anymore.

Maybe this boy is more shy, he has taken great courage to confess to you, and you reject him, which will make him a little uncomfortable, and he will not dare to confess to you again, even if he likes you, he will choose not to bother you anymore, because then he will not feel embarrassed.

Personally, I don't think that this man really loves you and doesn't like you, so after you refuse once, he will tell you that he won't bother you again in the future.

Because, this boy knows how to stop losses in time, and if you reject him once, his position in your heart will become lower.

Because such boys are particularly introverted, they think that if a woman rejects herself, she hates herself, so she will not bother women in the future.