Have you ever been disappointed in life and why?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-30
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, I was disappointed, watching other people's lives carefree, and I felt unfair, and then I understood, life is an experience, and it also tests you with hardships and obstacles, everyone will experience different tests, birth, old age, sickness and death, no one can run away, look down, as long as you are still alive, no matter what the situation, it is better than not existing. To live is to have hope.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Disappointed in not being able to achieve greater material satisfaction, like an ignorant child, wondering why the pocket money is only 1 yuan a day. Feeling disappointed in the future life is like an incomparably long road, although people and cars pass by, but the scenery on the road is always a yellow line and two rows of big trees. Well, a little transparent disappointment is that.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course disappointed! I was disappointed because I knew too much what kind of person I was. Because the three views are too different from those around me, I am disappointed. I feel like a failure and disappointed.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Disappointed, yearning for freedom but unable to do anything, doing things you don't like day after day, working far away from home, very homesick.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not about disappointment, it's just a little sad. I've always had good expectations for life, however, it has always wanted to pull me out of my beautiful fantasies, and by the way, it slapped me twice and coldly told me that this is reality.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I have never been disappointed in life because I am an optimistic person.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Slightly disappointed. What I want to do is stifled in the cradle by my own laziness and panic all day long; The flag fell when it was established, and now I dare not stand it again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I was disappointed, and I was disappointed in myself, even hopeless. Because I'm bankrupt, have nothing, and I'm in debt!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes, because there are three aspects of a person's quality of life: family, social life, and work. All three have a number of problems.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I tried very hard to save the turtle that my brother gave me, but I still didn't succeed, and I felt that my efforts were weak.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Life in the world is inevitably full of ups and downs. Only be strong and brave to face it!

    Encourage yourself more, it doesn't matter if you don't have friends, be your own friends! It doesn't matter if you don't get the appreciation, just do your job well.

    Life is short, and all inferiority complex will not help! Why should we feel inferior??!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you don't have a purpose in life, you will lose the motivation to live your life! I guess you must have lived in a family without much love and warmth since you were a child, right? Your parents don't give you enough love and don't expect a lot from you.

    You have not established your own life goals, first make a feasible life plan for yourself, such as how many good books you want to read, how many sincere friends you want to make, what kind of career dreams you want to complete, you want to find a partner who really loves each other, and you want to travel with your lover. Once you come to the world, you will not live in vain, you can always find hope and joy in life! May you pick yourself up and start again!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    One less person in the world will not be affected at all, but think about the relatives around you, the people who love you, the people you love, sometimes people live not only for themselves. Set yourself a direction and a goal, don't let yourself live so depressed, everything will pass, life will not be so boring all the time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Does a person's destiny change with the good or bad mentality?

    Looking at life from a different standpoint, you can be tolerant and generous; Looking at life with a different mentality, you can change your sadness into a smile.

    If there were no wind and rain in nature, how could there be a brilliant rainbow; If there are no setbacks in life, how can there be no regrets and fulfillment. Be grateful and grateful for everything, and you will find that the road is wide and your heart is wide and wide.

    Everyone will experience failure, but some people are able to overcome all odds, fight more and more, and eventually win success; And some people fall into failure and can't get up, and since then they have been slumped and fallen into the quagmire of life.

    On the road of life, it is too normal to encounter failure; In life, it's natural to encounter setbacks! Don't be depressed and pessimistic, as long as you put in the effort, you will always be happy. Your state of mind determines the bitterness and sweetness of your life!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    God is fair, birth, old age, sickness and death, no matter how rich you are, you will die, so there is nothing unfair, it depends on how you experience this life, how to live a meaningful life, do meaningful things, do qualified and law-abiding parks, have time to go out more, see your parents more, this is very good, please adopt if you are satisfied, thank you, I can type it one by one.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Do more things that break through yourself and make sense, such as cooking yourself a meal every day, going to the gym, etc.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No matter what things don't go well for you, you must think on the good side, life is good, all bad things will pass, have confidence in yourself, and wish you to get rid of your troubles as soon as possible.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Going out for a walk and chatting with energetic people will make it easier for you to get out of your loss, set a good goal, and see a wider world, which will make it easier for you to build new hope.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Loss of confidence in life is related to the emotional state of depression, we should adjust our psychological state, consciously reduce psychological pressure, do not be knocked down by the current reality, and treat study and life with an optimistic mental state.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Recite the Heart Sutra, which is a sutra that strengthens faith.

    Moreover, reading more scriptures is beneficial to all aspects of people.

    If you look at the world every day, you will find that the world is beautiful.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't think about the past, don't be afraid of the future, live in the present, believe in yourself, do your best, and there will be hope.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes I wished I was a great person when I was a kid. Very famous person, when I grew up, I lived an ordinary life. even turned his life into a mess, and he was quite disappointed in his old man.

    The life I longed for as a child felt farther and farther away from me. In fact, the goal of my goal is not high, that is, I can live happily, have my own house, and have a person who loves me. Have a stable job.

    It seems that all of these are there, and it seems that there are none. It's just that I feel very tired, only myself, and the way is very simple, I was injured, slowly healed, and then I was injured again.

    In life, we will encounter all kinds of difficulties: we fail to interview for the job we want; Confess to the girl you like, but be rejected ......Life is not easy, and hitting one blow after another can really make people feel very disappointed in life.

    Three ways to help you re-examine the frustrations and disappointments in your life.

    1. Don't deny it for a lifetime just because of one time.

    If you make a completely negative decision because of one thing, it must be too impulsive. But too many people in our lives will say, "If I don't get it this time, then I might lose it forever."

    If you feel that you don't need to work hard just because of your past failures, you are just punishing yourself for your past failures.

    2. Don't dwell on the past and blame yourself excessively.

    Letting the mood of disappointment, "punishing" oneself excessively, is another common way. Chinese have a habit of always looking for reasons from themselves when they encounter setbacks.

    If I failed this interview, it must be that I am not good enough, and I am not worthy of this good position. ”

    3. Recognize failure, and come back if you fail.

    Every failure not only brings us emotional pain, but also provides us with new opportunities. Many people succeed because they persist longer, keep learning and improving, and finally succeed.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Real life is an insurmountable wall, facing oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day, every day when I open my eyes, I feel that I owe a lot of money, I can't pay the rent, I can't get rid of the sophistication of human feelings, the oppression of reality, the total disappointment is too much, the parents' health is not good, the children should buy things to go to school, the family's property fees, parking fees should be paid, and the car loan is about to expire. Life has become a heavy burden on our shoulders, we dare not let go, we dare not give up easily, no matter how heavy it is, we have to grit our teeth and desperately persevere; No matter how bitter Zen Wei is, he has to swallow the bitter water in his stomach. Sometimes the more I think about it, the more disappointed I become, the disappointment in reality, and the disappointment in my own celery!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When I was helpless and helpless, the stubbornness in my personality immediately told me, you have to cheer up, then I will not be disappointed, because I always believe that every challenge and experience in life can be seen as a baptism and an opportunity to try to explore new ideas for emancipating the mind. Whether you're feeling disappointed or frustrated, we can all think together about how to defuse the situation and change the status quo, so that your life becomes cheerful and the bad mood disappears!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes! Especially when encountering difficulties and setbacks, I have never been able to come out, I feel that life is very boring, and even I am desperate, but I will only find a smile when I calm down, all suffering is a tempering, and it is the only way to judge boredom in life, and everything will be fine!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Everyone has a disappointment in life, because we encounter some unhappy things, or bury it when we encounter some confusion in work and life, we will feel very disappointed, but as long as we can adjust our mentality and get through that unhappy time, we will still be full of hope for life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    And it is not possible that people will not feel disappointed without too many expectations, I have not been a person with a lot of desires, and the wishes of the child are also very shallow, I remember that people often wrote to their future selves, and the letters had their dreams and their goals, I am not the same, my words are almost a running account, ask if the future self is good, and the people around me are good. When I was a child, I hoped that I would be relaxed and plain, neither expecting academic success, nor planning to become an independent woman, capable and steady. Now it's ordinary, very auspicious.

    How to say, I'm really too easy to be satisfied, as long as I don't suffer a big disaster, I should always feel good, life is good, I'm good, the world is lovely, all kinds of nostalgia. People often post on Moments at the end of the year to say how bad this year is, I hope to pass quickly, I'm different, I want to say that this year is another great year almost every year, I hope it can continue to be like this next year. People live with a state of mind, whether they are positive and enterprising, whether they are content with the ordinary, happiness is the most important.

    Just leave some regrets, and you don't have to regret when you are disappointed.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    How do people get disappointed in life, this question is interesting, do people who are disappointed in life still run to see the headline questions, I think it is estimated that it will not, I just want to say that disappointment is temporary, reinvigoration is king, talk about my personal growth history, I hope it will be useful to you.

    A lot of things tell us that doing it again can make a difference.

    I entered the first grade at the age of 6, I didn't open my mind at all, I studied for a semester, ended the first first grade in my life with a score of 0, and re-enrolled at the age of 7, so I studied like a normal child.

    Many things tell us: it's not that life is hard, it's that we imagine it to be too hard.

    In the fifth grade of primary school, my cousin was forced to transfer to her school because she was a teacher, but unfortunately, as soon as I turned around, she was transferred, and I went to a strange place with this pants, and lived with my grandparents, my grandfather couldn't cook Pei Fan Jane, my grandmother broke her leg because of drinking, and she took care of her grandparents in addition to school. At that time, I felt that life was very simple, and I didn't feel hard.

    Many things tell us that there is a gap between expectations and reality, and we need to work hard to change.

    I also want to be like on TV, a teenager who goes to school and takes care of his grandparents at the same time, and lives up to the trust and excels in grades. It's a pity that the fact is not that this way it developed, but Sun Shan's name fell and he was forced to transfer to another school and retake the exam. Fortunately, through hard work, he was admitted to the provincial key high school.

    Disappointment in life is inevitable in the sedan book, the key is that in the face of disappointment, setbacks, we still work hard, forge ahead, I believe that there will be gains.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Yes I was disappointed that I wasn't as good as I was when I was a kid.

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