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Generally speaking, "high-profile work and low-key life" actually encourage people to be meticulous and aggressive in doing things, not to be cowering, or not to do it, but to do it well.
But this sentence is a half-pair, just like "the right thing is not the right person", you watch "When someone tells you "I am not the right person", you have to be careful", everything is done by people, how can you only focus on the thing itself, and ignore the person who does it? A thing, whether good or bad, can be exaggerated, minimized, or even reversed.
Similarly, if you do things in a high-profile manner, you can't be low-key, at least in the process of doing things in a high-profile manner, your language, actions and even your style need to be high-profile, so that you can continue to do this high-profile thing. Others see you in their eyes, remember them in their hearts, say them in their mouths, and pass them on in their ears, how can you become a low-key person?
After doing it for a long time, it turns out that "doing things in a high-profile way and being a low-key person" is a big fool, this statement is a contradiction, or it is called non-existent, not only half-right, but actually a complete mistake, and even a way to mislead you to offend people.
Similarly, last year's animated movie called "Nezha", in which Nezha's sentence "My life is in my absence!" Although it encourages many people's self-confidence, I believe that in real life, this sentence makes people who are on the wrong road more stubborn, so that they go farther and farther on the wrong detour, break their heads, and even make people stand alone and betray their relatives in society.
"Stop loss" is a wise option for anyone to consider when it is enough, rather than encouraging others to make mistakes.
Returning to today's proposition, should we usually do things or speak in a low-key way, or is it better to be high-profile?
Depending on the occasion and at different times, you have to adopt different styles, rather than one size fits all. One-size-fits-all has led us to the wrong direction for many years.
We know that in the recent Forbes real-time billionaires list, the founder of Nongfu Spring, Zhong Sui, ranked among the top five in the world for the first time. This is after surpassing the "stock god" Warren Buffett, India's richest man Ambani and others, Nongfu Spring founder Zhong Sui once again surpassed Facebook founder Zuckerberg.
This surname Zhong is actually low-key, and others generally call him a "lone wolf", what does it mean?
He usually does not participate in any entrepreneurs' associations or even the CPPCC, etc., but does his own business, does not engage in alliances, does not make a noise, does not flaunt his wealth, and so on. This low-key style may be related to his own judgment of history and the current situation, and he knows the truth of making a big move.
Of course, there are comparisons, young people generally don't like to be low-key, and it is related to age. For example, judging from the wealth list, Zhong Sui is currently the first in the rich list, and there is one who has the second most wealth, which is Huang Zheng, the founder of Pinduoduo. Mr. Huang's wealth also exceeded $60 billion, roughly catching up with the net worth of Li Ka-shing, the richest man in Hong Kong.
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"Be a low-key person and do things in a high-profile manner" is a kind of wisdom, which the wise must learn and the strong must use. Being a low-key person can make others more willing to approach you, and doing things in a high-profile manner can make you get what you want and get what you deserve.
1. Self-confidence is the secret of high-profile work.
Confidence is of great significance to those who are successful, and the desire to succeed is the source of wealth creation and ownership. When you have the desire to succeed and are stimulated by autosuggestion and subconscious, you develop a sense of self-confidence, which is transformed into a motivation for positive action. We say that you should be low-key, but you should be confident in doing things.
This is not a contradictory pair. Self-confidence can help people unleash their passion, wisdom and energy, which in turn can help them achieve success in their careers.
2. Don't give up easily, persistence can lead to success.
3. Do everything well, and some people in the workplace do not pay attention to details, do not pay attention to small things, lack of serious attitude towards work, and feel that they have wronged themselves by doing small things, so they are perfunctory to work. There are no small things at work, you have to take everything you do seriously. The boss's trust in an employee is accumulated bit by bit.
Only by doing every little thing well and meticulously can you become an excellent employee in his eyes.
In short, high-profile work is a kind of courage, a spirit of persistent pursuit, and a style of excellence, which can make you get more rewards. The truth seems to be plain, but it is actually a profound workplace survival strategy.
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Think simple and act seriously. ”
When I saw this sentence, my first feeling was that the person who could say it must be a simple and low-key person. After checking the source of this sentence, I found that it was indeed the case.
This sentence comes from the mouth of Charlie Munger, but who is Charlie Munger? To be honest, I didn't know before I checked it, and I was surprised after checking it, because his partner was the famous stock god Warren Buffett.
Yes, why do many of us know Warren Buffett and so few know Charlie Munger? The reason is that he is low-key, so how low-key is he? Here's a very simple example:
Every time after the board meeting, Warren Buffett would ask Charlie Munger if he had anything to add, and Charlie Munger always said: I have nothing to add to what he just said.
I think it's because he's low-key and humble and doesn't like to show that he's never the one in the spotlight, and that's probably the way Charlie Munger himself wants to live. Because of this lifestyle, he can rarely get involved in some rights and wrongs, so that he can focus more energy on the things he focuses on.
So, when a person starts to keep a low profile, then their presence in others is greatly reduced. When the sense of presence in others is low, then some rights and wrongs will naturally stay away. When these rights and wrongs are far away, we can calm down and concentrate on doing things.
So I think that people who really want to do things seriously must be extremely low-key in their bones.
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