How to deal with villains who do not hesitate to slander others for personal gain?

01 Don't show that you hate him in front of the villain, but smile with him when you see the villain to show that you are friendly to him.

Don't get too close to the villain, don't have deep friendships, and don't tell them about privacy, otherwise you will be betrayed very badly.

When the villain has a dispute with others, persuade him to take it off the shelf appropriately, let him feel that you are good to him, and don't be stupid to really help him.

Anyway, treat the villain, normal people can't afford to provoke him, then pretend to be good to him, less conflict with him, if he doesn't mess with you, you don't care about him, once he messes with you, you play yin with him.

We must learn to see their faces clearly, we must attack them with words at the appropriate time, and we must let them get the punishment they deserve, and we must not let these villains succeed.

In the fast-paced conversation, people are mostly tired and busy. Anyone who has a little bit of interest will do something. Even if you don't have anything to do, you can do something useful for entertainment.

But some people always want to have nothing to do. This phenomenon often causes unsettling factors in society. Let's talk about the relationship with"Much Ado About Nothing is related to two issues.

1. What is non-slander? Non-slander refers to the act of fabricating facts for the purpose of not slandering others. where the circumstances are more serious, constitute a civil legal relationship, and where the circumstances are serious, constitute a criminal legal relationship.

2. How to deal with the above"Relationships should be moved according to the situation. If the circumstances are particularly minor, it can be ignored altogether. Think about it, how can a person who can achieve great things take care of trivial matters?

If the circumstances are very serious and affect the loss of physical and mental health or property interests, you must take up the law and give the other party a strong counterattack.

People will inevitably encounter such people and things in life, if they really encounter it, they don't have to care too much, as the saying goes: the heart of harming people can not have, the heart of preventing people is indispensable, as long as you usually make friends when you pay more attention, choose the good and make friends, do not give others the opportunity to take advantage of, if you are inadvertently used, but also put the right mentality, evil does not suppress the right, believe that there is justice in the world, when necessary, take out your own courage and wisdom to defeat the bad guys!

You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people. After all, the villain can't do big things with careful eyes, can't afford to hide, stay away from the place where the spitting stars are wrong, what should he do to do his own things, don't see the villain in general, the villain has no slander object, can't get a small bargain, can't make a small fortune, the result can be imagined.

It is not uncommon for some people to only recognize money and not others, and to slander others to achieve their own selfish interests. They compete maliciously, there is no need to spread rumors and slander others, and the giants who step on other people's shoulders cannot grow taller, go further, and do it for a long time. What's more, they try to kill their competitors, dominate one side by themselves, or the lion opens his mouth wide, asks for a sky-high price, or opens a posture that is beyond the reach of one man and ten thousand people, and forces others to comply, lawlessness, and will inevitably be punished or punished.

These people never dared to speak ill of the dragon stabbing man on his body, because he was afraid of being beaten. Therefore, to deal with this kind of person, is to find a quiet place and beat him. Of course, if you are a cultivator, then the appearance of such a person is a special arrangement for you, and you can only choose "forbearance".

A person who does not hesitate to slander others for the sake of selfish interests is necessarily a villain. A gentleman loves money and takes it in a good way. Belong to oneself through the income of labor, the heart is at ease, do not belong to their own unscrupulous means, unearned is the villain's move, the habitual method of the next three lai.

This kind of person is very selfish, and may hurt family and friends in order to achieve his goals, and I will choose to stay away from him to avoid getting into trouble.

If you want to evaluate whether a person is a normal evaluation or a slander, at least you know the situation better than he does. Wait for time, who will the heavens spare? It is the day when the slander will be exposed and made public. When the time comes, someone will know that you should not take advantage of the disadvantages for the sake of short-term gains.

This kind of person is indispensable, and the best thing is to stay away.

We try not to offend this kind of villain, so we can only stay away from it and deal less with it.

It depends on what self-interest he has achieved. Whether the words are groundless and slanderous out of thin air. On the contrary, people take the racket upside down: what the hell are you a ball!

For those who slander you behind your back, ignoring it is the best counterattack, just be yourself, don't care what others say and do, and you are not afraid of shadows.

There are always some people who can't see others as better than them, so they like to spread rumors behind their backs and say something bad to you, the more you care about what they say and do, the more energetic they are, and they will work harder to slander you, so such people turn a blind eye to them and treat them as transparent.

I met such a person in the previous company, at that time I had a very good relationship with her, the two of us are colleagues, usually have nothing to talk about, she had a boyfriend at the time, and our team leader is pursuing me, I have clearly refused the team leader's confession, her boyfriend's salary is hundreds of dollars higher than that of ordinary positions, at that time his boyfriend took the initiative to resign, saying that he wanted to jump to other companies to do, maybe the team leader likes me so there is selfishness, So her boyfriend left and transferred me to this position.

As a result, only half a month later, her boyfriend came back, maybe it was from this time that our relationship began to fade slowly, because he couldn't transfer me away when he came back, I didn't make a mistake at work, and when he left, the team leader had made it clear to him that he had to think about it before making a decision, and if he came back, it would not be possible to be in the original post, she began to alienate me intentionally or unintentionally, and deliberately said bad things about me to her fellow countrymen behind my back, I was very stupid at that time, I didn't expect her to tell others everything I told her, and she added fuel to the smear, saying that I was deliberately hanging the team leader, slandering and spreading rumors behind my back, and saying how bad my reputation was, and I heard her say these words from another colleague who had a good relationship with me, and I was really chilled at the time, butI don't want to pay too much attention to such people, just treat them as a meal to grow wise, such people have also taught me a lot of things, and they are lessons in growing up.

For the person who slanders you, don't let the other party affect your mood, just live your own life, sooner or later the people around you will find out that you are not the kind of unbearable person in the other party's mouth, if you are in a hurry to defend now, but let others think that you are a thief, even if you don't have something to make others think that you have done it.

If the other party is really doing too much, you can deliberately do something in front of the other party that makes him nasty, get angry, and let him know that this taste is not comfortable, but let's not take this kind of person's approach to heart, treat him as a clown who jumps off the beam, and let him jump.

When they meet gentlemen, they will abide by the bottom-line principle in their hearts, and will not harm others, let alone entangle others. But this is just a gentleman. If you meet an arrogant and unreasonable villain, they have no bottom line at all, they will only "break the tile and touch the porcelain", set traps for you everywhere, so that you can't eat and walk around.

A common practice of villains to take revenge on people is to spread rumors everywhere and find people everywhere to "chew the root of their tongue" to slander and slander you. It's such an ordinary trick, in fact, many people can't parry, and even sometimes "one way" to the end, and they don't know how to be flexible.

In the face of rumors and slander, many people's approach is nothing more than two points, either swallowing their anger or fighting each other. The former will only become a soft persimmon in the hands of others, allowing people to pinch at will, so that people can gain inches. The latter, on the other hand, will cause unnecessary disputes, and you will lose your personality and reason.

The so-called "smart man blocks a hundred punches with his hands." "What you do will determine where your life goes.

Before doing things, we must first start with ourselves, and reflect and think from ourselves. Why would a villain come to frame himself? Is it that he has offended him in any way, or is the other party not used to seeing him and wants to take advantage of the opportunity to make trouble.

If you find that you haven't done anything wrong, but you're just mixing better, the villain can't get used to it and wants to frustrate your own spirit. Then, you have to change your thinking and stand in the villain to think, why is he not used to it, is he too jealous, and shouts that he wants to have other plans?

You must know that most of the people in the world are people who "come for profit and go for profit". Standing at this point to think about the purpose of the villain, so as to clarify his own situation and have a view of the overall situation, he can find the magic door to find the royal law, so as not to be constrained by people everywhere and be forced into a corner.

When many people face the slander of the villain, they often lose their minds, and they just act rashly, but they don't find that the purpose of the villain is to make you angry, so that you make a wrong step, a wrong step, and finally lose the game of chess. Being a person in the world is like playing chess, you can change countless opponents, but you are still you, what you want to do, you often have to think from the root.

Why do many people lose their temper all of a sudden when they encounter something? It's because I have experienced too little and don't know how to think twice. Those who are very deep in the city, they are in a hurry, and they are in a hurry. As the old saying goes: "Quiet as a virgin, moving as a rabbit." ”

In the face of the villain's slander and rumors, the first thing you have to do is to meditate on yourself, think about others, and understand the purpose of the other party. In this way, you can hit the snake and hit the seven inches, and the thief will capture the king first.

3. The openness of bad relationships makes people "down" behind your back

Sometimes, since the other party has regarded you as an enemy, or even become incompatible with each other, there is no need to be hypocritical in this case, pretending to be a good colleague relationship of "brother, friend and brother". It's better to find an appropriate opportunity to let everyone know that you have a bad relationship with that colleague, and use this method to let the other party know that you are not afraid of him, that you are not easy to provoke, and that you dare not "stab the knife" at you unscrupulously.

On the other hand, everyone in the company knows that you have a bad relationship, and when the other party wants to slander you with words behind your back, others may not believe it, after all, your relationship is not good, and the credibility of saying bad things about you will be a question mark, and this method indirectly protects yourself.

Fourth, keep relevant materials and evidence, when necessary, face the slander, and argue on the basis of reason.

We must also learn to pay attention to our work in the work, for some colleagues in vain slander, don't be rash, as soon as you hear it, you will be angry, don't care about anything to go to the leader to fight for a level, you may be refuted by the leader speechless. When the time comes, spread everything out in front of the leader, so that the other party cannot refute it. Some people in the workplace feel that getting close to the leader is a sycophant and a sycophant, but this is not the case.

We get close to the leader and communicate with each other, the leader will easily understand your work status and your personality, and on the basis of full trust in you, if a colleague comes to sue you for a black state, the leader will not believe it based on his understanding of you, but will look down on this colleague.

Therefore, writing about the leader to have a good relationship is also a good way to deal with "villain" colleagues.

In the workplace, there will always be the ...... of such colleagues

Where there are people, there will be rivers and lakes ......

It's too hard to deal with villains!

The only way to do this is to face it or run away, and of course it's useless to run away unless you can find a place to find a paradise!

As for facing the villain......It is still recommended that you don't need to face it, when the other party doesn't exist, such as meeting in the workplace, just be a stranger, for a long time, there is no intersection, maybe there is no trouble you have now!!

For this kind of person who likes to slander others behind his back, he said it was best to say bluntly face-to-face. Otherwise, they will always have no fear, and they will think that you are a bully. In fact, everyone hates this kind of person, and the behavior of this kind of person cannot be tolerated.