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The wedding wedding pot burned out and leaked, which made people feel uncomfortable.
As long as the two of them respect each other
Tolerate each other and get along in harmony.
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Precautions for wedding weddings.
1.Hand washing. The wedding bowl is used to wash the bride's hands, and some places imply that the children born between the couple after marriage are as smart and clever as the bride, although this is only a marriage custom in some regions.
2.Put something.
When getting married, the wedding pot needs to be put things, generally need to put mirrors, pasta lotus seeds, red envelopes, peanuts, dates, longan, etc., implying that the husband and wife live in harmony and give birth to a noble son early.
3.Red cloth packets.
When getting married, the wedding pot needs to be wrapped in red cloth, and the bride's family will serve it to the man's mother and hand it over to the other party, which also represents the official acceptance of the bride as a family by the mother-in-law's family.
Second, who pays attention to the red basin for marriage.
1.Mother's family.
When I got married, the red basin was held by my mother's family at the beginning, and it was also prepared by my mother's family, and at this time, there were some objects in the red basin, such as mirrors, peanuts, red dates, red envelopes, etc.
2.Mother-in-law's family.
The mother-in-law's family carries the red basin, which is received from the mother's family, and the bride is sent to the door together with the bride's dowry, and at this time it is the bride's mother-in-law, that is, the groom's mother, which means that the mother-in-law's family officially accepts the bride as their family.
Summary: Due to the different marriage customs in each place, there are certain differences in the meaning or practice of the saying.
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These don't matter, there's no need to think about it so much.
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It will affect your mood to get married, but don't take it to heart.
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It's just a custom, and there's no need to be serious.
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If you believe, you will have it, and if you don't believe it, you will not have it, the more you care, the more you lose, and the more you will tolerate, the more you have.
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The dangers of feudal superstition:
I don't believe in hospitals, I believe in ghosts and gods.
Although our country has now entered the stage of rapid development of science, there are still some people who do not trust doctors and science when they are sick, but blindly believe in feudal superstitions, refuse to go to the hospital for treatment, and accept the diagnosis and treatment of professional doctors, but instead go to the so-called "sorcerers" and "goddesses" to ask God for divination and charms, thus delaying the best time for treatment, and then a minor illness is dragged into a major illness, and even a precious life is lost for this.
Don't believe in true love.
Whether it is urban or rural, when their children are about to get married, many parents do not look at whether the relationship is solid, but to count the other party's birth date to see if it is compatible. The consequence of this is that there may be lovers who love each other very much, but have to separate because of the incompatibility, or they don't love at all, but because they are compatible, and they are reluctantly together, the marriage calculated in this way may ruin the happiness of individuals and even families.
I don't believe in doctors, and I believe in the hour.
Many people pay attention to the time of birth of their children, and in their eyes, if they can occupy a good time, then the child will be rich and prosperous for the rest of his life. In order to ensure that the time is good, do not hesitate to advance or delay the birth of the child, even if the child has not fully developed, ask the caesarean section to let the child come out early, and do not listen to the doctor's advice at all, such an ignorant act is not only cruel to the innocent mother, but also may cause great harm to the child's health.
I don't believe in the teacher's belief in the talisman.
Some parents are very anxious in the face of their children's annoying grades, but their reaction is not to discuss the solution with the teacher, to guide the child scientifically, but to ask for some talismans who do not know the truth or falsehood, in their hearts, the reason why the child does not study well is because of bad luck, or the child is born with a bad character, so he needs the help of "God". As a direct consequence of this, the child himself will think that the effort is useless and will become opportunistic, which will make the learning worse and worse.
If you don't believe in it, you try to believe and change your life.
Nowadays, many people will put all kinds of strange formations at home, so as to make their financial fortune prosperous and their careers smooth sailing. However, they ignore a problem, that is, whether the career is successful and whether they can make money depends not on changing their lives and luck, but on their own efforts and their own mastery of professional knowledge.
There are many disadvantages of feudal superstition, which makes many people think that hard work and hard work are useless, and everything is just the "luck" brought by superstition, which not only delays the development of individuals and families, but also the future of society, nation and country will be negatively affected, therefore, superstition is absolutely undesirable, and feudal superstition should be destroyed.
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I think this problem should be that the girls in the unit are too arrogant, they know that their unit is good, their income is high, and they can't marry the boys who have a low income, if you are willing to lower the conditions, you will marry out soon, and it should have nothing to do with feng shui.
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Most of today's girls are professional women, they are financially independent and avant-garde, often think that marriage is the grave of love, and usually advocate late marriage, and do not want to be bound by family and children. Of course, some girls have too high standards for choosing a mate. High is not low.
nitpicking, and after delaying again and again, she will become a leftover woman.
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This has nothing to do with feng shui, marriage has something to do with personal temperament, as well as family disharmony, parents love disputes, and parents divorce, parents cold war will cause negative emotions to children's marriage.
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It has nothing to do with Feng Shui, there are many reasons why you are not married, and you may not find the right one.
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Maybe it's a coincidence! Strictly speaking, there is no absolute relationship with Feng Shui!
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It's okay to follow Feng Shui, but it will be influenced by people, so people go with the flow and don't need to deliberately influence a person's future.
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This has nothing to do with Feng Shui, this is fate has not yet arrived, don't worry, you have to put your mind in a good way.
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It should have nothing to do with Feng Shui.
Today's girls have their own pursuits and ideas.
The requirements for the other half are also different.
Won't get married for the sake of getting married.
Therefore, girls prefer to be single.
Also wait for the other half.
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It has nothing to do with feng shui, it's just the personnel recruitment of the unit, and he just needs to be unmarried. Being unmarried is more beneficial for unit training.
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In fact, the conflict between husband and wife is mainly about what kind of mentality the two of you look at the problem, if the two people do not give in when they quarrel, it will be difficult to solve the problem, and the impact is very bad, and then both of you will regret your impulsiveness at that time. Therefore, whenever you encounter a conflict, think about the consequences before deciding on the attitude of speaking, you are already a husband and wife, and try to tolerate each other when you can tolerate each other, nothing in this world is absolute. The so-called family and everything is prosperous, if your husband and wife are in harmony, your career will be better, and if the relationship is not harmonious, it will sometimes affect your career and other aspects.
The feng shui you said may be able to improve this kind of relationship between husband and wife, but it can only treat the symptoms but not the root cause, so the most important thing is to have a tolerant heart, a good attitude is the most important, and the so-called situation is born from the heart. Sometimes husbands and wives will quarrel because of some trivial things (mostly because of the things of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law), in fact, it is just karma, illusory things, as long as you see its essence clearly, think about whether this kind of thing is worth quarreling and then talking, if there is a problem, the two parties communicate with a harmonious attitude and can understand each other, and there is no conflict that cannot be resolved. I wish you a happy family and a harmonious husband and wife.
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It doesn't matter if you follow feng shui, what is the reason why husband and wife quarrel with each other? How can we avoid it in our lives?
1. Communicate money values.
If you find yourself arguing with your partner over money in a pinch, you may have different opinions about what kind of life you want. People quarrel over money, most of the time not because of lack of money, but because of differences in the values of couples towards finances and wealth.
2. Trust each other.
To love her (him) is to believe in her (him). There is neither a preservative nor a universal insurance for love. Since you are in love, you should maintain a minimum of trust in him or her.
3. Avoid the Cold War.
If you need some space after an argument, no problem, but you want to tell him "I need some space to calm down". "A common mistake people make after an argument is a cold war," said Richard Susserman, a New York-based psychiatrist and gender relations scientist. If you want to get rid of him or ignore his presence, he will feel that you are punishing him, which will cause him to be afraid to tell you how he feels in the future.
Instead, you should say, "I'm not as quick as you can adjust myself, but please give me 24 hours and I'm sure I'll be fine." If it hasn't recovered by then, we'll talk about it.
4. Analyze the purpose of the other party's quarrel with you.
Sometimes, the other person quarrels with you, and it may be intentional. They will test your bottom line by deliberately making mistakes or lying, and if you react violently, they will know that they can't do it, and if you don't get angry, they will know that they can be a little more wrong.
If you can roughly figure out the other party's intentions before the quarrel and adjust your degree in a timely manner, then the other party will not be able to grasp your bottom line, and you will not dare to take risks to try.
5. Don't speak ill of each other.
To avoid emotional intensification when arguing, it is necessary to talk less, and it is better not to speak, so as not to hurt others. During this period, both of them were very sensitive, and once they spoke badly to each other, it was easy to get into trouble.
When two people are together, there will always be friction, there will be problems, and of course there will be solutions. Therefore, the most important thing is to be able to communicate, not to be controlled by emotions, even if you hear something unpleasant, don't make a big fuss, calm down and analyze the source of the quarrel and solve the problem.
According to the information you provide, you can only analyze these, solve specific problems, find problems, and face others, which is the best way to solve them.
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It's true, my wife and I have been married for 7 years, as the saying goes, 7 years itch, and we have been arguing constantly since the 5th year. Later, I was introduced to a master by a friend, and he helped me adjust the feng shui at home. Choose auspicious plants and plant them together.
Use indirect light sources for bedroom lighting as much as possible, etc. Now I have a very good relationship with my wife.
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From the perspective of the same thing, the relationship between husband and wife needs to be carefully maintained and cared for by both parties. Feng Shui is a matter of faith, and if you don't believe it, you don't have it. If you believe it, it will certainly work if both parties subconsciously use Feng Shui issues to carefully maintain their relationship.
The key is mutual respect and love and mutual tolerance.
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It really doesn't matter.
If you quarrel, it means that both people don't tolerate each other.
On the one hand, if you want to quarrel, you can't quarrel, so please look for the root cause.
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I guess there is, I want to find someone to see it, too.
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In the southwest of your home, place the sweetest ** for the two of you to get married.
Secondly, put one in the southwest of your 2 bedrooms.
In the end, it's up to you personally, and if you alone, you're happier.
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There is a special need to hang wedding photos at home, remember not to hang these 2 places, but unfortunately I only know, take them away.
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1. Bedroom placement.
The bedroom is the most suitable place to place wedding photos, because the bedroom is an important place to maintain the emotional life between husband and wife, so the wedding photos also represent the emotional life, generally in the bedroom to place wedding photos, many people will choose to place above the bed, the head of the bed generally represents the mountain, the mountain represents Ding, the mountain represents the water, and there is also a saying in Feng Shui that "the left green dragon, the right white".
Second, the living room is placed.
The living room is the main place to receive guests and family members to rest, the average newlywed couple will choose to put the wedding photos in the living room many times, the northwest represents the husband, the southwest represents the wife, and the northwest of the living room hangs wedding photos, then it represents the family, the husband's attention to the wife, or the happiness of the relationship between the two.
Therefore, wedding photos are suitable for placing in the above two places, but if you want good feng shui, of course, you must hang the auspicious position of the feng shui mascot at home, so as to increase luck and bring good feng shui to the house. However, it must be combined with your eight-character five** situation to create a suitable mascot. It is recommended that you go to the official website of the phaseless copper furnace one-on-one to determine the suitable phaseless auspicious ornament hanging.
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Placement of wedding photos.
The living room is the main place to receive guests in the home, the personality of the general owner is reflected in the decoration and layout of the living room, the northwest represents the husband, the southwest represents the wife, and the northwest of the living room hangs a marriage **, on behalf of the family, the husband's attention to the wife, or the depth of the relationship between the two. Similarly, in the southwest, a picture of two people getting married or on their honeymoon shows more of the resoluteness of the people in this direction who regard each other as lifelong partners. However, this is only a symptom and cannot be generalized, after all, everyone expresses themselves differently.
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Nowadays, when young people get married, most people only know that they have to choose a good day and auspicious day, but they don't know that in fact, the feng shui of the marriage room is also very important. Choosing the right feng shui will not only promote feelings and a more harmonious family atmosphere, but also have a great impact on the development of the family in the future. So what is the feng shui before moving in the wedding room?
The living room should not be unobstructed.
The living room is not only a place for family leisure gatherings, a place for meeting guests, but also a place for families to gather, so the feng shui of the living room is particularly important. Newlyweds have just gotten married, and they inevitably receive frequent receptions. The living room should not be unobstructed as soon as you enter the door, so it is best to have a shield between the entrance door and the living room, and you can place some shoe cabinets and screens.
The bed should be placed in the auspicious position.
People spend one-third of their day sleeping, so feng shui in the bedroom is very important. Placing the bed in an auspicious position can make people feel calm, conducive to sleep, and another point is to enhance the relationship between husband and wife and make it easier for the woman to conceive. It should also be noted that there should be no beam directly above the bed, which can easily cause headaches, insomnia, and even lead to miscarriage of the woman.
The stove should be properly positioned.
The kitchen is also very important in the family, because the kitchen is the place where the couple's food is managed, which is related to the couple's physical health, and the body is the foundation of everything. When designing a kitchen, newlyweds must pay attention to the location of the stove, which should not be too exposed, not too close to the bedroom, and not too close to the sink and stove.
After the newlyweds have a new house, they must carefully arrange it, and the proper arrangement will not only enhance the relationship between the husband and wife, but also make the family more harmonious and the road ahead will be smoother.
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