Are there any girls who have lived happily after marrying Ma Bao Nan?

I still feel very happy now. The simple summary is the old saying, happiness is home and everything is prosperous, I have the best parents, and I also treat my in-laws like a daughter, and my husband who has always spoiled me as a little girl, and I have a very well-behaved daughter. There is not much pressure on the day, although there is no great wealth and wealth, but there is no worry about food and clothing.

Happiness and grievances exist at the same time in marriage, I don't want to feel that I have nothing to do when I am wronged because the household compliments me on cooking deliciously and is very happy, and I don't want to deny my happiness because of the grievances I have paid. We are just ordinary people, there are joys and sorrows, joys and pressures, full of hope, and it is inevitable that we will lose at every turn. We are just ordinary families and ordinary marriages, and it is good to enjoy our own happiness and accept that we are not happy enough.

Life is very relaxed, simply drink some porridge for dinner, relax, change into a loose cotton skirt, take the dog, and go out for a walk together. Take it to the nearby supermarket, prepare tomorrow's ingredients, or buy some leek leaves for two people, come back from a walk and wrap some dumplings, freeze them in the freezer, and if you get off work late at noon, you can eat them directly as soon as you cook them. It's pleasant to think about.

Isn't it? Husbands and wives should be together more, and the relationship will get better and better. There has never been a distance that produces beauty, and companionship is the most affectionate confession.

Yesterday after work, I went to the supermarket with my husband, I took the subway, he drove first, sat at McDonald's and waited for me. When I was about to arrive, I sent him WeChat, and I saw him take out his mobile phone through the window more than ten meters away, and after seeing my message, his usually serious face showed a doting smile. Suddenly, I felt that all kinds of thoughts about marriage when I was a child were far less than this moment made me feel happy.

It's a feeling of being down-to-earth and connected with each other, and only two people in it can experience it.

We got married in 2016. I am willing to marry him because we both have the same three views and have similar interests, and I am very happy and free to be with him. In front of him, I can be my true self and show my most vulnerable side.

He inspires me to be a better version of myself and makes me look forward to the future.

Most women are afraid of marrying a mother. A woman who marries a mom boy has a very low probability of happiness. But it is difficult for a woman in love to identify what kind of man is a mom boy. After getting married, if you find out that the man is a mother-in-law man, you can only choose to leave the industry and sell a wild marriage or make do.

Therefore, before getting married, women must keep their eyes open and learn to recognize what kind of man is a mother's treasure man.

So, what kind of man is a mom boy?

According to my observation, Ma Bao men generally have the following three characteristics.

First, the most important requirement for finding a partner is to be good to his mother.

I think that for a woman to be good to her mother-in-law, she needs to have several conditions. First, this woman is very kind, she is good to everyone, and naturally she will be good to her mother-in-law. Second, the mother-in-law herself is kind and knows how to treat her daughter-in-law well.

Third, as two individuals, the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law should fall in love. Leaving these three conditions, if a man unilaterally asks his daughter-in-law to be a good mother-in-law, 90% of this man is a mother-in-law man.

Second, when it comes to big and small things, you have to ask your mother's opinion. The mantra of this kind of man is, I want to ask my mother about this, and my mother doesn't agree with that.

The mother of this kind of man should be a mother who is very strong, and in the process of growing up with boys, she manages boys too much, so that boys are not used to making decisions by themselves, and they dare not make decisions by themselves. Even though he is an adult, in love, or even about to get married, he is still obedient to his mother in his bones, and he still wants to hear his mother's instructions in everything.

Thirdly, there is a mother-lover complex, in the mind of this kind of man, his mother is particularly great, especially sacred, and is the most perfect woman in his mind. By what signs is this to be judged? For example, when the two of you are dating, he always talks about his mother, and even involuntarily compares you with his mother, thinking that you are inferior to his mother in every way.

The characteristics of the three mom boys I talked about above, if a man has two of them, he can basically be judged to be a mom boy.

Some girls are kinder, and they always feel that a man loves his mother so much, and he shouts so well, it won't be so bad. Of course, a mom boy must be kinder than the kind of man who doesn't even love his own mother. However, Ma Bao Nan's destructive power to marriage is very great.

This destructive power not only comes from Ma Bao Nan's sole respect for motherhood, but also from Ma Bao Nan's strong mother's interference and intervention in the small family.

A woman who marries a mother-treasure man, in her long life after marriage, will always feel that she is an outsider in the family, because her husband does not focus the family on the relationship between husband and wife, but on the relationship between mother and child. Such a family will not bring a woman happiness.

Happiness, that's impossible.

Ma Bao Nan means that he has been restrained by his parents since he was a child, and he has no courage and poor ability, so he is only willing to sign his omen, everything is in a posture Lu is looking forward to his parents, and he can only listen to his parents, do you say that you will be happy when you marry such a man.

Such a mother-in-law must be strong, you are not a pair of three, unless you have strong ability in each aspect of your own banquet, have the ability to make this man listen to you, and also have the financial ability to stand on your own.