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My husband and I settled in a first-tier city and told us about our actual situation. The bride price is 10,000, a gold bracelet is 8,000, a diamond ring is 12,000, the clothes are 8,800, and the engagement banquet costs 13,000. When the woman's family got engaged, the man gave a wave of red envelopes, and when he went to the man's house to get engaged, the man gave another wave of red envelopes, and I don't remember the specific number.
For this reason, my mother was indignant, and called me several times to tell me how much I think about you, this bride price is not enough at all. The wedding banquet was held elevenly, and the man's parents could not afford it, and all the expenses were paid by our young couple, which is expected to be about 50,000 or 60,000 yuan. Fortunately, I am more competitive, my husband bought a house independently, I bought a car independently, I didn't let the family pay a penny, my parents gave 100,000 yuan to marry, and they were ready to return it to them after marriage.
In general, there are too many bad habits, and now is not the time to sell daughters.
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Jiangxi 18th line small county, the bride price starts at 100,000 yuan, plus three gold, there is also a saying of hardware, diamond ring, extra money for the woman's clothes 8800, including the woman's engagement banquet. The woman's parents receive gift money, banquets, weddings and other payments from the man's parents. In addition, after getting engaged, getting married, and giving birth to the woman, the relatives of the woman's family have to go to the man's house three times in total, and the number is not limited, and each time each person needs to give a red envelope to the man's family, starting from 500.
In addition, at the woman's engagement banquet and wedding banquet, the man must give red envelopes to the woman's main relatives.
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Generally, you need to give about 50,000 yuan directly, and the rest have to buy some jewelry for the woman's parents, which adds up to about 70,000 or 80,000 yuan, but recently many women's parents have begun to avoid bride price.
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Let me talk about Heze, Shandong, I am from Heze, this place sells girls, the bride price is very high, the poorer it is, the higher the bride price. At present, it is generally 160,000 --- 160,000 yuan, plus the change fee, things, tobacco and alcohol, and meat. has to pay 112---000 yuan, they are all young people, life is not good, in the two of you, I can't accept this bride price myself.
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Huanxian County, Gansu Province (a national-level poverty-stricken county) The bride price ranges from 10 to 300,000 yuan, and there is almost no bride price below 100,000 yuan, because the local people think that the more "expensive" the daughter is "sold", the more "valuable" it is, otherwise it will be looked down upon by others, and no one wants to give it to others.
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I am from Chongqing, and we do not have the concept of bride price and dowry on our side. If the young couple is ready to get married, if the man's family conditions are not very good, generally the man's parents make a down payment to buy a new house, and the loan is basically repaid together after marriage, and the woman's parents will subsidize the young couple to buy a car or decorate, and they will not give money when they get married, because the purchase of a new house or car has already been subsidized. If the conditions of both parents are very good, that is, the man buys a house in full, the woman buys a better car, and the parents on both sides may give a hundred thousand or something when they get married, mainly depending on the conditions of the parents, if the conditions of both parents are very poor, that is, the parents of both sides and the young couple together to make a down payment, do not buy a car, and get married is no problem, so men and women in Chongqing generally will not break up because of the problem that the bride price of both parents cannot be discussed.
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Myself, the man paid 100,000 yuan, including the banquet, my family didn't have a dime, and I made some efforts to help, this is the man's family politely doesn't care, my family just wants money to die, rely on me to make a fortune, I really can't hold my head up, but the man's family doesn't care, it's very good to me.
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Rural cousin, married 138,000, the woman is not clear, anyway, there are many rural areas here to borrow money to get married, and the man's parents have been making money to pay off debts for several years after marriage, which is really tiring.
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Hello, this issue is not the same from place to place. The bride price in our hometown is generally about 100,000 yuan. Two people have been together for a while, their relationship is relatively stable, and they feel that the values of both parties are more compatible, so at this time they need to consider marriage.
Whether you are married on a blind date or in love, there is always one topic that cannot be avoided, that is, the bride price. Because different regions have different customs and customs, and economic development is also different, so their standards for bride price are also different. Friends, how much is the bride price in your hometown?
1. The bride price in our hometown is generally about 100,000 yuan. Let's talk about the bride price in our hometown first, because our hometown is in a small city that can't get on the line, so the bride price is also very low. If the man and the woman have already established a relationship, they need to get engaged first, and the man needs to bring gifts, food and drinks and a deposit when he is engaged.
Generally, the deposit will be between 230,000 yuan, and the most I have seen is 26,666 yuan or 28,888 yuan, which is a good sign. Then on the eve of the wedding, I will go to the woman's house again to give the bride price, but the bride price also includes the previous fixed money, so the sum of the two sums is about 100,000 yuan.
Second, our bride price in Jiangxi is very high. In fact, I think the bride price in our region is still very low, and when we get married here, men are generally not under much pressure, but if you are an old watch in Jiangxi, it will be a headache to get married. Jiangxi's bride price money is ranked very high in the country.
I have a friend from Jiangxi, and when he got married, he took 280,000 yuan in bride price for his girlfriend's family alone. Then I had to buy a car and a house, and the woman's request at that time was still to donate, and it was not enough to pay a down payment, and getting married was really like peeling off a layer of skin.
3. In fact, you don't need to be too entangled in the bride price. In fact, I don't think that whether it is a boy or a girl or the parents of both parties, there is no need to be too entangled in the bride price. Some boys think that if you get married, you shouldn't give a bride price, what is the difference between this and selling your daughter, but I think this kind of thinking is also wrong, because your wife was also raised by other people's parents, do you know how much it costs to raise a child?
And the bride price is an old custom for many years, and it can't be said that it can be changed! Then the woman should not ask the man to give too much bride price money, they are all young people, ** there is so much money, can the amount of bride price money represent how deep the love for you is? The second is the parents of both parties, the man's parents must understand the righteousness when giving the bride price, do not pick and search, and the woman's parents should also stop in moderation, do not ask too much, and put too much pressure on the man.
Good luck.
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It is recommended that you find someone whose parents are dead, so that she does not want your bride price 100%. Besides, it is illegal to ask for a bride price now, which will affect the marriage of the two of you, and you can sue her parents. But the premise is that the girl must support you and live with you!
Otherwise, even if you are willing to give a bride price, the girl will not agree to marry you.
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You don't know how much money you have, how do you know how much bride price money you have, and you should ask yourself about the bride price money there.
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Wedding money is a traditional wedding custom preserved in modern China, also known as bride price. In terms of literal hobbies, I prefer the word bride price. The bride price began in the Western Han Dynasty and is a set of ceremonies for men and women to get married"Six Rites of Married Life"The bride price is one of them.
The purpose is to make a commitment to ensure that there is no remorse of the marriage between the two parties, after all, this is a difficult problem related to the dignity of the family, the man repents the contract, the woman does not return the bride price, and the woman regrets the contract and needs to return the bride price.
Men pay a bride price, and women will also have a return gift, which is called a dowry, and it is said that it is not indecent. Another meaning of bride price and dowry is to ensure that the newly formed family has some security, so these wedding gifts are actually ultimately given to the newlyweds. The bride price and its dowry are determined according to the economic strength of both parties, and most of the marriage in ancient times was the words of the matchmaker, and the order of the parents was not the right one, that is, how much level and how much bride price were given, basically each other would be satisfied.
However, there are also love stories between poor Xiucai and rich little sisters, in this case, the general women's requirements are for men to win popularity and status, not how much dowry is given, in fact, it is also a kind of doorman's position. We all know that the essence of the bride price is a kind of etiquette. In the contemporary era, some changes have been formed, and the first change is"Bride price"becomes"Bride price money"。
The Chinese language is broad and profound, and the literal change actually reflects a change in the social outlook. I said earlier that I was biased towards the bride price, and that was because"Hire"More announced, more polite. And the word "bride price" is more of a kind of lottery, a kind of so-called auspiciousness.
So we're now"Bride price money"The numbers are quite interesting: which eighty-eight thousand eight hundred and eighty-eight pieces, eight cents and eight, one hundred and thirty-four thousand (take the meaning of one lifetime), one hundred hundred thousand, two hundred and eighty thousand. In short, it's basically good to rub the edge with eight.
I came across an area: the first time a woman goes to a man's house, the man has to be 10,001, which means one out of ten thousand, at least hardware, the bride price is generally 80,000, 100,000, 150,000, and 72 ceremonies are needed before getting married, and I can't think about it when I hear that one must be more than the other.
Another interesting thing that is quite helpless is that the bride price money is becoming more and more of a blind comparison, and it feels more and more face-saving, otherwise it will not be able to raise its head in the neighborhood. In the end, there is basically no return of the bride price after the bride price is received at home in some places, and it is said that the water spilled by the married daughter cannot enjoy the daughter's filial piety money, so it is regarded as the alimony raised by the parents for many years. Therefore, the bride price in many places today has lost its traditional value, and many married life has stopped due to the unsightly bride price, and many families borrow money to make up the bride price and repay the loan after marriage.
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It also depends on your local customs and the other party's family conditions, under normal circumstances, the bride price is about 100,000 to 200,000 yuan; Our local bride price is 150,000.
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It depends on your local customs, and the bride price varies from place to place. Our local bride price is 166,000, and the bride price on our side is relatively high.
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I think the bride price should be between 790,000 and 70,000; Our local bride price is about 100,000 to 150,000 yuan.
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We don't have too much bride price here, because the employment environment is better, people don't pay so much attention to the bride price, and pay more attention to the chaos is the soul mate, knowing each other and loving each other to pursue spiritual happiness.
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