Talk about when you feel like your parents might not love you?

I was sick, some serious, I need to use medical insurance to go to the serious illness, for some reason I can only be reimbursed at the beginning of the year, but at the end of the year I can't stand the pain, and then I went, a few days after the operation, I kept saying that I was not reimbursed in the hospital, and I reported less, you should bear with it. I also said when I was discharged from the hospital and went home.

In recent years, I feel that my parents really don't love me very much. I have almost no contact with my father, and I often play ** with my mother. It's just that she often calls me regardless of the time, just depending on my mood, many times I'm sleeping, or I have severe insomnia, and I finally happened to fall asleep and was woken up by her.

My parents divorced me when I was a child, and they gave me to my grandparents, who never took care of me.

Before the college entrance examination, my parents treated me very well, but on the day of the results, I did very poorly, and my parents said that I was useless and did not earn face for them.

Last year, my brother bought a house, and my dad gave 100,000 yuan, and at that time I said that I had no money, so I could only give 50,000 yuan, and my dad immediately said, you go and borrow it. I bought a house, my dad didn't take a penny, I don't think he loves me.

In the first month of work, the company's system failed, the salary was delayed for a few days, and the money for the tooth extraction appointment was not enough, so I borrowed it from a friend. I told my parents that I was scolded by my dad. Although I was still given money later, it was still quite sad.

During the days when I was hospitalized after surgery in the summer of my freshman year, my sister and my boyfriend basically took care of me, and my dad just sent me a meal every day and left (he didn't go to work for a few days, and I didn't know that I had a boyfriend, and my mother was not in good health during that time and didn't come to the hospital, and my home was a five-minute walk from the hospital).

My dad is a southerner, maybe it's patriarchal, and after having a younger brother, he beat and scolded me, and we didn't have a good time to talk.

When the family moved, I fell a big heel when I moved things into the elevator, my pants were torn, and my knees were bleeding. My dad said next to him, you are like this, how can you lay a good foundation for work.

It can be judged from whether the following parents have these manifestations:

1. Tools for venting: Children are the hearts and minds of parents, who will beat children at every turn? Even some parents use their children as a tool to vent, as long as they suffer a little frustration and grievance outside, they will find their children to be angry when they return home, beat and scold their children, how can such parents be worthy of being parents?

2. You can abandon you at will: There are also some parents who have no children at all in their eyes, only themselves, and can even abandon you and leave at will, they don't love their children at all, they love themselves.

3. Annoyed when they see you: There are also many parents who are annoyed and annoyed when they see their children, don't like to play with their children, don't like to communicate with their children, and feel that their children are a trouble for him!

4. They don't care about you at all: they don't care about your studies, they don't care about your physical health, they don't care about your life, and everything about you and you.

5. Never feel sorry for you: As long as other people's children encounter something, the parents at home will be very distressed, but the parents who don't love you will not have this kind of cognition and behavior.

6. Don't care about your feelings: children will have their own thoughts when they grow up, as parents we should listen to the children's voices and feelings, and not ignore the children's feelings because of their own arbitrariness, which will also make them have the idea of "you don't love him"!

7. It will only hit you: Children need encouragement and praise, but for some parents, they will only continue to hit and belittle their children, thinking that their children will always be worse than other people's children, and such parents are actually very problematic!

8. Eccentric behavior: For some families with siblings, this kind of eccentricity will often occur, parents only like the young, or only like sons and not daughters.