What kind of relationship lasts? Whether it s a flash marriage or a quick one! Is it easy to break u

It's better to be indifferent.

There are only two possibilities for those who love too much and love deeply to the extreme: 1. Keep loving.

2. It only lasts for a short period of time before the game is over.

There is nothing good about flash marriage, you don't know it yet, after a period of time after the flash marriage, one party will think that the other party is old, casual, can't marry a wife (no one wants) or something, it is best to have two situations: 1. Get married soon after knowing each other (preferably over 25 years old).

Horses、I've known each other for a long time and know each other very well (casually how old I am)

It's not easy to break up, it's up to you, if you have a misunderstanding that can be resolved in time, and you trust each other very much, it may not be easy to break up... Damn.

Flash marriages or something are indeed easier to divide.

Before determining the relationship, if you can have a deeper understanding of each other in many aspects, such as whether the other party's personality is compatible with you, whether the other party's friends are not bad, whether the other party's parental relationship and family are harmonious and healthy, whether the values and cultural backgrounds of the two families and whether the economic ability are comparable, etc.

If these can be guaranteed, then the relationship will be relatively much more stable and can develop in the long run.

This is not necessarily, there are divorces after 10 or 20 years of marriage, I think it depends on whether the two people understand each other, trust each other, tolerate each other, and more importantly, they must love each other, in fact, there is no fixed shelf life for this thing, he is like a flower, it depends on how you cultivate it carefully, if you get along with each other well, there will naturally be no problems, and the relationship is maintained by two people.

My ex-boyfriend and I broke up after eight years of love, and my husband and I got married after knowing each other for half a year. Many people are like this, they can share the sorrows, but they can't share the joys.

Since I was in college, Gao Yang and I have been in a relationship, and many people are optimistic about us and think that we will definitely make it to the end. After graduating from university, he was hired by a large company in Shanghai, and I chose to stay in Wuhan to stay with my parents. Long-distance relationships are really hard, and he wasn't there for me when I was most lonely and needed him the most.

I wanted to end this relationship more than once, but in the end I was reluctant to keep it up. He persuaded me many times to go to Shanghai with him, but I couldn't rest assured that my parents were not in good health, so I never agreed. During that time, we had been arguing, even to the verge of breaking up, and my parents advised me not to worry about them and let me go to Shanghai.

After much thought, I decided to go to Shanghai to find him. But when I actually arrived in Shanghai, I realized that everything was not as simple as I imagined. I got a job as a clerk, and although the salary was not high, it was stressful, and I didn't have to work for a few days before I wanted to quit.

Later, my boyfriend's mother also came to Shanghai, saying that she was coming to take care of her sick aunt. She lives with her boyfriend and is very critical of me, thinking that I am not her ideal daughter-in-law. My boyfriend would always go to his mother and didn't take care of my feelings at all, and I suddenly realized that living with him was harder than maintaining a long-distance relationship.

Finally, one time, we had a complete falling out, and I resolutely went back to Wuhan. When I came back, I didn't take the initiative to contact him, and he didn't ask me for peace, so we broke up like this. After I came back, my parents saw that I was very disappointed, and often introduced other boys to me, and I actively went to appointments in order to forget about this unpleasant relationship as soon as possible.

My current husband was introduced to me by a friend, he is half a year younger than me, and he is very down-to-earth. After being with him, I found a sense of security that I had not felt for a long time. Only half a year later, he actually proposed to me, and I agreed.

His family was also very accommodating to me and made me feel very happy. Vigorous love is a way to witness love, but when it comes to marriage, it still has to stand the test of time. I think I've found happiness and understood that the best love is plain companionship and companionship.

I haven't had a flash love myself. In my opinion, too soon to confirm that the relationship will not last long. The reason why I think this is because of the lack of understanding of each other, the lack of emotional basis for determining the relationship too quickly, and the lack of sufficient investigation of each other.

1. The two parties of flash love lack understanding of each other, so it is difficult to last long.

Both parties in love can only be in love for a long time if they fully understand each other and make it clear that each other's conditions are suitable. ......The two parties of the flash love lack enough understanding of each other, and in this case, it is easy to have disagreements and even contradictions because of the differences between each other, so it is difficult for the two parties of the flash love to be together for a long time.

2. Determining the relationship too quickly will lead to a lack of emotional foundation, and it will be difficult for each other to last long.

Love needs a solid emotional foundation to rely on in order to last for a long time. This can only be achieved after a relatively long period of interaction between the two parties. ......The emotional foundation between the two Songyan people who are too quick to determine the relationship is relatively weak, and if the relationship is developed in such a state, it is easy to have various problems because of the weak foundation, which eventually leads to the fact that the relationship cannot last long.

3. The two parties of flash love lack mutual inspection, and it is difficult for love to last long.

Both parties in love have their own unique personalities, so they need to conduct a comprehensive and long-term investigation of each other, and after determining that the other party is suitable for them, they can clarify the relationship and fall in love together for a long time. ......The two parties of flash love lack of full investigation of each other, lack of knowledge and understanding of the differences between each other, and in such a state of communication, it is easy for two people to have contradictions between them, which will affect the relationship between two people. ......Therefore, it is difficult to maintain the relationship of flash love for a long time, and you must be sober and rational in the face of this situation, so as to avoid the impact of flash love on yourself, so that you can find true love.

The so-called family background is not the economic condition of a family, but also the concept of family style. It is essential to always see your parents before you get married. When you see the way the other parent's parents get along, or their thoughts, maybe you and the other person will be like this in the future.

The family of origin is a common topic, and it will have a great impact on people, and this influence cannot be ignored. Marriage is never a joke, so you must be cautious, flash marriage is really similar to gambling. Since Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying got married, there have been many bad voices on the Internet.

Later, Yang Ying mentioned the reason for getting married, she said that she saw that Huang Xiaoming's parents were very gracious, and his father would remember to bring a copy to his mother no matter what he ate outside to disturb the old man. This kind of influence is subtle, so that Yang Ying believes that he is a trustworthy person, and his future life will be loving. Many people have felt this way, they were obedient to you before they got married, and they changed after they got married.

Before we get married, it's actually hard to see what each other is like. But through his family background, through his parents, we can always see something. A family is not warm, its details do not lie, so it is a factor that must be considered.

For girls, it's not just about marrying a man, it's about joining a new family. Marriage and material things have always been linked, but they can't be all material, so that they will be less human. Marriage should be about money, and it should be done openly, and it is not something to be embarrassed about.

Many couples don't want to talk about money, thinking it's too cheesy and afraid that it will hurt the feelings of both parties. But I have to say that married life cannot be separated from money, this is the real life. Before deciding to get married, two people must understand each other's material capabilities and consumption concepts.

If the consumption concepts of two people are too different, then they will definitely not be able to get by, after all, they can't even spend money together.