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No one is perfect, no one has shortcomings. People don't live in this world to reveal the shortcomings of human life, and no one will care about your shortcomings.
On the contrary, these shortcomings are infinitely magnified by your fear of its existence. You think his shortcomings will be ridiculed. Actually, it's not. Everyone has shortcomings, you can consider that the people around you often live because they have shortcomings, but are they timid?
Go for it, don't be in a hurry, and remember that there are some shortcomings for people who go without despising anyone. As long as you have shortcomings, and not worry about everything, then you can face everything, and they raise everything that naturally expects from you. As long as it's by nature, others will be quick to accept you.
May not be accepted, but found you. They always accept you, but you don't show up.
It is not inferior, it only builds confidence. How to build self-confidence. Through continuous successful experience, with a sense of inferiority.
First, have the right perspective on yourself. Find your strengths.
Then play to your strengths. This is the basic condition to gain confidence. To gain confidence, we must first be satisfied and make ourselves feel OK. This is the most basic.
So, you want to use your strengths and try to play to your strengths. Go long, only in this way can you enjoy as much satisfaction as possible of success, then you have just built confidence.
If a person believes that he cannot do anything with it, he will not dare to do anything about it. will become more confident, it's a vicious cycle. Satisfaction succeeds for a long time, in order to further gain self-confidence.
Of course, it can also be slow. You can do small, incremental increments.
Self-confidence, in fact, is just a state of mind. Just need to find yourself and don't need too many complicated processes. As long as you have faith, then you must be full of strength.
Don't think too much about others, pay too much attention to what others think of you. It doesn't matter if you need to order, the usual state of mind about any frustration.
Self-confidence, in fact, is very simple, just believe in yourself. If you have self-confidence, you will be able to do anything. The key is your own, as long as you have confidence, anything can be solved.
In addition, the biggest factor of self-confidence is likely to affect oneself in the outside world. Know that a person always evaluates their opinion and that we are not living in someone else's world. Just do your own thing.
What do you care about him so much. Must exist in the world only for their own momentum. Have the courage to go your own way and let others do the talking.
No one can change themselves, no one can control themselves. When its own success is its own business, but if it is influenced by others, then retreat, but it is its own business, why not have anything to do with people, about our own.
And the last one, just believe in yourself, and you yourself will be full of confidence. A focused mindset.
There is no way back, as long as they are in front of them, they will not feel so terrible, then you can not worry. You'll eventually find that everything is so simple.
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I have been very timid since I was a child, I am afraid of anything, I dare not do anything, until one day it snows, it is too cold and the road is icy, the children and adults on the road are walking on the road, no one next to the child slipped, I saw this scene and walked out of the house without thinking about it, helped the child, thought about it afterwards, I was so bold, and there was a pedestrian on the road carrying a lot of things, packaged food, vegetables and so on, I was timid and never dared to take care of others, afraid of doing something wrong, Seeing that he was very laborious, he walked over and helped him get some of his things and sent them to his home, he was relaxed and happy for a little thing, and he was also very happy, doing something small to help others, I didn't expect myself to be so bold,
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