What do you think is the greatest love you have ever given to your parents in this life?

Nothing but harm.

Mother's love is always full of tenderness and encouragement, so that we have a firm heart in the face of difficulties, father's love is like a mountain, mother's love is like water, it is with the love of parents, we can grow up healthily from birth to adulthood, and we can feel the love of our parents when we step into the society.

May all of us be treated with tenderness, and now we can try to understand the good intentions of our parents and cherish the happy time with them!

The first point is that they will ask me if they find that I am not in the right mood.

Once I was very uncomfortable but a ninja alone, my father immediately saw that something was wrong with me and asked me what had happened, was it ** uncomfortable; Another time I was in a very bad mood, I was depressed alone, and my father found out again and asked me if I was unhappy? I feel very touched every time. Parents are like this, they will always endure their own pain, but they will be very keenly aware of your wrongness, and then care about you, and only parents can care so much about me.

The second point is that I always keep the good food when I eat.

My family is a very ordinary family, and my parents' salary is very low, so the meals I usually cook are some home-cooked food. Occasionally, when I buy chicken thighs or other more expensive dishes, my parents will not try to taste them, but still eat very ordinary vegetables, and keep these things that they think are delicious. Only after I can't finish eating it will they eat the leftover meat, and I feel sorry for them every time.

I told them to eat, but I left it every time.

Thirdly, whenever I have something to do with them, they will try their best to help me solve it.

Mom and Dad are usually very busy, often from morning to night, and it is difficult to have a chance to rest. Even though they are so busy, whenever I need their help, they put their own things aside for a while and help me get things done first. The school held a parent-teacher conference, and I told my dad that it was okay not to go, but my father still put off his job and went to my parent-teacher conference.

Hello, first of all, this idea has a big hole. Pay? How to pay? For parents, it is important to pay time, money, affection, behavior...It's all considered to be paid, but it's very different when subdivided.

For example, if you pay for the simplicity of love, patience, and upbringing, what children have learned will also be fed back to their parents, and gratitude will also be learned from their parents. "If you don't teach, it's the father's fault" Do you think that children don't understand, and they learn to self-reflect first, is there a problem with my words and deeds?

Teach your grandchildren by word and deed.

If you pay as a cow and a horse, you will be obedient and cowardly and incompetent. The child will take everything for granted, and if the period is interrupted, the child will even feel that the parents owe a lot, not to mention gratitude.

Or, the desire to control, parents control their children's preferences and choices, and over time, children lack self, and they will think that they are all caused by their parents, so how can they be grateful?!

Therefore, if you want to love your children, you must choose the right way, and it is great to pay, but you must also pay attention to ways and means, and you can't go the wrong way, otherwise you will harm others and yourself.

The traditional Chinese culture since ancient times is that parents are too persistent in loving their children and don't want their children to receive a little grievance and suffering, so they always put their children first. I always feel that my parents have been living for us for the first half of their lives, and when we grow up and graduate from school, then our parents are still worried about us, so that we can find a good job, and they do not hesitate to mobilize all the relationships around us to help me find a good job. When we are going to get married, it is also painstaking to help us find a suitable partner.

When we get married, marry a wife and have children, our parents still have to work for us, help us take care of the children, do our laundry and cook, and take care of the housework, so who are our parents living for in this life, I think parents are living for their children, and now the society is discussing the topic of who parents should live for. I think everybody has a different perspective on this.

First, first of all, when the parents get married, both of them will live for their own small families.

are taking on a lot of responsibilities for this small family. For example, the responsibility of the father is to work hard to make money, take care of the family, and protect the family; A mother's responsibility is to take care of the housework, run the family well, and help her children go to school. Therefore, when parents first get married, before the child is 20 years old, they basically live for the family and for the child, which is the Chinese parent.

2. Our parents are also living for their parents.

Because our grandparents are old and our parents are still in their prime, our parents still have to work hard to make money to take care of their respective parents and give them a peaceful and happy old age.

Third, parents should also have ideals and hobbies.

To appreciate the outside world, because they have lived for their children for the first half of their lives for more than 20 years, I think after the children are 20 years old, they should enjoy their lives, and stop working hard and tirelessly to take care of the family as before. You can give the children a little bit of responsibility, and then they can enjoy life.

You should live for yourself, although your children are all your parents, but your parents can't give your whole to your children, you should be kind to yourself.

This is the common psychology of parents, not to live for themselves, but for their children, which is not in line with reality, because then both parties will be very tired.

Parents should live for themselves, find their own interests and hobbies, and stick to living their own lives.

Live for yourself. Everyone is an individual, so we should all live our own values.

I think that parents should live for themselves, and they should live their own wonderful lives when they come to this world, but when I became a parent, I found that children are really everything to me!

I think parents should live for themselves, because they have worked all their lives, and they should think more about their own lives for their children.

Only by living for oneself can we live a meaningful life; Children need the help of their parents when they are young, and it is understandable for parents to worry more, but children have their own lives when they become adults, and parents should not interfere too much.

I think that parents live for their parents when they are young, live for their parents and children when they are middle-aged, and when their parents die and their children grow up, they live for themselves.

Parents should live for themselves, children are not the biggest bond of parents, they should learn to love themselves.

Of course, parents should live for themselves, because they are also parents for the first time, so they must live for themselves.

For yourself, because a generation has a generation's way of living, you should properly let go and let the children go on their own to create a world of their own.

Of course, they live for the sake of the family, and now they are all working hard to live and struggle together for their children and this family.

They should live for themselves, because their whole life is not for their parents, but for their children, and they never think about themselves.

I think parents should live for themselves, not around their children every day, which will make their lives very boring, and even make their feelings very bad, so I think parents should live for themselves, instead of putting all their body and mind into their children.

Whoever is a father or mother does not love his son. They are naturally bitter, for us to toss a lifetime, originally to the swift grip for us to grow up, to wait for us to become a family and set up a mausoleum to celebrate, to stay until the wind and water, to stay until the days are smooth, take us away to fly, without their support, they can boldly let go, you can be wide and fat, you can enjoy the blessings, you can be leisurely.

But I never thought that when they were dying, they still tried their best, and Wang did his best for us until the oil ran out. You are willing to pay silently, like the vast land, all the way to the toil and cultivation, all the way to grow and harvest.

The love of the parents' generation is vividly reflected in the details, they have run in each other's personalities and tempers in the years, and more so that the two people feel each other in the years.

One. The love of the parents' generation, they have nothing to spend before and after, and they have no vows. There are many more, but they haven't even met in person, but they fell in love when they saw each other when they got married.

Many of them fall in love after getting married, and only after they get married do they feel each other to adapt to the atmosphere of the family.

Two. They don't have the company of the moon before the flowers, and they don't have the warmth of sweet words. It's just that they comfort and care for each other, and the careful care is vividly reflected in the details.

One look knows what the other person wants to eat and what to do? What do you want to do? When he coughs, it immediately thinks of asking him to drink some water.

This kind of meticulous care, pervasive, makes you always feel very warm and warm.

Talk on the road and watch the scenery. Or you hold on to him. A little bit of walking, without any complaints.

They are inseparable from each other, this emotion will make you feel so happy, why do many young people fall in love for so long? After living for so long, I still can't find this simple and pure love. Why don't they know more?

There are not so many vows, but the emotions of falling in love after they get married can stay together for a lifetime. They have no material demands, and no more extravagant expectations. It's just two people who use their hands to create a future life, without the help of their families.

Same as I thought, so be it!