What do you think of white lies ? Please illustrate with a recent example from your own experience

I think a white lie is not to deceive you for some kind of benefit, but to put yourself in your shoes, worrying that it will have a bad effect on you if you know it. There are so many examples, and the ones who tell you the most white lies should be their parents, and I think most parents in the world give their children the most selfless love!

Square: 1If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust.

2.The "lie" itself is dark, and the white lie itself is falsehood. Although he took off the cheongsam worn by the beggar, he still could not escape the essence of his lie, and a lie meant deception, and thus hindered integrity.

The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once this lie is exposed, the damage to the other party will be deeper. 3.In my opinion, distrusting others is not only a lack of responsibility for oneself, but also a disrespect for others, and even a loss to others and the interests of the collective.

The most important thing is to lose the trust of others. 4.Zi said:

People have no faith, and they don't know what they can do. "I think that if people don't be trustworthy, they will have no place in society and they will not be able to do anything. A "lie" is called a "lie" because it is false, untrue, and deceitful.

If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust. 5.Another point is that if you tell a lie, it may be used many more lies to round that lie, and there is a high probability that lying becomes a habit, lying, it's like a snowball, it will get bigger and bigger.

Opposite: 1White lies are beautiful, and when we tell small lies in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect, and tolerance.

Who doesn't want to be understood, respected, and tolerated? So, I think it's still necessary to tell a few white lies in our lives. 2.

White lies, all kinds of white lies from the starting point and result, are all to protect the other party's emotions, maintain the other party's mental health and pleasure, and are a kind of humanistic spirit. Because of the existence of white lies, the world will become better, warmer and more harmonious, and the world will be full of sunshine. 3.

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, lovers, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved" or "At most, how long can I live in this world?" They all use white lies to encourage patients and let him cooperate with doctors**, and the opposing party can't blame these people for being dishonest, right?

Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, to his relatives who are already sick.

What about telling the truth? Is this an undermine to integrity?

I think – need to !!

In the last century, an American transport plane was hit by a sandstorm in the desert and forced to land, but the plane was so badly damaged that it could not resume its takeoff. Communication equipment was also damaged, and communication with the outside world was interrupted; Nine passengers and a driver were in despair; The instinct to survive has them fighting for their limited supply of dry food and water.

At the critical moment, a passenger who was temporarily on the plane stood up and said, "Don't panic, everyone, I am an aircraft designer, as long as everyone works together to listen to my command, the plane can be repaired".This is like a shot in the arm, which stabilizes everyone's mood, and they consciously save water and dry food; Everything was in order, and everyone united to fight against the difficulties of the wind and sand.

More than ten days have passed, and the plane has not been repaired; But a caravan of merchants traveling to and from the desert rescued them as they passed by. A few days later, it was discovered that the temporary passenger was not an aircraft designer at all, but an elementary school teacher who knew nothing about airplanes. After someone knew the truth, they scolded him for being a **, and angrily scolded him:

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, lovers, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved", "At most, how long can I live in this world?" and so on. Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, and tell the truth to his relatives who are already sick.

At this time, everyone will form a united front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make the patient full of hope for **, so that the patient can spend the rest of the years in a peaceful state. Is this an undermine to integrity?

When a child who does not rhyme with the world suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his relatives, how to explain to him that his relatives have gone. We think the best thing to do is not to tell him the real situation for the time being, just to say that he is far away for business, or studying and working abroad.

When the child is sensible and has a certain ability to bear, and then tell the truth, the child will also understand the behavior of his relatives and will not be angry because he did not know the truth earlier. Is it also an obstacle to integrity?

When the mother of a soldier who is on a mission in the field is terminally ill and breathes from the heat, how much he hopes to see his son for the last time, but the son can't come back, can't do a little filial piety for the old mother, take care of the mother who once broke her heart for her son, he is very sorry, and he is also very worried. And the old mother understood her son very well, and told her relatives around her that she should not tell her distant son after she left, and she could not distract him, but to say that his condition was stable, so that he could be loyal to the country with peace of mind. Is such a white lie an obstacle to integrity?

Therefore, I insist that white lies not only do not hinder integrity, but also greatly enhance friendship and affection between people, and have an indelible effect on social stability. Suggestion: White lies should be used, and there is no big conflict with integrity.

We know that people are in this society, and there are many obligations on their backs, and there is sometimes a contradiction between obligations and obligations, and when one obligation overrides another, the other obligation must be relieved. Therefore, the essence of a white lie is a more urgent and important obligation, and this obligation comes at the cost of alleviating the duty of good faith.

A long time ago, a philosopher in the West once said: There are only two things in this world that can cause people to move deeply: one is the brilliant starry sky above our heads, and the other is the lofty moral code in our hearts integrity.

Obviously, there is nothing more beautiful and innocent than the beauty of the heart, and integrity is precisely one of the manifestations of inner beauty. I think it is not difficult for the other student to see that since it is a lie, it hinders integrity, and the utility and benefits obtained by it will still come at the expense of integrity.

When I was in kindergarten, my mom said, I'm going to buy a McDonald's and I'm here to pick you up. I agreed, and I wouldn't refuse to leave when I went to kindergarten.

My mother likes to eat shrimp, but she always gives the best shrimp to her dear daughter, saying that she likes to eat bitter shrimp heads. On this day, the mother brought out a pot of hot shrimp, the fat shrimp appeared in front of her daughter, the mother had to cook some other dishes, she wanted to catch the shrimp meat to eat, but the mother ate the shrimp head every time, she thought: the shrimp head must be delicious, I also want to eat it.

I grabbed the shrimp head, ate it, and threw it all out. I asked my mom why she liked to eat shrimp heads. Mom said:

I love to eat. "But I fully understand that my mother gave me food. Mom is so nice.

White lies do not hinder integrity, and the world will have love only with white lies.

There are a lot of them! Don't you have it with you?

I woke up early in the morning because I had to go to cram school. Walking down the street, I saw a group of little boys laughing and chasing after each other. Suddenly, a little boy ran in my direction, and seeing that his center of gravity was unsteady and he was about to fall, I hurriedly grabbed his hand and held him steady.

He raised his head and smiled shyly at me, "Thank you, sister", this childish voice is so cute. I did a good thing early in the morning, and today must have been a good day too, I thought to myself.

Ah, I was going to be late, so I immediately ran towards the bus stop and squeezed into the bus. The crowded carriage was so hot and stuffy that it looked like a big steamer, and there was no place for me, and I managed to squeeze through the crowd to a handrail, and then braked sharply, and almost fell forward. Alas, I can only endure it.

At this time, I found that in addition to a young woman standing next to me, there was also an old man with gray hair, with a few age spots on his face, and his wrinkled hands trembling on the handle. The virtues of the Chinese nation have all gone to **?! It's a pity that I don't have a seat either, so I can't do anything about it, so I can only move to the side to make room for him to stand firm.

When the car arrived at the next stop, there was a person who wanted to get off the bus not far from me, so I quickly occupied the seat, and then patted the old man and motioned for him to sit down, but the old man said, "It's okay, you can sit down." "I'm going to get off the bus right away, so you might as well sit down" I told a white lie, but it was still far from me getting off.

Little girl, you must be a filial child. Thank you. Seeing him sit down, I walked over to the car door and slipped into the crowd.

Although these are only two very small things, they may not be effortless, but what it brings to people is ideological edification and spiritual cleansing.

We should spend every day like this, and when we are old, we will look back on the past, so that we will not regret that we wasted our time.