Why do people always know to cherish when they have it?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-22
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The weakness of human nature.

    It is that when you have it, you don't know it, and when you lose it, you feel painful. Any object or thing that has been with you for too long or is easily obtained, over time, will dilute the merits of the person or thing and take it for granted. And treat the things that are taken for granted will be as you like, and you will not cherish or have mercy if you want to do what you want, and human nature is full of interest and desire to conquer new things, people's energy is limited, and people's hearts are fickle, like a monkey breaking corn in a cornfield, always seeing the fresh and full next, casually discarding the most full one in his hand, in the end it is just an empty one.

    Sometimes we don't realize that we believe in ourselves too much, thinking that it will not change, but we forget that the water will not stop and the human heart will become weaker, some habits feel that they have melted into the blood and stopped in the bottom of the heart, and some sadness is just not used to it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, when you have it, it's too easy to get, and people often don't know how to cherish it!Secondly, when you have it, you enjoy it, and you don't think about losing it, but you don't think about cherishing it!Often when we lose, we suddenly realize that what we have will not always be there, and it may also leave us!

    Only then will you feel that you should cherish it!However, I think that people with a mentality will cherish it more and are afraid of losing it at any time, so you will keep cherishing it at any time!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because I don't understand, I don't let myself cherish my ignorance. is because of naivety and naivety, which makes people ignorant of fireworks in the world and the truth of the world. Because the heart is high and the life is paper, people sit in the blessing and do not know the blessing.

    People who have never eaten Coptis chinensis will know how bitter Coptis chinensis is and how sweet honey is. Perhaps only by experiencing it will you understand it, and experience will make you mature. Perhaps experience is the best environment for people to grow, learn, and educate.

    Just as a person does something wrong, he has to bear and bear the relevant responsibilities and consequences. Don't see Him as a punishment from Heaven for you to suffer. Rather, it should be seen as God forgiving you and allowing you to go to further study, to be tempered and educated.

    Let you know life, know how to be a man, learn to live, and learn to be a man.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't have a clear goal, it's not easy to be satisfied. These people generally do not have a clear goal of their own, but use others as a reference. This makes them like to compare themselves with others, and every day they see how others live, and they want to live how they want to live.

    Today is compared with this, tomorrow is compared with that, and so compared, there will naturally be places that are not as good as others, so they want to abandon the current days and live the days of others. And often most of these people only see the surface, see the days when others take it out to dry, do not take into account their own conditions and circumstances, and when they really walk in, they find that it is not as they originally saw, so they begin to regret it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Overestimated their own value. The reason why people say "the right is the best" is because everyone has different thoughts, pursuits and hobbies, and what he thinks is good is not necessarily right for you. And the one you think is excellent, he may not be able to look up to you.

    A job that pays well can be done well by others, but you may not be able to do it well. If you quit your job and go for a job that pays you better, but you can't do it, you're going to regret it. Everyone wants to live a better life, but they must first know how many pounds and taels they have, and how much they pay to get how much.

    There is no free bread in the world, and those who do not cherish the present are often people who cannot see the essence of the world clearly and always think about problems with their own subjective consciousness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    People are like this, when they have it, they take everything for granted, and when they lose it, they know how much luck it took to meet you. Learn to forget it after too many disappointments, believe and look forward to it again and again, disappointed and cold again and again, and finally become silent, so I choose to leave. It takes a long time to warm a heart, and it only takes a moment to cool a heart.

    Don't cry after you lose it, it could be a lifetime when you turn around.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Always feel like you're right. Be tolerant of your own mistakes and be harsh on others; Because they are familiar, they indulge their tempers; Avoid your own mistakes and even failures, and the mistakes are someone else's, or even push it to others or go to other aspects to find the reason. In this way, you will become smart, become flawless, and become perfect.

    In fact, the most difficult thing for people to get along with is themselves, and it is also the most difficult to recognize themselves. It's always hard to put yourself in the right place. Shortcomings and mistakes are always someone else's, the world can never keep up with their own pace, and they can't get used to the world.

    Maybe that's why.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The two most painful things in the world are not gained and lost, if you know that the ending is separated, then probably many people would rather never meet, how good life would be if it was only as first seen. People always don't know how to cherish when they have it, and they regret it after they lose it, but some feelings can never be found if they are lost. Don't wait for the young man's head to be white, empty and sad.

    Time is the best medicine for heartache, and the pain will disappear one day. When you don't cherish it, you don't know when you lose it. The heart is slightly moving, but the love is far away, the thing has passed, and the person is not, and the past cannot be chased.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Many people are chasing and forgetting the people around them, full of mountains and rivers, it is better to pity the people in front of them. When the person in front of him really left, he was sad. At that time, it was just ordinary, and I never saw her come back.

    He was the closest to you in this world, and now he is the farthest away from you. At the end of a song where the flowers are gone, don't let down an encounter and know each other, everyone's life is precious, and it is difficult to have a second time if you lose it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After losing, I know that I have to cherish, people are like this, what I can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving themselves, when they realize who is really worth cherishing, but things have changed, and people have gone. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

    There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, there are many such times in a person's life, when they always feel that something is their own, they don't care much when they have it, and they regret it once they lose it

    It's just that we age too fast, but we are too late to be smart. I don't regret knowing you, it's just a pity that I'm never the one who can give you happiness.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, it's not that you don't know how to cherish it, but relax, and then slowly relax、、、 in fact, it's like a "project", before doing this "project", try everything you can to do it, and after getting this "project" for a while, the heart will relax, because the heart will naturally produce a feeling that it is time to rest. Because he already knows that this "project" will not change for at least a while is his.

    In other words, this "project" should continue to put a little pressure on him, and continue to let him know that although it is in your hands, it is not necessarily 100%.

    You can go to bed when you're full, but if you haven't eaten all the time, or if you're given a little bit, do you still want to sleep?

    People are like this, you have to give him a crisis at any time, and he will know the crisis.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People are like this, what you can't get is often the most important, and you work hard to pursue everything you want to pursue when you think it's your own will never lose, and naturally you don't know how to cherish it, and you will regret it when you lose it!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The ideal is plump, the reality is skinny, the long-term spiritual gap, persistence seems too reluctant, and if you don't pay attention, you will die, and it is too late to know how to cherish!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In enjoying the love given by others, how to understand the feeling of giving in vain, and only learn how to love someone when you lose, don't feel that it will come late, once you leave, it is difficult to turn back, because she has been bruised all over her body for your love, she can't afford it, I hope he won't let him hurt her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Contentment, which man never understands.

    I always think that what I can't get is the best.

    The more you get to know the people around you.

    The more it feels unsuitable.

    After a long time, love turns into family affection, and I don't even know the existence of love.

    will give up. But once you give up.

    It's yourself who regrets it.

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