What should a girl know when she gets married?

Know how to cherish harmony and harmony. I used to think that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was very unfavorable, and there would be confrontations everywhere. But after I got married, I found that as long as I kept a good attitude, I was kind to others.

Even if you hear the accusations of your in-laws, you can remain tolerant and considerate. It is possible to get along. And the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really not so-for-tat.

As long as we love our husbands well, our in-laws will not embarrass us.

After marriage, our relationship is divided into many parts: with our lover, with our children, with our parents, and with our in-laws. Among them, the relationship with the in-laws is the most complicated.

Some people get along happily, while others don't get along with each other. I believe that many women have good hopes before they get married, but slowly some reality will wash away the expectations. Then complaints and hatred followed, and finally snowballed and even broke the whole family.

I know that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, but whose life is easy? So, try to respect these feelings, and maybe it will pay off.

Before getting married, as long as you are responsible for shopping and eating snacks with you. After getting married, although the sentence I love you is not as much as I used to say. It's more that after your hard work, I'll cook our favorite meals with you, do the laundry, mop the floor, and do the housework with you.

Then accompany you to see your favorite youth idol dramas. Occasionally, I will take you to a restaurant outside to improve the food, but you never complain that it is not delicious as before, and it is not appetizing.

Only when raising children do you know the kindness of your parents. With the birth of a little baby. While enjoying the joy brought by the children, I also understand the hard work of my parents back then.

I still remember when I was in the third grade of primary school, I didn't do well in the exam, and I knew that I would be criticized when I went home, so I went to the river with my friends to take a bath, it was hot at that time, and after getting the report card, I went to the river to play in the water for a day, and my mother was so anxious that I looked back and forth from the school road several times, and when I was found by the river later, my mother's angry face hid a smile behind it, however, the beating was not hidden. Now that I think about it, I was naughty and ignorant at that time, and how anxious my mother should have been at that time.

has been in the palace of marriage for more than two years, from an ignorant girl to an expert with a baby, and I really feel a lot during this period. Marriage is not a matter of two people, and before marriage, I always thought: get married!

Isn't it enough for two people to love each other? After marriage, I found out that it is not, love is indeed a matter of two people, but marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, or even several families. Take myself as an example :

After I got married, I was faced with my husband's family and my husband's brother's family; And my husband is facing my family, and even my brother's family in the future. Therefore, many things are not as simple as imagined to be summed up in one sentence, and only you know the hardships in each.

Only when you are at home do you know that firewood and rice are expensive. In those years, under the protection of his parents, he always spent money lavishly. The monthly salary I earned was almost nothing, and at that time my mother said that I should save some flowers for myself, and I would have to spend more money after I got married.

I didn't listen at all. Now, in the face of the monthly mortgage, as well as the occasional dinner party with colleagues, the monthly life is also quite tense. Now that I think about it, if I had to listen to my parents' housing as soon as I started working, I would have much less financial pressure now.

When you fall in love, you often talk about "breaking up", and after you get married, you often talk about "divorce". When we quarrel, I sometimes quit my words and didn't want to give in, but I couldn't find the right words to refute my husband. In this case, most of my people will "jump over the wall" and choose to threaten him with the word "divorce".

Later, my husband talked to me solemnly, hoping that I wouldn't always talk about "divorce", because he really took it seriously, and there was a shadow every time. I realized that it was because my husband cared about the family that he would compromise with my threats again and again. From then on, I would have more "brains" than I was impulsive, so as not to allow myself to say hurtful things.

I think that before getting married, we need to think clearly about what we will live our lives after marriage, because marriage is to be run for a lifetime, it is not a house, it needs us to feel and change with our hearts.

First, choose the person you want to marry, love is a feeling, happiness, you feel happy and happy with this person, your heart becomes soft when you think of him, you know the reason why you choose each other, you recognize each other's merits, you believe from the beginning, he will be the one who will spend the rest of your life with you, choose the person you want to marry, even if one day the days become dull, you will not regret your original choice, second, don't get married because of the influence of others.

Don't choose to get married because you are old enough to get married, don't get married because your parents and friends urge you to get married, don't want to get married because your friends are defeated, don't choose to get married because everyone around you is married, and don't choose to get married because others think you are very suitable.

There is only one reason for you to get married, you want to marry him, he wants to marry you, and third, have less love brains.

Don't choose a marriage because you are moved, and don't ignore many bad things because he is good to you.

If the relationship makes you feel uncomfortable and leaves you in a dilemma, then, even if the man is rich and handsome, keep your eyes open.

Fourth, pay more attention to the character of the other party.

Marrying a man with good character, he doesn't need to be rich, and he doesn't need to have much ability, a man's character can ensure that you will not be treated unfairly in marriage.

The way to identify the other person's character is very simple, look at his attitude towards his friends, look at his attitude towards you when he encounters disagreements, and look at how he deals with setbacks.

Fifth, notice the differences between you.

It is impossible for two people to be together for everything, whether it is in daily life, work, or socialization, there will always be such and such differences, pay more attention to the differences between you.

For example, what are the similarities and differences in your outlook on money, love, and life, what is the other party's attitude in the face of differences, and whether you do not understand but respect, which is very important.

Girls must understand before getting married, no matter what kind of partner you choose, remember to be cautious, once you choose, you can't regret it, otherwise you will only be hurt by yourself.

Girls must be self-respecting, self-respecting, self-respecting, and what you want to do three times.

You raise yourself to be precious, so that others can respect you.

2.If the gap between two people in two families is too large, it is recommended to consider carefully, after all, marriage is not as good as love.

3.If a man treats you badly before marriage, then you don't expect how good he will be to you after you get married, the chances are slim to none.

4.Girls must have their own financial income, whether it is before or after marriage, you will understand the importance of having money in your hands.

5.The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really important and important, if the other party's mother does not value you or has an opinion on you, then you should be cautious about the combination of this marriage, if the person you love does not have a certain mind and position, then consider giving up.

6.Don't live together before marriage, don't live together, it's better not to live together, the disadvantages of trying marriage far outweigh the benefits for girls, think about how he can easily get married when he tastes all the advantages of marriage without taking on any marital responsibilities.

If you say that you don't try to get married, how can you see the problem, in fact, as long as you try to get married, the girls are basically identified, and they all live together and try to get married, and it makes no difference whether you get a marriage certificate or not.

7.Don't get pregnant before marriage, there are many examples on the Internet, everyone knows this truth, whether you can do it depends on yourself.

8.Don't be trapped by marriage at an early age, whether it is in age or experience, each other's immaturity will cause a lot of harm, and being single and alone will give you infinite possibilities in life to the greatest extent. Especially for girls.

9.You have to understand that love and marriage are two completely different concepts, stepping into marriage means that you have to take on more responsibility, more tolerance and understanding, more forbearance and maturity, marriage is different child's play, and do and cherish.

10.Marriage should be the happy destination of every girl, never marry for age, marry for parents or follow the trend to get married, feel that when it comes to it, it will be beautiful to be sleepy.