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You didn't say what fault your husband had, weirdness, etc., so how did you get married before marriage? You must know that many people have different feelings because they don't understand life, and think that the whole content after marriage is just the romance or continuation of romance imagined before marriage. Firewood, rice, oil and salt, raising a family at Hukou, honoring parents on both sides, educating children, etc.
If everyone has sincerity to live their lives, they will be able to live that life. It's okay to add a little color to your life, go on vacation, travel, visit relatives, buy something new for your little nest, participate in hobby activities, etc., and it is better if the couple has common hobbies and participation.
So what is your situation, how is the communication? Husband and wife get along well, which is conducive to educating children. It's a hundred-year plan!
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Secretly find a lover again, or, divorce.
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Then get a divorce. It's a nuisance.
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There are many things in the world that are not perfect, whether it is because of impulsive marriage or other reasons, many people will regret it after getting married, so what should I do if I regret getting married? Is it a divorce right away? Or find a way to make your marriage perfect?
Now the social pressure is high, and some people are forced by the pressure of family and society, so they hurriedly marry the person they don't like, and hastily decide their marriage, which is not responsible for marriage, irresponsible for each other, and irresponsible behavior for themselves, so this kind of person will regret it after getting married, and he doesn't like it in the first place, how can he live a stable life.
First of all, if there is an idea of regretting marriage, don't divorce impulsively, first find out the problem, in the end, there is a problem in your marriage, is there no emotion? The question of whether Fengzi is married or separated from the two places, etc., I have found the problem and are thinking of a way to solve the problem.
If you don't have children yet, married life.
Not as satisfying as you imagined, not the married life you want, then first of all, you can discuss this problem with your other half, why are you living like this, is there a good way to solve the problem, do two people have a common opinion that can make marriage better, if so, you can implement it, don't have a pessimistic attitude, you have to face it positively, if the method works, then you have found the life you want, and the two people are more loving, At this time, I won't regret getting married.
But if two people do not agree with each other, they have not discussed a good countermeasure, and the other party agrees to divorce, then divorce is also a good countermeasure, life is to live for yourself, since you are not happy now, why can't you get rid of it, of course, you must be cautious and cautious before making this decision, once you divorce, you are really a person again.
If the two of you have the crystallization of love and have children, then no matter what the reason is for regretting getting married, you must first consider the children, the children are still young, and they should not bear the consequences of adults' mistakes, you must know that it is a very difficult thing to raise children no matter who raises them alone, and single-parent families.
The child always lacks another part of the father's love or mother's love, and he will not be happy, he will not be happy, so don't forget that you still have a child before making any decisions, and don't let the child suffer for you.
Marriage is not child's play, I hope everyone can pay attention to it, don't tie the knot casually, so that the regret in the future must be yourself, everyone must wait until the time is ripe, two people come together because of love, you get married because of love, not because of anything else, so that you can make the decision to get married, only two people are willing to get married, and you can live a stable and happy life in the future. In the end, I hope that everyone gets married because of love, not for the sake of getting married.
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If you regret getting married, if you don't have children, you can discuss maybe find happiness again, it's best not to delay each other, if you already have children, you should consider the feelings of the children, don't divorce easily.
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If you regret getting married, please think calmly about the origin and process of this relationship, there is no problem in principle, and then try to communicate with the other half to see if you can solve the problem. If you don't get a response, you can choose to get a divorce.
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If you regret getting married, you can apply for a voluntary divorce with the other half, and if the other party does not agree, you can file for divorce; In this case, it is necessary to negotiate with the other half, and the two people can choose to divorce, if the other half does not agree, they will divorce through litigation, and both parties can directly sign a written divorce agreement if they voluntarily divorce, and then apply for divorce at the marriage registration office.
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First of all, we should understand that the meaning of marriage is to make our lives happier. Instead of making your own life a mess. Therefore, you must be clear about whether your marriage has any substantive significance.
It is also necessary to choose to get married at the right time, and should not choose to compromise on the issue of marriage. I once heard a saying: there is no age to get married, only the feelings that should be married.
I think this sentence is very correct, and we should also pay attention to the meaning of marriage, and should not treat marriage as child's play. Nor should marriage be treated as a house. Because marriage is very important for everyone, and it only happens once in a lifetime.
Therefore, it is also necessary to pay attention to how to plan your life after marriage. It's easy to regret if you don't plan well, but you should also overcome this mentality after regretting. You must encourage yourself in time to become a better person in your marriage.
You can sit down and communicate calmly with each other, and the two of you can come up with a better way to deal with your marriage and come up with better countermeasures to manage your relationship.
If you suddenly have feelings of regret after getting married. First of all, you should understand why you have this kind of regret, and if this regret is a temporary regret that can be resolved, you should learn to resolve this emotion. And also to sit down with the other half and negotiate calmly to deal with a solution.
But if this regret is regret in principle, the other party touched your bottom line, or did something you couldn't bear. Then you should stop your losses in time and let yourself get out of the way. If you are too tired, then such a marriage is meaningless and will hinder the pace of your life.
Therefore, you must maintain your own attitude towards your marriage, and deal with it positively when you have regretful emotions. And also be good at discovering the shortcomings and problems in marriage. In this way, we can have a more perfect and happy marriage.
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