What happens when you re alone in class, but the other roommates are sitting together?

Is it because they deliberately isolate you when the other roommates are not with you, or is it the result of not having a good relationship with them? If you are deliberately isolated, you can find classmates in other dormitories, even if you are alone, there is nothing, which can stimulate your motivation to study, most of the talented people are lonely when they are students, don't care if you have friends, being an excellent loner is much better than being a mediocre person who can socialize.

In this case, you have two choices, one is to insist on self-improvement, and you don't have to care about the attitude of your roommates, you can continue to study and work hard to improve yourself.

The other is to try to fit in with them, live with them, want to fit into their topics, and slowly you will come together.

Self-disciplined people don't care about the environment, no matter how complex the environment is, as long as you have the heart to complete your tasks, other external factors are superfluous.

It depends on whether the classroom seats are limited, or the other party deliberately isolates you in this way, if the latter, you have to see if you have any estrangement with them, and take the initiative to communicate, it should be solved.

Do you care about them?

If you care, find the problem, find a way to solve it, and open the knot.

If you don't care, why bother, find new friends and be with like-minded people. The circles are different, the people are different, it is difficult to melt, and it also consumes itself. Find another good friend who suits you.

Cold. Their feet grow on them, whatever they want, go and sit.

If, if, if you are isolated, don't think about the bad side, you can find your own hobbies in the process and improve yourself, and you should probably thank the person who took the lead in isolation, who helped you recognize the people around you.

If you really don't get along with your roommates, then don't be with them, don't force yourself.

It could be isolated, if it was me, it might be on my own, and I would be on my own.

Do what you have to do and don't care too much about others.

Mind that as a girl, I can't accept that there is radiation when I sleep at night.

No! Because it's a free society, unless she influences me! That's different!

He plays with his computer, I sleep, I sleep, do you mind?

You are too simple, how can there be no small groups in the dormitory, you still have to get along with others and find your own good friends.

Just let it be, it usually doesn't get any better.

Fight back, how she hits you, you also find a way to hit her! A few more times, and she won't be after a long time!

Be generous in your reading. Don't pick and choose. To learn to be tolerant, people have their own advantages, and if you want to make friends with a little disadvantage, you will have no friends.

Hide if you can. Young people, it is impossible to be like an experienced adult, and keep saying the truth. For the person you hate, try not to contact him, talk less, and spend more time with good friends.

I'm a college student now, and there are a lot of weird things going on in my student life. For example, if a dormitory student collectively asks a roommate to leave their dormitory, or if the dormitory fights with the dormitory, then if a girl is isolated by the other roommates, then what kind of person is she? Let's talk about the reason for this in my many years as a student.

First of all, the first reason, this girl borrowed money and did not pay it back, although it is said that money is not omnipotent, but leaving money is absolutely impossible, if you are a person who borrows money and does not pay it back, then it will definitely cause disgust and dissatisfaction among roommates. The second reason, there are people who talk in dreams or sleepwalk or have nightmares and have the habit of kicking legs and kicking the bed, speaking of this, I think of my high school classmate, that roommate, she usually pretends to be very cold, but she has this habit of having nightmares at night, at that time we were in a dormitory for a year, that year we were all scared at night, and then I responded to the teacher that the teacher said that she couldn't get her out of the dormitory, which would hurt her self-esteem, you get along well. The third reason.

This girl doesn't like to be clean, but I haven't met a girl in my student life who doesn't love cleanliness. But I have met male classmates who don't like to be clean, why do I know, because not only I know that our whole class knows, it was the first year of high school at that time, and then there was a boy in my class, he took the high school entrance examination twice before he was admitted to our school, and then we were in a class together for half a year, and the fun things in the second half of the first year of high school began, I remember that time, there was a note behind the text full of hope that was particularly literary, and then I studied with me at the same table and looked carefully at the content on it. And then the general content is that the boy doesn't wash his feet once every two weeks, and then the dormitory people collectively pour water for him, and then put the foot-washing water at the boy's feet, and the boy doesn't wash his feet at all, and then the boy doesn't wash his clothes once every two weeks, even his underwear is not washed.

I laughed so much at the same table that I thought the content was written in a very literary style and funny, but I was surprised that I didn't expect there to be such a boy in my class.

If a girl is isolated by other roommates, I think there are a few reasons.

Don't love hygiene. We all know that the dormitory is a place of collective life, of course, we should pay attention to our hygiene habits, because after all, it is not a single life, no one can stand your bad living habits, if you usually have piles of garbage in the dormitory, do not like to wash clothes, take a bath, litter, it is estimated that you will be looked down on by your roommates and isolated.

2.Make noise and affect others.

This kind of person should be more selfish, will not take into account the feelings of others, self-centered, may be in the bedroom with a loud **, regardless of the roommate is already sleeping, or it may be when the roommate is sleeping, still talking loudly**, affecting the roommate's rest, and then the roommate speaks out, and I don't know how to correct it.

3.Tell the roommate's secrets.

Sometimes a dormitory person, of course, will not go to prevent something, maybe the roommate told a secret or something in the dormitory, and then she was told it in a blink of an eye, which will definitely cause isolation.

In fact, there are many reasons why a girl is isolated, sometimes not only because of her own reasons, but occasionally because she provoked a person who is stronger and more powerful in the dormitory, she will take the lead and all her roommates will isolate her, it is also possible.

So I think that in order not to be isolated, I should try to regulate my words and deeds from time to time, after all, the dormitory is a collective, and I don't see anyone who looks up all day long, and if I am isolated, my life should not be easy.

If a girl is isolated by other roommates, first of all, there must be something wrong with this person's character, just one person ignores her, it may be a problem for both parties, but the whole dormitory is isolated from her, you should reflect on what is the reason why everyone isolates her, first of all, let's analyze, the first point, this person may not think about others, only think about their own kind, such as watching TV in the dormitory and turning on the loud sound without headphones, other roommates are sleeping, Then tell her that she didn't react, the dormitory was originally a place where everyone lived together, and such a person would naturally be isolated by everyone after a long time.

The second point is that it may be a person who does not pay attention to words and deeds, and it is easy to show emotions in behavior, and he speaks with dirty words at every turn, and then he is always willing to slam the door or drop things when he is unhappy and angry, so that she feels that she is venting her emotions, in fact, she inadvertently leaves a bad impression on others, and there is also a kind of person who borrows things and does not return them, or takes and touches other people's things without permission. After borrowing and using up, you must remember to return it to others, although no one lacks that little thing, but this is a matter of character, and you must pay attention to it in daily life. Another important thing is that girls must pay special attention to details when getting along with each other, girls are more delicate, a little thing will be remembered in the heart for a long time, if she tells you the little secrets between girls, remember to help her keep it secret, she told you because she trusts you, don't pass two or ten in one, remember not to say bad things about the same roommate behind your back, and pay attention to the wording when chatting at ordinary times, don't easily slander others, don't be too sharp in language, know how to be proportionate.

There is also a particularly bad temper in her, and when someone accidentally steps on her or hits her, she will get angry, and sometimes she will curse. For various reasons, the people in the dormitory don't want to see her. Sometimes I have the illusion that she was not the same person I knew at the time.

Therefore, it must be her own reason that a girl is not treated by the people in the dormitory, because all people will not alienate you for no reason.

I can still get used to it, if I had smoked her earlier.

Don't care about this kind of person, maybe you can just cold her for a while. But if it were me, I wouldn't be friends at all, and what she did to me, I would do to her.

At least it's a girl who is different from most people, but it doesn't matter if it's good or bad.

From your description, we can know that although the two of you are classmates in the same dormitory, sleep together at night, and usually attend classes together, but in fact you don't have any friendship in your private life, that is, except for class, you don't have any other aspects of friendship, and you don't know each other's interests and hobbies, so it's difficult to find common topics, and it's normal to appear, and the situation you said is also very normal, and you need to break this relationship between the two of you, so you need the two of you in your private life. In terms of hobbies, we need to strengthen Oh, further understanding.

If you get along, you will accommodate each other more, and if you can't get along, you will talk less, contact less, and be your own.

It shows that the two of you are not suitable to be friends, real friends, you will want to do anything with each other, the gap between the two of you is too big, you can be ordinary friends, there is no need to be too friendly, the three views do not agree, there is no need to force it.

Since we are destined to live together, we must be considerate and respectful of each other, and it will naturally be good to fall in love over time.

You're just roommates, not good friends, not girlfriends. It's normal to have noises and disagreements, and it's just a general classmate relationship.

There is no need to take seriously what this kind of person says and does.

One moment for him, another for her, I can't understand whether it's a person or not!

Your text description is not accurate.

Is it him, or is it her?

Your situation has a lot to do with your gender.

So, such a confusing description does not determine your gender.