The Authenticity of Emotional Existence What is the authenticity of feelings

Real feelings.

It's a feeling.

True feelings are the blending of hearts and minds, not only to appreciate and support each other, but also to understand and tolerate each other.

The real feelings are each other's care and thoughtfulness, the feeling of mutual distress and cherishment, and the feeling of gratitude for your kindness to me and my better for you.

The real feeling is that two people will have a feeling when they are together, and that feeling is not the electric shock of love at first sight, nor the sense of restraint and depression of tension and restraint, but a "sense of intimacy".

In the eyes of two people, men can not be handsome, women can not be beautiful, but they must look pleasing to each other, feel cordial to each other, be completely relaxed in front of each other, be willing to open their hearts, be willing to expose their vulnerability, and be willing to expose their shortcomings without worrying about each other despising and ridiculing real feelings, it is such a sense of intimacy and relaxation! It's a family-like feeling!

In short, true feelings are emotions that come from the depths of the heart, and only with the heart can you experience a warm feeling.

Love comes from caring and soothing each other's hearts.

It is love that makes people strong, warm, and makes people no longer lonely and ...... at a lossPerhaps, we will not know these truths until we really fall in love with someone.

If love is water, then tolerance is the cup.

It's really easy to have pure and transparent love, but it's not easy to protect it. Because, we want our water of love to never deteriorate, not to drain, not to dry up, and we need to be more careful not to let it settle ......Precious

The most real feelings are plain and warm, and I feel the fragmented love in my daily life. In fact, we just want to find someone who can talk, have a good temperament, be comfortable together, regret Feng Hong for a long time, miss it a little bit, want to make a fuss after being quiet for a long time, and will immediately regret admitting defeat after quarreling, love is so, friendship is the same. The best relationship is not to be on call and talk every day, but I send a message, you will naturally reply when you see it, I will not be suspicious because you did not reply, and you will not feel sorry for not responding in time, it is enough to trust each other and care about each other.

People live in the world, they will go through a lot of things, and you want to be able to get to the bottom of it, but it is a mistake, and it is a kind of relaxation to not see clearly. There are too many things that I can't get used to in life, and it is a confusion, an entanglement, and an annoyance to see clearly. Seeing clearly is a kind of art of life, a kind of wisdom of life, and a kind of harvest of life.

Life is originally a blur, it is better to be confused, and it is easy to end up.

Many relationships can't be recovered when they reach the end, and we don't always hope to be able to turn back, because the emotions of turning back are often not perfect. Don't blame yourself, he is not the only one who treats you well in this life, you are so good that you deserve to be owned by better people. But first of all, don't lose yourself, only those who love themselves are worthy of being loved by others, if you only care about looking back at the scenery in front of you all day long, then you will definitely miss the good one around you.

The world is very big, the scenery is beautiful, instead of looking at the world with a resentful heart, it is better to experience life with a happy heart; Instead of looking at the world with a cursed heart, it is better to live with an appreciative heart. Bi Book.

If you really fall in love with someone, he will be your weakness, your priceless treasure, and you will treat him sincerely and give him everything. With him, sometimes it is also full of hopelessness and grievances. But psychologically I am very dependent on this feeling, and all the retreats are closed by this feeling.

The only thing you can do is to love him without expecting anything in return, as if you were drinking water and eating, you know that he is not good enough, but you just love him, hopelessly.

The real relationship is that two people should have a feeling when they are together, a "sense of intimacy", men can not be handsome, women can not be beautiful, but they look at each other and feel cordial to each other, just like relatives, they can completely relax in front of each other, they are willing to open their hearts, they are willing to expose their vulnerabilities, and they are willing to expose their shortcomings without worrying about each other's contempt and ridicule.

True affection is to tolerate each other's shortcomings all your life, it is easy to love someone's strengths, but it is difficult to tolerate someone's shortcomings. Only the one who can tolerate himself the most is the one who loves himself the most.

The real relationship is not a romantic flower and candlelight dinner, nor is it a sweet vow, it is a heartfelt care and thoughtfulness, and it is a real thoughtfulness and care in life! As long as you are genuinely caring and considerate, the other heart will definitely feel it!

The real relationship is the care and consideration of each other, the feeling of caring and cherishing each other, and the feeling of gratitude for your kindness to me and my better for you. I rub his shoulders when he's tired, and he listens patiently to my nagging when I'm in a bad mood. When it's cold, remind each other to put on more clothes, one person has a cough and a cold, and the other person can immediately serve water and medicine.

Silently remember what the other person likes to eat and leave it for him or her to eat ......

1. Understand the shortcomings of the other party, or never think about leaving.

In fact, in the world of feelings, true love is not the initial heartbeat, but understanding each other, but still fascinated by it. If you understand all the shortcomings of a man, know that he is machismo, calculating, and impulsive. But he still can't let go of him, he never thought of leaving, but he is willing to grow up with him, this is probably the person he cares about the most, and he can have such a feeling, that is, he really loves someone.

2. Even if you are silent, you will not feel embarrassed.

The best state for two people to be together is that even if they stay together and don't say anything, they won't be bored, but as long as they are around, it's enough. Life is always plain, and it is a beautiful thing to be able to experience a life as plain as water. Therefore, if two people can really understand each other together, give each other space, and will not feel that it is not interesting not to speak, then this kind of relationship is a good state.

Those who can feel this way are probably those who truly love each other, so that they will not doubt each other because of a little thing.

3. Be able to fit each other in terms of thinking and living habits.

You must know that if you can find a person who is truly in love, can communicate in thought and life, this person must be the right person. He will definitely know everything about you, he will understand your thoughts, he will not ask you for anything, and he will respect your ideas. Many couples are separated mostly because they don't understand each other well.

Therefore, if you can agree with each other ideologically and tolerate each other in life, then you will truly love each other and be willing to make changes for each other.

True love is understanding, I know and understand all your faults and shortcomings very well, and after understanding all of them, I still love you very much and want to be with you, then this is love.

True love: I can't forget it, I can't let it go, and when I really lose it, it will be a heartbreak.

True affection is a kind of insipid accompaniment, a kind of selfless dedication, a kind of responsibility and obligation, a kind of silent blessing, a kind of meticulous care, a confession that does not need to be decorated with gorgeous words, it is a kind of attachment that does not need to put all the concerns on the lips, and it is the warmth of happiness from the bottom of my heart.

In fact, real love is to miss each other, but people are not together, but hearts can be together, although I want to be together, but because of objective conditions, not together, but no one can do without anyone, I think this is called love.

Cherish each other and understand each other. Even if there is a quarrel, be considerate of each other.

If you love the person in front of you, then please cherish the time you spend together.

If you don't love the person in front of you, please cherish him because he loves you.

I am sincere and sincere, and I hope to get your affirmation.

Love is a feeling. I miss it all the time. Momentary concern. It's simple. It's also complicated. Fall into love. You can only go with your feelings. At least the heart doesn't lie to itself. ,//..