I ve always been very serious about relationships, and I m very single minded, why do I keep failing

That's because your fate hasn't arrived yet! You can't just lose faith in yourself! Emotional matters are in no hurry! Take your time! Maybe God wants you to find the best! Be patient!

Looks like it's about the same as me. Personally, I feel that for emotional investment, 8 points are left for 2 steps back to myself. It's just that others think you're too single-minded.

Ever heard a phrase? If you get it, you don't cherish it. All men are greedy.

Maybe it's because you're too easy for people to get it. No mystery put. So people don't value you very much.

Temper has nothing to do with love. People who like you will love you whether you are murderous or not.

In fact, feelings also need to be managed, in the face of feelings is not only a matter of you wholeheartedly good to him, you must not change yourself because you like him, after these few feelings you should think about what kind of person you like or what kind of person is suitable for you, find a person who loves yourself more is easy to last.

Will you be too shy? Not good at expressing yourself. It may also be a common problem for some people with low emotional intelligence. The more serious you are, the more you fail. It's like doing something bad with good intentions! Maybe you're too honest. Can't give you a sense of security as a woman!

When appropriate, you can change yourself.

Another way.

It's right to be single-minded, of course, a good relationship must be managed with heart, otherwise how can you be worthy of your beloved?

I think that in a relationship, both parties should pay their utmost sincerity to this relationship, it is not easy to meet in this world, and it is even more rare to know and love each other. Therefore, when you are in love, you must be single-minded, which is the most basic requirement of love.

If it's just that the other party loses the affection that loves you and proposes to break up with you, I know that you will be very painful at that time, because you only have him in your heart, and this pain will probably be single-mindedly bad.

Falling out of love is very painful, that may be the only bad thing about single-mindedness, but that's not the fault of single-mindedness, it's just that your love has broken your feet, but that painful time will help you slowly. During that time, I guess all you have to do is shift your goals and don't let yourself dwell in sadness.

I believe that your love will be very happy, and you must also believe in yourself.

In life, you will always be unable to control your feelings, deeply caught in the whirlpool of feelings, forget, dedicated to paying, and treat wholeheartedly. Sometimes the feelings are too single-minded, it is a little not good, so that they will be more passive, because they care too much, there is always no bottom line to pay to the other party, sometimes this not only does not make the relationship better and better, but will play the opposite role, the more serious you are, the more you care, sometimes the other party will not cherish you, the relationship is a need for two people to pay and work together, more two people to operate together, rather than one side of the stupid single-minded guard.

You can't say blindly single-minded about feelings, you need to know whether this relationship is worth it to be so invested, two people together, you treat feelings single-mindedly, you will pay attention to all the things about each other, care about all the things around the two people together, even if it is a trivial detail, sometimes let yourself think over and over again, for fear that you have made any mistakes, or make the other party unhappy, so that your heart is very tired, and you are too much controlled by feelings. Just like when two people first started, they were in the trial stage, and they didn't reach the point where they both wanted to pay for each other wholeheartedly, so they didn't want to be stupid and single-minded about every relationship.

Single-mindedness in feelings is endless seriousness, because of the other party's words and actions, happy to jump up or cry can't open their eyes, slowly they will become stingy, treat feelings, find everything that knows each other, and even if the opposite sex says a word, it will be uncomfortable to slow down. Sometimes if you are too single-minded, you will make yourself tired, and you will also make the other party tired, and there is pressure, and the development and management of the relationship may not bring good results.

Whether you are dedicated to your feelings, this can be said to be your advantage, or it can be said to be one of your shortcomings, depending on the specific score.

Let's start with the advantages of emotional single-mindedness. In the process of falling in love, I must hope to have a lover who is emotionally single-minded, and the kind that chooses one person to grow old. In love, many times the breakup is because of the influence of a third party, not because of not love, but because of the involvement of a third party.

These problems arise because of the inattentiveness of feelings, having their own boyfriend or girlfriend, but still having a good impression of other people of the opposite sex, and playing ambiguously with other people, this is definitely not good, and it will definitely be condemned by people. Whether it is in love or married life, it is particularly necessary for the single-mindedness and love of the partner.

At this time, emotional single-mindedness is definitely not your strength, it will become your shortcoming, so that you will always be unable to get out of a relationship, it is not good for your body and mind, and in the end it will only suffer yourself.

Whether it's making friends or falling in love, it's the right thing to do when it comes to being emotionally single-minded. Maybe you're not serious about getting along with someone because you're emotionally single-minded, and you've been hurt because of it, or you've hurt someone else, and you think it might be bad to do so. But it is worth affirming the single-mindedness of being emotional, but sometimes you should be careful and not too sensitive.

That's the kind of person I have, I only had one best friend in my three years of high school. Because I've been with her all the time, two years as a bunk bed, and two years at the same table, I'm very emotionally dependent on her. Whenever anything happens, I want her to be the one who is with me.

If she's not there, I'd rather do it myself than find someone else to go with me. She is a top student, and sometimes she and I will get very close to another girl on the way to dinner, and they will talk very happily, ignoring me, and I will be very unhappy. We have never quarreled because of this.

Now that we don't go to college in the same place, the connection is gradually decreasing, and the relationship is fading. She has her new friends, and I have my new friends. In retrospect, it was ridiculously naïve at the time.

Yes, emotional single-mindedness can go further, but there must be a degree.

Many people like emotionally dedicated people, don't go with this friend today, go out to play, and leave others to find other people after a while, such a relationship is not long-lasting, and no one can keep it in the end. Especially when looking for a partner, you have to find someone who is emotionally single-minded, such a relationship will not end in nothing, and even if you are not together, you will have good memories. No matter what you do, you have to be serious, but don't be too harsh and sensitive, keep a certain distance, and you won't hurt each other, so that the relationship will last longer.

People get along with each other, because of the existence of emotions, so we become very harmonious. In today's society, people's concept of love has become very free, probably due to the influence of foreign culture, so the love between the opposite sex has become easy to break, and at the same time, the degree of single-mindedness of both sides for emotions has also decreased a lot.

It's a good thing to be single-minded about your feelings. In this materialistic society, we can still maintain the insistence on the love in our hearts, which is so precious, which may become the reason why the opposite sex likes us, because the current pace of love is too fast, and it ends quickly, so for a girl, she can find a boy who is emotionally single-minded, she will feel very happy.

I can say that he is also a single-minded boy. Since my freshman year, I have liked a girl, after the confession, we were together for a short few months, she broke up with me, but I still love her, although I don't often contact her, but I pay attention to her dynamics, her preferences, etc., after two years, we are together again, this time she never broke up with me again. Because I think it's enough to love someone, in the process of love, we all give a lot, and if we don't focus on each other, our secrets about each other will become nowhere to hide.

Therefore, when it comes to feelings, you have to be single-minded.

In today's fast-paced era, it is good to be single-minded in dealing with feelings, and single-minded emotions can also reflect our attitude of focusing on things, which is a good habit of life.

Why do we have such an idea, we don't want to find a person who is dedicated to feelings, if we can't even do it ourselves, how to ask the other party to do it, treat people with sincerity, only we can do it ourselves, in order to find people who treat us sincerely, things gather people in groups, and the object and friends of a person who is emotionally dedicated must also be a person who is very dedicated to feelings.

In fact, in my love life, it has always been very single, my husband is my first love, and it is precisely because of this that I can be said to be very young in dealing with emotional problems, and there are many times when I don't know how to deal with it, but my heart is always in him, and my friends have also persuaded me that I can find a better one on my terms, but I still recognized him, so I came together with him.

After all, people's energy is very limited, we have our own jobs, and our own relatives, we have to deal with these things, so treat friends, I really just want to find one or two who treat me sincerely, and other people are also really relative, but I really can't share the feelings, that's really tiring, I'm now, I want to go home to see the child, my mother still wants me to be able to go to her, my mother and my child are not in the same city, I don't want my mother to be sad when I miss the child, and I'm tired of myself.

So, when you can be emotionally single-minded and don't need to deal with so many things, it's better to be single-minded, although it is said that there are many ways to have multiple friends, but some people are naturally very sociable and have a lot of friends, but some people like me can only treat so many people sincerely, and don't have the time and energy to make more friends, so don't envy other people's lives, your single-mindedness is your strength, and it is also the most beautiful.

Friend, I can tell you responsibly, whether a man likes you or not, whether you are in love with you or not, has nothing to do with whether you are single-minded or not.

The first key is physiognomy and figure... The second key is the inside, which is very worldly, but it is a fact.

Your male and female, except for your parents these years, everyone else is fake, who is not for themselves, what is love, there are a few people who have lived a lifetime and are like objects, if life is only as first seen, this is what it says, after a long time, you will be tired, you will be tired of it, and if you are tired, you will be annoyed, and two people can be together, except for the child is the interest, make do with it.

You will always meet someone who will cherish your sincerity, don't go with the flow, just be yourself.

Don't think too much about it, it's just that you haven't met the person who is really true to you.

It really doesn't matter if he's good or not, the people I know around me are very single-minded, I can only say that the people you associate with are not good, so it's better to change circles.

and the smell of the body.

Missed kisses. and fingers with a faint taste of tobacco.

Everybody is different, everything is a matter of karma, because you haven't met it yet, and I'm going to tell you the truth about feelings.

The feelings we are attached to are actually fantasies in our hearts, not how beautiful the feelings are, what you call single-mindedness.

It's not that you're singing about how loyal love is, it's just an obsession, and you haven't met a partner, so how can you be single-minded?

The so-called sincerity is also something that someone treats you well, so it's all your fantasy.

But no one's feelings, in the end, will always exist, because they are born of karma, no matter how rich they are, no matter how beautiful their love is.

Eventually, we will break up, won't we separate?

Regardless of whether we have a relationship or not, the important thing is to make ourselves happy, and if we want to have feelings, we want to be happy.

But if you don't meet a good relationship and torture yourself with others, that's a kind of thing that you can't get what you want.

It's so obsessed that there's no need to make yourself so troubled is a senseless sacrifice.

What is Affection? Everything that is good can be said to be emotional, and you shouldn't let yourself lose it for the sake of a person.

Appreciate the joy of the whole world.

Therefore, everything depends on the circumstances, and there is no increase or decrease in the mind.

Don't think too much. How you treat the world, how the world will treat you.

If you have always been able to be single-minded, you will always meet someone who is dedicated to you.

You must see more about what kind of person the other person is before dating, if you can date again, you will definitely not be able to find it casually.

Only at the right time can you find the right person.

You haven't found a confidant yet, take your time.

A woman is a man who likes flowers.