My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and I really don t trust her sometimes. Wha

Updated on psychology 2024-03-14
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    To love each other is to trust each other, although it is easy to say, but it is still said to trust each other.

    Or you just tell her and tell her to tell you beforehand.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Everyone should have enough space, if you don't trust her, then your love is already a burden to her! If she really wants to do something, it's useless to text and ** every day.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe she's afraid that after telling you that she can't call you, you'll ask long and short questions, and she'll be angry if she doesn't have time to pay attention to you, so let's do it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hey, my girlfriend and I aren't together. It's been four years.

    I didn't believe her before, I heard that she had an ambiguous relationship with another man, and I doubted and hurt her.

    However, it is only now understood that trust. Whatever she does, you should believe her. Even if someone else says something, it's someone else's say, maybe it's a rumor.

    At this point, you should see what she does to you. If she cares about you, then trust her. She has something to do with another person, and if she really likes that person, she won't care about you, but that person.

    Have time to do something you love. Don't let yourself be quiet.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You love her a little more, maybe she doesn't take it seriously at all! You may not be the type she likes.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Do you have no confidence in her or in yourself? Why bother? How can you protect your love if you're so worried about yourself? Say to myself that my charm can completely attract her. There was a chance to go to her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    How does a long-distance relationship make a girlfriend feel secure.

    1. Never let the other party fail to reach you.

    Two people in a long-distance relationship can't find each other directly when they have something like other couples, and they can often contact and communicate face-to-face. Even if you can't get in touch with each other occasionally, you can go to the place where the other person is, and you won't feel that the other person can disappear into your life at any time. Once two people break off contact, what happens to the other party can only rely on their own guesses and imaginations, and naturally there is no way to guarantee each other's sense of security.

    2. Introduce your life to the other person.

    Because they are in different places, there is no way to understand each other's lives, and there is no way to expand the intersection of two people's lives.

    Therefore, two people in a long-distance relationship should often introduce their living situation to each other, let the other party understand you and know what you are doing recently.

    Never put the other person in a state of speculation about you. When the other person understands your life and is at ease, it will produce a sense of security, because they know what you will do, know your behavior patterns, understand you, understand your life, and don't worry about anything else.

    3. Arrange regular meetings.

    A long-distance relationship doesn't guarantee seeing each other often, but it certainly can't help but see each other. Many couples get along with each other when they meet together, so that they can enhance their relationship faster. It's like a lot of contradictions, other couples may be coquettish and solved with a hug, but long-distance relationships are separated by thousands of mountains and rivers, and they can only communicate by language.

    Meeting regularly can undoubtedly give two people a lot of expectations, two people have expectations for one thing together, and after meeting, they can solve many conflicts that cannot be solved by language communication, and make up for the dates that cannot be done when they are not together.

    Fourth, give more care to the other party.

    People in long-distance relationships are more likely to feel lonely and sad. When others have difficulties, as long as there is a **, someone will come to help and comfort, while a long-distance relationship can only be exchanged for verbal comfort.

    Long-distance relationships have a much greater desire for care than ordinary relationships. Within the scope of your ability, care more about each other, sometimes even if you can't be together, you can make each other feel your care through simple small things, such as holiday gifts, takeout when you are hungry, can make up for the shortcomings caused by not being around.

    5. Actively keep your distance from the opposite sex.

    Just because you don't have a lover by your side doesn't mean you can be free. Because the person you like is not around, you should keep an appropriate distance from other people of the opposite sex, and don't let lovers in a long distance misunderstand.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Visiting the door, everything is not as simple as a barbecue meal, two meals if one meal does not work, and everything is a new start after eating and sleeping.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The biggest hidden danger of a long-distance relationship is that two people can be together without a banquet, so the feeling between the two of you is unfounded, and the filial piety relationship without a foundation is easy to break, both parties feel very insecure, and the relationship is easy to collapse, so you will be very unhappy when she goes out to play, and these are normal reactions

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    That's because you don't trust each other.

    Lack of communication and mutual understanding.

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