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1.In this case, you need to deal with strangers, and when facing strangers, try to take a big step to cheer yourself up.

2.You don't try to ask others, how do you know that others won't answer you, you can try to deal with strangers and ask for directions, such small things to cultivate your own socialization.

3.Part of the contribution to this personality is that you are not confident enough, so you need to do some small things to achieve yourself.

Forehead ......The landlord is a man and a woman, and the man is not good, you have to become cheeky, otherwise it is you who are uncomfortable, just take the first step boldly, cheer yourself up, try to make more friends, talk more, nonsense, and don't be too solid and easy to suffer.

Women are cheerful, optimistic, look at it, think more about interesting things, and make your inner activities richer.

You have low self-esteem. A lot of people do. You just wait for yourself to be excellent. So what you have to do now is to make yourself excellent first.

I suggest that you often go to places with a lot of people, listen more, see more, see how others chat with people, see more, feel better, and your personality will slowly change.

Excellent people are generally more withdrawn, you have realized the direct weakness, I believe you can adjust well, the direction of social development, will also change with your development direction. I wish you happiness and happiness.

Introverted and have an inferiority complex! Participate in more group activities! Communicate with people more.

I suggest you consult a psychiatrist, like a general school will have a psychiatrist, tell her about your situation, she is your confidant sister.

Leave a chat to help you.

Everyone has their own way of behaving and making friends. It has nothing to do with your character. Character is your personal essence and basic morality.

However, since you recognize your character flaws, you can also change them appropriately, Bijing people are social animals, and it is impossible for them to be alone and not have any dealings with others. You still need family, friendship, and love.

It's not wrong to be introverted, but it's narrow-minded to be introverted, people live in this world, after all, it is impossible to live only in their own thoughts, you can't get rid of everyone and be detached from things, so you can only adapt, communicate with others more, and slowly get used to it.

Everyone's personality and habits are different, some people are active, some people are quiet, some people say that some people don't like to say, this has nothing to do with personality, like to be quiet from now on is an advantage, in today's society, people are impetuous right and wrong, it is a good thing to be able to calm down and be alone, a free inner world, in fact, is a kind of pleasure, do not change your own views for other people's views It is very painful, as long as you have no malice towards others in your heart.

His words were a bit heavy. I used to.

I was also a withdrawn person, and my classmates said I was sick behind my back. It's just not social! I felt that it was very troublesome to deal with people, so I shrunk into my own circle and was isolated from the world.

In fact, emotional intelligence is worrisome. I was at a loss in the face of complex interpersonal relationships, so I closed myself off. Later, I read a lot of books on how to deal with interpersonal relationships, although it was a rigid copy at first, but it worked!

Gradually, I began to change. No more isolation, no more self-isolation. Here's my experience that you can learn from.

Not really. I'm very similar to your personality and like to be alone. There are no friends. There is no doubt about this. No one can say who is bad about personality issues. There is no right or wrong when it is not suitable.

How so? I used to be a person who was very similar to you, I didn't like to talk to people when I was young, I always stayed alone, and my friends around me thought I was cold, pretending, but when they had a certain understanding of me, I found that I was really indifferent, indifferent to people and things, until an exchange with a classmate, only to find out that I didn't like to communicate with them, but not on the same topic, I couldn't find common fun, so it would cause me not to like to talk to people, she also told me later, Saying a lot of laughter, it will give people a kind feeling, originally I thought it was just the personality of my character, but then I found that if I want to integrate into this era, I should learn to change, and you said that you like to be alone, I used to be too, but when I met a friend, I began to become active, and I became like to be with her, so you should relax your mind, take the initiative to adjust, and you should also think about your own appearance from the perspective of others, okay, that's all I suggest! Hope it helps!

Everyone's personality is different and their performance in emotional intelligence will be different, not that introverted people have low emotional intelligence, but everyone has their own longing for lifestyle, and it is not bad to be alone and not disturbed. If I accommodate others and make myself uncomfortable, I think it's better to follow my heart and be alone.

You're like me, and your friends talk to you a lot. I feel that there is no topic to talk about when we chat, and I don't want to talk about it anymore. I don't take the initiative to talk to others, and I only have three friends now.

I think it's enough, after all, friends don't have to talk about every day, friends who will help are worth socializing, and you don't have to care what others say, if you are a friend, you will naturally understand you!

Friends should be the first to think of sharing happy things with you, the first to talk to you about grievances, and you are disgusted with these, so you will be alienated from your friends, and no one likes to make friends with you, it is really a little problem for you.

You are an introvert.

Even a little withdrawn.

I don't like friends to talk to you.

These should not be the merits of a person.

If you don't change it slowly, it will affect your communication.

A person lives in society.

All have their own circle of life.

Socializing is also about experiencing this circle.

You don't socialize.

This circle will slowly abandon you.

Especially in today's society.

People who don't know how to interact are simply unable to move an inch.

This friend of yours said it very well.

You have to change this way of life of yourself.

It has nothing to do with your personality, introverts and extroverts are normal, as long as you are not autistic, there is nothing wrong with it. Be yourself, don't care too much about what others think, you don't belong to anyone, believe in yourself and you will be better.

If you can't change for the other party, you can only stay away, which can only mean that you don't care about the other party very much, and it has nothing to do with character.

Everyone has their own unique personality, and it's normal that you just don't have the right personality with your friends. It's not that extroverted people are good, it's good to be happy, and there is no need to change yourself for the sake of others.

Personality questions, I'll answer them. Everyone's personality is different, and they also have their own advantages and disadvantages. As the saying goes, character determines destiny, and I guess that's what it means. Of course, a person's personality can be changed. Like I am.

It's just that introverts don't like to deal with people, and it has nothing to do with character, but it will inevitably cause a feeling of bad contact to others, and it's not uncommon to be complained about.

It has nothing to do with character, it's just not very sociable, there are communication barriers, in fact, I'm also such a person, and I understand you very well.

Learn to adapt, life is your own, run your own small circle well, and naturally be happy and have less troubles!

Everyone has commonalities and their own personality, in interpersonal communication, you must know how to use your commonality and individuality, you can't play with personality at all times, but you must not abandon your own personality. I think that when dealing with personal affairs, personality is good, but in the process of interacting with others, you still have to integrate into the group and society, and others may not be able to understand your personalized way of dealing with it.

This is a manifestation of your withdrawn character, if you want to gain a foothold in this world, human relations are indispensable, multiple friends and multiple roads, help each other to develop, change your character, contact more positive people, you will have progress.

Frankly, this shouldn't be how you treat a good friend.

Don't make friends if you're withdrawn, others are now just treating you the way you treat others.

It depends on what kind of person he likes. You have to work on that. First of all, you have to be kind, compassionate, and support him to understand him.

In fact, if he likes you like this, he will like it after all. If you don't like this, you won't like it after all. There's no need to do anything out of it, just be yourself and just let it be.

Let's talk about ......Are you sure she still likes you? Your lack of talking is boring and rigid in the eyes of girls, but it is not excluded that some girls like you. And if she already has a new boyfriend, don't bother.

1. Find common topics.

The process of chatting is the process of establishing a deep relationship with the girl, and what you need to do in the process is to create a relaxed and happy atmosphere, and it will be easier to make the girl feel happy by talking about common topics with the girl.

A little more thought to understand the interests and hobbies of girls, such as whether they eat spicy food, whether they love sports, whether there are any particularly annoying things, what they like the most, what types of books they like to read, dig more useful information about girls, and find what you have in common, so that your chat will be more enjoyable, relaxed and pleasant.

2. Use cold reading to start the conversation.

The process of chatting, if only you make the girl happy, then one day you will not be able to speak humorous, so you need to read coldly through the emotions and states reflected in the Chinese characters of the girl in the chat process, and obtain valuable information to create more topics.

When chatting with girls, I always want to show her the best side of myself, but I am always disgusted by girls, I don't know why, and then I understand that the things I show are a kind of show-off in the eyes of girls, and I have always been unable to understand what is wrong with myself, and then I saw a lesson on the Internet, Bisu Love Raiders, I just knew, it turned out that there was a problem with my chat style and thinking, and after I corrected myself according to the content of it, I would never give girls the feeling of showing off, They all said that it was very comfortable to talk to me, and many of the girls were planning to marry me.

Share the people and things you encounter with her with your own understanding, and it is best to be humorous.

Withdrawn people? I'm also withdrawn, don't talk, next time I see her, sincerely invite her, let's go out and have fun.

Don't talk about topics that she dislikes, try to get to know her.

She always has something she likes or is interested in, and being withdrawn is by no means autistic.

You can ask her about her interests and hobbies first, and then look for a chance to chat.

Something that girls are interested in. Find out what this girl likes.

When a person faces something he is not good at, he will often behave like you, a little unconfident, or "fear", everyone has such a psychology You like to chat online, which means that you have a positive attitude of eager to change yourself and eager to communicate At least "fear" hinders your actions The real world is often self-exaggerated "opponents", so that their strength cannot be normal or even abnormal. If you want to be so-called "cheerful", I suggest that you say "I'm not afraid", "I can do it", "I want to take the initiative to associate with someone else", "The other person must not be aimed at me, how can he be unpleasant, isn't it just a little high, not a trace is a long art, isn't it just a face full of vicissitudes", and other psychological hints At the same time, I should also read more books about interacting with people, such as "Carnegie" Of course, these things can't be changed in a day or two, so you have to cultivate yourself little by little so as not to scare others}) And you should exercise more, so that you can feel the relaxation of your mind when you exercise Listen to the songs of the aspiration, watch the movies of the aspiration, and find a celebrity role model Finally, to emphasize, "Fear Zi Haruga" is like a spring ......You know the drop!

It's the psychology of introversion. Communicate more with others, and have one or two good friends. It's going to get better slowly.

Remember.

I still haven't met your true genius! Get out there! Take your time! You'll always meet the right person!

Hey, pay more attention to your own thoughts.

I think you can play with your female friends and use them to participate in some activities, so that you can meet some male friends.

QQ chat? Go to the people near QQ to have a look.

Leave a buckle number for me, we'll talk if it's okay, don't fall in love with me.

Appearance problems, personality problems, if you are dumped, you must be **.

Oooh! Then do you want to be chased, ambiguous?

Talk to a few more and you'll have experience.