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Yes, remember a sentence, time is the best glue, no matter how much pain, how deep the feelings, with the passage of time, will slowly fade and disappear from your life. Many years later, when you think about it, you laugh it off.

It's hard to try to forget love.

It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

So don't try to forget that you don't want to forget.

Remember. One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

That's a beautiful place in your heart......

It's hard to try to forget love. It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

That's a beautiful place in your heart......

Recently, I encountered some, and I was feeling aggrieved and saw it.

I am a person who has too many old hatreds and new hatreds in my heart. There are too many injustices, too many hurts, and holding grudges can only make my heart narrower and narrower, and more and more unhappy.

There is a line in "Shang Tao": "With hatred in your heart, how can you do business with people?" "And I'm such a hateful person, which makes me not tolerant of people, I can't get along well with people, and I can't do business.

Maybe when others look at me, they all have the word "hate" written on it.

One book says, "Don't forgive. "Yes, it is indeed inhumane, unrealistic and unnecessary to force a seriously injured person to forgive, but after you gradually become stronger, if possible, try to resolve the past from the bottom of your heart, why not love yourself?

What this song tells me is: people are alive, everyone has some feelings like you, grievances and hatreds are like a storm, laugh it off.

Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I won't be friends; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not. What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what you really inscribe in your heart.

There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain.

Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

Approach life with a happy mood and a happy attitude. You will say that I tried, but I suffered too much, how can I be happy? This may be related to the influence of genetics and personal childhood experiences, according to experts, different people look at the same thing in different ways, some people look at the positive side, some people look at the negative side.

It's not easy to have a good mood every day, and it's still possible to be happy often, which you need to reverse yourself.

The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy.

Don't think about deliberately forgetting someone, so that it is not easy to forget, and don't feel annoyed when you think of someone, but you should laugh it off, and over time, you will not sigh at your own success when you think of someone. It's not so easy to forget someone in your heart, and it's impossible to forget it completely, at most it's just to reduce the number of times you think of someone, that's all, so when you think of someone, you can miss it to the fullest, and tell yourself that you can remember it happily now, and you don't feel sad anymore. In addition, you can also find something you like to do, make yourself happy, and let your mind go free.

In fact, there are many things that do not need to be forgotten.

Time is the best bleach.

Many things are deliberately forgotten, but they are remembered more deeply. I can't forget it. Because you've always remembered to forget it.

In this way, things backfired.

Try to do something else, don't keep thinking about it, just do it

Why do you have to forget.

Then you just think about which thing is bad.

Don't think it's good?

I remember when I was a child, my grandfather took me to Zhengzhou, to see the Erqi Tower, brought very little money, at night my grandfather was afraid that I was hungry, so he took me to eat, only ordered a small dish, next to a few uncles saw it, their eyes immediately flashed, and then their hot pot, only a few bites, brought it to us, excused himself and said: Ah we are leaving, this can't eat, come, the child grows up to eat more. When the hot pot was brought over, the few of them silently ate the remaining side dishes.

I can't remember anything else, but I remember that the uncle was wearing a military uniform, and a few big men were gobbling around the side dishes, and laughing very warmly, which was the warmest thing I remember. I will slowly become a person like the sun.

When I was a child, I thought that my classmates who were good at studying wore glasses, so I also wanted to wear them, and despite the dissuasion of my family, I insisted on bowing my head to write my homework, and finally became myopic, but I still can't let go of why I am so stupid.

When I was a child, my mom and I sat on the side of the road waiting for my dad to come home, and my mom sang to me. When I think about it now, I still remember what my mother looked like at that time.

There are so many such things. Also tell a similar story, 10 years I went to high school, 10 days of experience class met male and female teachers is my class teacher, we are all called male teacher Brother Jiang, female teacher Sister E, they got married and had children later and sent our class candy, once we provoked the head teacher Sister E, after the last class in the afternoon, she lectured and dragged the classroom to the evening self-study, everyone did not eat dinner, during which Sister E's eyes were red, tears flowed, she was young about 26, in my impression she was red eyes in the classroom for our class no less than ten times, I haven't gone back to see it after graduation, I also want to go again after being excellent, I have been disappointed for so many years, I feel guilty for so many years, I also want them to be happy and proud, and live up to the teacher's kindness!

There will always be many things that remain deeply in the mind, such as joy and happiness, and of course there will be sadness and pain, because it was too unforgettable at that time, so it will be engraved into the depths of the soul and will never be forgotten for a lifetime.

Of course, that was the moment when I got the admission letter from Peking University. I had an experience that most Peking University students did not have, that is, I received the admission letter directly from a professor at Peking University. That year, after the college entrance examination was completed and the results came out, I was the top science student in the city, and I watched the replay of the World Cup (90 years) that year with a relaxed and happy view.

Suddenly, there was a quick knock on the door, and when I opened the door, I found my elderly grandmother with the teacher outside the door, and asked me to hurry to my parents in the countryside with the teacher. It turned out that it was the professor of Peking University who was in charge of the enrollment of our province who wanted to see me. Of course, it won't be because I have some amazing talent, we all know that it is probably because of my body, I have a rare disease:

Progressive muscular dystrophy. So, I boarded the train overnight and rushed to Hangzhou in the early morning, where my father and I entered Professor Lin's room under the guidance of a recruitment teacher. Seeing me standing in front of him, Professor Lin said that he was just out of anxiety and wanted to see what kind of condition my body had reached.

In fact, if I can't make it in time, he will also send a notice, because Peking University will not exclude students with disabilities. Well, by the way, I also helped to be a messenger and brought back the notices of my other two classmates. Since then, my life has been branded as "Peking University".

Coincidentally, Professor Lin is also from the Department of Physics. I was supposed to teach atomic physics, but I missed the course because I took a year off.

On December 10, 18, the first snow of the year, I lifted her hat, put it on, my heart beat fast, looking at her smiling face when I saw the snow, my heart was inexplicably warm, I know her in this life, it is worth the trip, even if she will be someone else's woman, I will still do my best to bless her, I wish you peace and happiness, as you said, may you be happy all your life, not to be reached by the world.

There was a boy who helped me when I was helpless. I was grateful to him, he said he liked me, and I tried to accept him. But after trying for a while, we separated.

He's a guy who spoils me like a princess, and even when we break up, we still grin. But as soon as they separated, they were strangers to the end of the world.