I really don t know what he thinks, who can help me

It's not what he thinks, but what do you think?

I think you care too much, and it will make him even more confused about how to talk to you?

What do you think??

Just let it be.

I hope you are happy.

No one can say anything about feelings.

The point is that if you really like him, you just talk to him.

Then see how you develop in the future.

Obviously, by what you said.

You like him very much, but I don't see his feelings for you.

There are some things, knowing that there is no result, it is better to give up early.

Otherwise, it will hurt yourself even more.

Of course, it is easy to say, but it is very difficult to implement.

You can also take the initiative to find him! You can also confess to him! Because he's a bit introverted! That is, shy!

If he talks to you, his heart beats faster, which means that he likes you!

It is estimated that he thinks that you are not good-looking, you chatted very well before meeting, and the current situation only appeared after meeting.

I'm more straightforward, but that's probably why.

Look at him like this, maybe something happened to his family.

But it's fair to say that he absolutely likes you.

Sometimes I would care about him and ask if there was something wrong.

I've been like this lately, but something big has happened at home, and I'm very similar to him.

You're all in a similar situation to us.

Take the initiative to talk to him and wait for things to pass, and it should be fine.

Don't be cranky, or true happiness will slip away because of it.

Your friend's attitude towards work and life is not positive].

Your friend has rarely received praise and encouragement from his parents since he was a child, which is easy to cause him to have negative thoughts and emotions, he is easy to like things that are not the same, and he is also prone to retreat from difficult things.

The blow to him from your friend's parents can easily make him unconfident and disbelieve that he can fight for or change anything on his own.

Your friend is using the relationship he feels comfortable with to give himself love and enjoy the hunger and encouragement that he lacked in his childhood.

You want to help your friend].

You are from the position of a friend, you expect your friends to become better and better, I understand your thoughts, and I also admire you for having a kind heart for the sake of others.

When people are uncomfortable in a relationship or situation, it is generally who is in pain and who changes, and only when it is uncomfortable, people will think about changing, and through change to make themselves not uncomfortable in the relationship or situation.

You want to help a friend, have you talked to your friend, does he feel that his current state makes him uncomfortable? Or maybe your friend also wants to change, but just doesn't have the courage to ask for a solution on his own?

If you help a friend, you can only help him from the outside, and you can change him very little, if he wants to change himself, then this is the best motivation for him to change.

Summary. Dear It's a pleasure to serve you, I'm emotion teacher Xiao Han, if you help a person, but he doesn't want others to know what he thinks, it may mean that he has some private thoughts or privacy needs to be protected. Or, he may not want others to misunderstand him or have an unnecessarily negative impact on him.

In this case, you should respect his decision and do not forcibly disclose his thoughts or private information, so as not to cause unnecessary trouble and conflict. If he needs your help, you can do your best to help, but also be careful to protect his privacy and respect his decisions.

Someone, you helped him, and he doesn't want others to know what he thinks?

Dear Pleasure to serve you, I am the emotional teacher Xiao Han, if you help a person, but he doesn't want others to know what he thinks, it may mean that he has some private thoughts or privacy needs to be protected. Or, he may not want others to misunderstand him or have an unnecessarily negative impact on him. In this case, you should respect Brother Li Ji's decision and do not forcibly disclose his thoughts or private information, so as not to cause unnecessary trouble and conflict.

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