What are the arts and techniques of speaking?

1. Learn to listen, don't show impatient expressions when others speak to you, listen patiently to what others say, if you have other different opinions, wait for others to finish before putting forward your point of view, and your attitude should be gentle.

2. Pay attention to the occasion when speaking, and pay attention to different social groups in different places when speaking, and do not make loud noises.

3. Pay attention to the tone of your voice, don't always hurt people with mean language, and learn to empathize.

4. Don't talk big, always say that you are very capable, but when others need your help, you can't solve it, and it will end up embarrassing.

5. Talk less, don't grab words.

Speaking skills and adaptability are as follows;

1. Pay attention to the tone of your speech, and don't speak in a commanding tone.

In interpersonal interactions, the use of commanding tones and tones to communicate with others often gives people a condescending feeling, which will hurt the dignity of the other party and cause the other party to be disgusted. People with high emotional intelligence generally speak in a friendly and equal tone, because they understand that communicating with others in a friendly and equal tone will make the listener comfortable, happy, and more willing to accept ideas.

2. Address others appropriately.

When communicating with people, the appropriate name of the stove slag will make the other party psychologically comfortable and shorten the distance between each other. If it is not an appropriate name, it will make the other party disgusted. Of course, speakers with high emotional intelligence also pay special attention to respecting local customs when addressing others.

3. Speak with a sense of humor.

Speaking humorously is a sign of high emotional intelligence. Humorous words can make people face contradictions with a smile and easily release embarrassment. This is much more acceptable than mere preaching, reprimanding, or ridiculing.

Add some humor when rejecting someone, not only will you not embarrass the other person, but you will also not have too much pressure and guilt in your heart.

4. When you are proud, you don't speak in a high-key manner, and you can speak softly.

When people with high emotional intelligence speak, they keep their own proud things in their hearts and put other people's proud things in their mouths, and be humble. Even when facing uncomfortable people or things, they can still express themselves in a calm tone and appropriate language, so that the other party can be convinced.

5. When you encounter embarrassment from others, pretend not to know about envy.

Everyone wants to save face, this is human nature. When everyone makes mistakes, what others want most is for you to pretend not to know that he is foreign, to save his face and majesty. Therefore, when someone else is embarrassed, pretend not to know.

Communicate with others, and when others encounter embarrassment, it is of course better if you can remedy it in time and play a round for the other person. When dealing with people, you must remember not to let people go down and not be able to lift the steps.

The art and skill of speaking: do not judge the right and wrong opinions, fully respect, and try not to use negative words.

1. Do not judge whether the point of view is right or wrong

The most common mistake we make when speaking is to judge the other party's point of view in our hearts, in fact, everyone's point of view is just a different view of things, it is difficult to make a judgment of who is right and who is wrong, as the saying goes, all roads lead to Rome, only by listening carefully to the complete expression, you will know the origin of things and opinions, make correct analysis and judgment, maybe the other party can bring you a new set of ideas or ideas.

2. Full respect

Sage Kong said, if you are a threesome, you must have my teacher. Just as no two leaves in the world are exactly the same, people have different perspectives and approaches to things, and communicating with others with a learning attitude is the basis for respect. Respect can maintain your good posture in communication; Respect can make the other party feel that you are sincere and respectable; Respect allows you to show you the deepest part of your heart.

Let others respect themselves, and they must first respect others.

3. Try not to use negative words

Not using negative words in communication will work better than using negative words. Because the use of negative words creates a sense of command or criticism, and while it clearly states your point, it is less receptive. Such as:

I don't agree with you going to Beijing today", let's put it another way; "I want you to reconsider your idea of going to Beijing today".