How can a man who is shy about love pursue his own happiness?

Girls like boys who can give them a sense of security, and being a boy who makes girls like needs to master a lot of temperament, which is not false at all: humorous, bold, cheeky, confident, self-motivated, responsible, and widely popular. The most important thing is shyness, it must be changed, what kind of shyness does a boy become.

In addition, the importance of being handsome or not in the process of love only accounts for a small part, mainly to look at EQ. - I used to be a shy boy, but then I changed myself, and the woman's popularity is simply not what it used to be. In addition, it is recommended that you read a few compulsory books, theory is the foundation of the foundation, read one by one, but don't forget to practice!

As I said here, when you do this, you can guarantee that 95% of the girls you like will be able to talk to. There should be a big bookstore, and you can buy it without being online. The first book "Male Needle" teaches you basic love thinking.

The second book, "Sister Master", teaches some details in dating girls. - The third book "Cold Reading", this one is more advanced, elective, and you can completely gain the trust of the other party. - If you don't know what to do, you can email me, and I will help you answer.

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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well! When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along with for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not necessarily be together; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever! No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you; In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop him/her, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (or her's) mind?

Love is not possession! You love the stars, and you can't take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room. In other words, if you love someone, you can have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good and love his bad

Love his strengths and love his shortcomings, and never want him to be what you want him to be because you love him, and if you can't change it, you won't love him. You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you; The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement. After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained; Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not strong enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When two people are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these vows are very unrealistic. The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you! knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren; Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make a promise that can be fulfilled, It's best to promise what you can't do, Anyway, what can't be done, it doesn't matter if you just talk about it, Remember: "Impossible promises are the most moving" In love, saying one thing is done, and doing is another; Those who speak do not believe, and neither do those who listen.

In the face of such a man in a relationship, you can't be shy, you have to take the initiative to break through his psychological defense, to impress him a little bit, in order to succeed.

At this time, the girl must take the initiative, only in this way can you chase the shy boy, and you can play a leading role in the relationship now.

As the saying goes, a woman chases a man, as long as she is particularly good to the man and shows her sincerity, you can catch it.

It can be direct, because the other party is shy, so you need to take the initiative and be direct, so as to increase the probability of success.