How do you drink with a leader? Invite the leader to eat, how to drink?

It depends on whether you can drink it or not. If you can't drink enough, tell him right away, don't think it's a shame to fight for the sake of face, and it's 100% ruined. If you have a drink, then listen to the leader, at the wine table, you just drink, don't do anything else, don't talk nonsense, when it's time for you to drink, you just drink.

Just keep your face smiling.

The first three glasses of wine are accompanied by the host, the vice-accompaniment, and the host and guest.

Choose the right toast according to the specific nature of the meal. The first cup is for fate, the second is for happiness, and the third is for happy cooperation. The first cup is for the past, the second is for the present, and the third is for the future.

The first cup thanked everyone for coming to cheer, the second cup cherished the friendship under the bow, and the third cup hoped that the friendship would last forever and so on.

Introduction of the dinner:

The meaning of three cups of wine. It refers to the wedding banquet, proposed by the host to the guests, put forward a reason, thank the guests for their busy arrival, and even salute three cups of ** to the wisdom of the ancients.

The last cup is for the host to let the guests drink more, and he drinks first, which is called entertainment, and the guests also raise their glasses together after the host has drunk, which is called entertainment. This is how the etiquette of toasting three glasses evolved.

The first glass of wine to invite the leader to eat must be mentioned by you as the host, since you invite the senior leaders of the Shen Hall to eat, then after you start eating for a while, you should take the initiative to propose to drink a glass of wine to everyone, and according to the rules, everyone drinks.

After drinking with the leader, if you need to communicate or meet with the leader the next day, you can take the following ways to greet you:

Greetings to the health of the leaders. It is okay to simply greet the leader about his health, such as "How were you last night?" How is your body feeling today? ”

Remind the leader of the work arrangement. If there is an important work schedule or meeting the next day, you can remind the leader and confirm the time and place, such as "Leader, we have an important meeting this afternoon, are you ready?" ”

Reaffirm your commitment and responsibility. If you have a working cooperation or commitment with your leader, you can reiterate your commitment and responsibility, such as "Leader, I have prepared the project plan that Zheng Qingtan said before, and I will report to you today." ”

No matter which way you choose to greet you, the most important thing is to express your sincerity and professionalism, and avoid excessive intimacy or frivolity, so as to maintain a professional image and attitude. At the same time, it is also necessary to make appropriate adjustments and adaptations according to the specific situation and the personality characteristics of the leader.

1. Agree first, and then find a reason to refuse tactfully.

If you hear that your boss has invited you for a drink, you should first be happy as an employee, because the leader can let you drink with him, which shows that the leader thinks highly of you, at least very much in vain. Many people think that being invited to drink by the leader is a bad thing, but it is difficult to refuse because they are afraid of losing the face of the leader. After all, they all work in the same company, and the leader is your superior.

If you don't look up and don't look down, you will feel embarrassed, but when this happens, you can first agree to the leader's invitation, and then have a few drinks with the leader to show your gratitude. Then tell the leader that you can't drink too much due to physical reasons, and even if the leader wants to continue drinking with you, he will be afraid that your body can't stand it, so he will take the initiative to ask you not to drink anymore. This way, you will not offend the leader and you will also find a very suitable reason not to drink.

The leader of the wine bureau said "drink with me", and the stupid person drank with him, and the smart man elegantly refused this method!

2. Let the leader know at the beginning that you are a person who does not drink.

From the first day you work in this company, you should make it clear to your leaders and colleagues that you can't drink a single drop of potato. There are many reasons why you don't drink. For example, your wife won't let you drink, you can't drink because of your own body, and you're allergic to alcohol.

The most important thing is to let the leader know that drinking alcohol will cause fatal damage to your health, so that the leader will not dare to infiltrate and force you to drink again. So you have to let your leadership colleagues, especially the leaders, know in advance that you can't drink. Some people in the workplace feel that it is very shameful to let their leaders know that they can't drink, so they hide it.

But when it came time to really drink, they couldn't avoid the leader's kind invitation, but they couldn't drink too much, which led to a dilemma. The leader of the wine bureau said "drink with me", and only fools drink with him, but smart people refuse this method elegantly!

3. If the leader insists that you drink, you can pretend to be drunk and then find an excuse to leave.

Some leaders also insist that employees drink alcohol, and if they don't drink, it may affect their future development in the company, so that employees can't refuse the leader's request. Once you encounter this situation, you don't have to think about anything else, if you can't drink, you can pretend to drink, and for such a leader, if you really can't drink, you can also find an excuse to leave. It can be said that you have to go home early if you have something, or set a fixed time **bell**, pretend to pick it up outside**, and then slip away.

The leader of the wine bureau said "drink with me", and the stupid person drank with him, and the smart man refused this method elegantly!