The one who gives up first must be the one who loves him the most, what do you mean

A story. A pair of lovers, the man had lung cancer, so they broke up ruthlessly and never contacted again, and the girl did not insist on redeeming it. But the boy secretly pays attention to the girl's life behind his back.

Until one day, he found that the girl always went to the hospital, so he went to ask the doctor, and the doctor saw that he always came to ask, and finally moved to tell him that the girl was found to have a terminal illness 1 month ago, which was the day before the boy proposed to break up. The next day it rained heavily, the girl did not have an umbrella, the boy rushed over to hold up the umbrella for her, the girl hugged him tightly and said: I'm sorry I can't love you anymore.

The boy said I know it all, let's go. The wind blew over the umbrella, the boy threw it away, and walked in the rain laughing with the girl. Slowly go away ......

This story tells us that there is a kind of love called letting go, in order not to affect the happiness of the person who loves, I would rather play a negative man ruthlessly, this is also love, the legendary true love. Because, love is not possession! If you are willing to give up your happiness and let the other party let go and fly to find happiness, that must be true love.

For a person who has loved for a long time, what makes us give up is not about time, but because of ourselves.

If we want, we can love for a lifetime, love is a person's thing, it has nothing to do with others, whether he is there or not, no matter how time changes, we can always love.

But it is ourselves who make us give up loving in the end.

In all feelings, almost all of this helpless abandonment is basically for one reason, tiredness.

It's not that I don't love anymore, it's not that my feelings are gone, but I'm tired.

No matter how much enthusiasm we have, we will never get a response, and again and again, we will eventually feel exhausted.

This exhaustion is not physical exhaustion, but the accumulation of heartache due to too much disappointment.

A person, when his heart is really hurt, even if he wants to accompany Wang Ai, he can't love it.

In the end, all those who gave up on the person who used to love others very much slowly learned from Huzhou to love themselves.

Many people will experience such a gray relationship, and after walking past, you will understand a lot of things that you did not understand before.

In this world, there is really no one who doesn't open anyone, the person you think you can't live without no matter what, but it's just what you think.

You think you can't live without that person, but in fact, you just can't live without the habit of having him.

You think you can't live without him, but in fact, you're just afraid to go to life without him.

But in fact, getting used to this kind of thing will be cultivated by reeds.

All you lack is the courage to cultivate.

When you can face your heart, face up to and bravely face the future life without him, and re-cultivate your new life, you can easily give up on the other person and get out of that relationship.

Anyway, we decided to give up.

About that person we had liked for many, many years, we decided to give up.

Because, we also have self-esteem.

Because we don't want to pile up disappointment into despair.

Because, in addition to love, we also have life.

What the relationship is most afraid of is that the lotus root is disconnected and entangled, and since it has been decided, don't contact it anymore.

One day, you will find that the sun rises in the east and the west rises, the moon is cloudy and sunny, and in this world, except for life, everything else is a small matter. No one wants to give up the person they love, but the reality is too helpless, the fate is over, some pain has been held in the heart for a long time, and one day it broke out together and was extremely disappointed, maybe it was no longer love, because it was too tired. Time passes, and when I think back to the past a long time ago, it feels like a world away.