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You have to mediate in the middle, the son is the lubricant between the wife and the mother-in-law, and if you don't do your job well, the family will be very chaotic. Reason with your daughter-in-law!
In fact, you can change it when you have a bad temper, and I don't have a good temper and beat my husband at every turn, but now I can endure everything, and I am still willing to change it for the people I love!
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Actually. There are really not many daughters-in-law in the world who can get along well with their mother-in-law.
After all, how many people can really treat their daughter-in-law as a daughter and how many people can really treat their mother-in-law as a mother?
Not much, really. Let's just say that I am someone's daughter-in-law.
I can't do it to my mother-in-law like I did to my mother-in-law.
My baby mother-in-law sometimes helps with it.
I took it for the night, and then she came up in the morning, picked me up, and then slept until I got up later.
In fact, whether it is a daughter-in-law or a mother-in-law, the role is not easy.
And you are the only best mediator.
Undoubtedly, the hardest thing to do is you.
If you really want to be distraction-free.
Then live separately.
Because if you live separately.
See you once in a while.
People don't just think about unhappy things.
Instead, they will try to accommodate each other as much as possible.
Child, you can think of getting your mother-in-law to bring.
Or if your mother-in-law and children move out.
Anyway, never think that there will be peaceful days when you live with the elderly.
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Hehe, that's your fault, you just don't have to make a sound in this situation. No one said no help. It doesn't matter who is right or who is wrong. If you say it, it will make you more miserable. I hope you have a harmonious family.
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Alas, to be reasonable, the elders train the younger ones, and she wants to talk about her directly.
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To understand, but also to unravel; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate, accept, not endure, be tolerant, not conniving; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence rather than a question; It is to pour, not to accuse, to be memorable rather than to forget; It's about communicating with each other, not about everything.
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If it is vexatious, it must be educated, and the others will turn a blind eye.
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I have the same feeling as you, your wife will at least work, my wife plays mahjong every day, it's not like this, if you feel stressed in your heart, you will go to exercise, so that you will not think so much when you are tired.
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A woman with a stubborn personality is like a person who doesn't like cleanliness, loves to eat pickles, and likes to eat sauerkraut, so a woman with a stubborn personality can always endure and endure unsatisfactory things. This is a headache for men. Because, men want their wives to be happy and happy, and their wives are stubborn, which will make men very disgusted and even bored.
In fact, stubbornness can cause a lot of problems. If a man wants to get along with a stubborn wife who is strong, independent, and does not admit defeat, he needs both husband and wife to respect each other. In this way, it is possible to ensure that the husband and wife have a good way of getting along with each other to maintain the marital relationship.
1. Say no to stubborn wives as little as possible.
The stubborn wife may also be because she has a strong heart and doesn't want to succumb to others. So there are often some excessive demands on men, and men are rarely able to refuse. Once the man rejects her, the stubborn woman begins to blame her husband for thinking that you are too her.
In fact, it is not right in the long run, since a man has his own choice to go, he should respect his wife. But if he has the right to make excessive demands on others, then try not to say no. Because a stubborn woman simply doesn't have the patience to put up with your unreasonable requests.
So, what if you want to get along better with a stubborn woman?
2. Try to quarrel as little as possible.
Women with stubborn personalities actually know very well in their hearts that as long as they are not too strong, then they will rarely lose their temper, but there is a situation where they will be unhappy, and it is really difficult for them to control their quarrels with their husbands when they have a big temper. A stubborn wife has a short temper is an uncontrollable factor, so in the face of a stubborn husband, their temper will get bigger and bigger. Therefore, for stubborn women, men should still try to minimize the number of quarrels with them, because this will make them less angry!
Even if two people have an argument and want to clash, they should calm down and communicate in time, so that the relationship between the two people can be one step closer! Of course, sometimes it's understandable and forgiving for both sides to quarrel over something. If it is very bad for the relationship between husband and wife to quarrel too much, then if you want to maintain the marriage relationship, you need to slowly adapt to this stubborn wife.
3. Communicate more with your wife.
Women will hate anything because of their stubborn personality, and women with stubborn personalities are still very afraid of trouble. Because in their hearts, as long as they are angry, they will immediately find someone to solve the trouble. At this time, as long as the husband is by his side, he can help his wife solve the problem.
If the husband always talks to his wife about his thoughts, then they will definitely communicate with him. Therefore, the two of you must communicate more in communication, and communicate more with the woman in order to understand her views and attitudes towards things in her heart.
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