An essay on how to deal with setbacks. Essay on the second year of junior high school of more than 6

Fate is like a string. Life is meaningless, we give it meaning, we give it the power to perpetuate it for posterity.

Shi Tiesheng. Fate is like a slender string. Pluck it in different ways and you'll hear different sounds. Which one do you want to listen to?

I have always liked Monet, the romantic Parisian painter, and I love the intense colors in his paintings, the instantaneous changes of light and movement. When his eyes were barely visible, he said, "I'm going to paint everything I see before I can't see, and I love it all."

For an artist whose soul is painting, his eyes are his life. And when his eyes were covered with darkness and shadow, and he couldn't even make out the colors, how did he reconcile such wonderful colors? Fair and merciless fate!

He generously bestows upon you a certain gift, but he brutally throws you into the abyss from which you will never recover. Why does the strings of fate make a harsh noise from time to time? Rousseau said bitterly in his autobiography that I hated the world from the day I was born, and my birth was my first misfortune.

Li Houzhu's tragic song "Flowing water falls and flowers go in spring", "I often hate water and Changdong in life!" "Li Taibai is drunk and reluctant to wake up, how much do you know about facing Chang'an Hualuo? The same fate, but a hundred kinds of life.

Everyone is in life, but discovering life requires a special vision (Yu Qiuyu). Yu Hua wrote in his works: People, crying in the way of laughter, live in the company of death.

I remember Zisang in "Zhuangzi" singing: "Sex is not broken, sex is short, and there is nothing to worry about." "It's about Ziyu going to visit Zisang, and when he entered the house full of rain, he saw Zisang studying the article without complaint, and he thought it was very strange so he asked:

Don't you resent fate, which gave you this life of poverty?" Zisang said: "This is God's arrangement, why should I be resentful, it is enough to face it calmly."

It's enough to be calm, isn't it? When fate is against you everywhere, don't blindly lament and complain about fate, miss the sun, you are crying, then you will also miss the moon and stars. Don't get carried away because of a moment of pride, just like the story in "Liao Zhai", Huangliang's rice will always be cooked, and the dream will eventually wake up.

What we have to do is actually very simple, try to approach fate, understand fate, and face fate without changing your face, you have become friends with fate. Zhuangzi said: People must live in peace.

You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood; You can't change your look, but you can smile; You can't control others, but you can control yourself; You can't predict tomorrow, but you can take advantage of today; You can't do everything, but you can do everything. You can't decide the length of life, but you can certainly control the width of life.

It's a magical string, it's like your destiny, pluck it patiently, and it will give you the most beautiful melodic ......

Why are there so many words?!!

Beat setbacks.

Everyone wants to live a smooth life in life, and no one wants to experience setbacks, however, in the long years and the vast sea of people, there may be different degrees of setbacks on the road of life.

Frustration is everywhere: difficulty in making a living, emotional loss, career failure, poor physical fitness, physical defects, unwarranted grievances, natural and man-made disasters, etc. When setbacks come, the terrible thing is that we surrender to setbacks and fall in the face of setbacks.

There are many people who will refuse setbacks, but rejecting setbacks cannot build a monument in life! True life needs the test of setbacks, and if you lack the courage and courage of regular setbacks, you will not be able to face reality, let alone navigate life over the rapids.

Frustration does not make a human being spontaneously, and not everyone who experiences it can make a difference. Frustration bullies the weak with its ruthless face, and only the strong of fate can release its full meaning and meaning. French writer Balzac said:

Setbacks are like a stone that keeps you from moving forward. And for the strong, it is a stepping stone to make you stand taller"。Therefore, only by holding a lofty purpose in life, establishing lofty ideals of life, maintaining a healthy psychological quality, and holding the throat of destiny can we become a strong man in life and a victor in our career.

Overcoming setbacks requires careful thinking. In the face of setbacks,"The mountains and rivers are exhausted, and there is no way out"Only by using careful thinking can we find another way to create"Another village"The best of the best. In the face of setbacks, it is necessary to make accurate judgments, clear thinking, rigorous reasoning, and far-sightedness, find out where the problem is, find out the root cause of the problem, establish goals, find out the direction of efforts, and choose the way to solve the problem.

When the obstacle to progress cannot be overcome, you can bypass it and try to find other ways to achieve your goal, if there is no other way, you can consider changing the goal and choosing a similar goal to work towards in order to achieve success.

One of the world's supernatural events, wandering children. At 12:13 p.m., a child can be seen walking in the corner of the building, his face cannot be seen, if the news is not spread 5 posts, the family will be ruined, and the heart of the child who died will be killed.

Facing setbacks.

Failure said: Setbacks are a mountain that can never be climbed on the road to growth, because after climbing a mountain, there will be another mountain ahead.

Cowardice said: Frustration is a thorny ground on the road to growth, which will pierce people all over the body.

Frustration says: Frustration is the vertigo after being knocked down, which makes people lose confidence and lose the direction of progress.

Standing on the tail of childhood, looking at the unknown road ahead, I was scared.

At this time, Dante came up to me and said, "Go your own way, let others say go." No matter how many setbacks others say on the road to growth, you have to be brave to go on, only setbacks will make you grow. ”

Zhang Haidi, who had a high-level amputee, said to me: "Even if setbacks make you fall down a hundred times, you have to stand up one hundred and one times, and only setbacks can make you strong." ”

Beethoven, who was deaf in both ears, said: "Hold fate by the throat in the face of setbacks, which will make you confident." ”

Xu Teli said: "It is a myth to want to grow up without experiencing any setbacks. Frustration is a necessity in the process of growing up. ”

Standing on the boulevard of youth, looking at the road ahead, I seem to have a little confidence.

At this time, I seemed to see Hawking, who was suffering from multiple diseases all over his body, tapping on the keyboard with the only two fingers that could move, making academic reports, and in the face of setbacks, he chose to be strong; I seemed to see the blind and deaf Helen Keller working hard to learn the language, and in the face of setbacks, she chose to persevere; I seemed to see Sun Bin who had his kneecaps cut off again, sitting on a chariot and directing the battle, and in the face of setbacks, he chose to endure humiliation; I seem to see the poor Hong Zhanhui running around with his little sister, and in the face of setbacks, he chose to struggle; I also seem to see Zhang Haidi, Beethoven ......

The reason why great people can become great people is because they often experience setbacks that ordinary people have not experienced, and if they overcome it, they will have more outstanding achievements than ordinary people. The flowers in the greenhouse can never withstand the snowstorm in the wild, and only the tall pines and cypresses can be evergreen all year round. Standing at the crossroads of youth, I thought about it and chose the most difficult path.

Strong said: setbacks are mountains, and if you turn over him, you can see the sea of success.

Bravely say: setbacks are thorns, take out the courage to split it, and a broader avenue will appear in front of you.

Victory said: Setbacks are reefs in the sea, and if you don't meet him, you will never be able to stir up the waves of success.

Growth requires setbacks!