How to teach a child, how to teach a child

Change your own education methods You can't get used to your children Give your children the ability to survive in society in advance and excellent overall quality If you get used to him a little bit today, no one in the society will get used to him in the future, then he will be finished.

We will all encounter children's education problems in our lives, whether it is a bystander or our own personal experience, the following is how to educate children correctly.

1. Love must be in a proper way, and strictness must be measured.

Tutors are often "polarized". Either love to death, or be strict and unkind. Parents who love their children too much often do everything for their children, so that their children cannot learn to overcome difficulties with their own strength from an early age, do their own things by themselves, and take the help of others for granted.

Some parents use "love" as an excuse to be excessively strict with their children, often scolding their children, and even beating their children. Such children tend to be obedient, but gradually lose their self-esteem, self-confidence, courage and perseverance, and the desire to dare to speak the truth. Parents should say more encouraging words to their children, share happy times with their children, give their children more space for development, and believe that their children must be the best.

2. Don't substitute for your child's choice.

Chinese parents often have a "not at ease" mentality when treating their children, and they help their children do many things. From an early age, I helped my child get dressed, let my child sleep with adults, and my child went to school, and I helped check stationery and books, and I didn't let my child do housework. Even when they grow up, find a job and get married, their parents have to take care of everything.

In this kind of arrangement, the child's curiosity and desire to try it are obliterated, and they become lazy, dependent, afraid of hardship and tiredness, unassertive, and irresponsible. What the child can do, let go as soon as possible and let the child do it by himself. The key choice is to let the child choose by himself in order to increase the child's sense of responsibility and self-confidence.

3. Teach children to appreciate others and not be self-centered.

Only children are often surrounded by others, they rarely think about others, let alone appreciate others, so naturally they can't talk about cooperation, which brings trouble to interpersonal relationships and is not conducive to future careers. Parents should educate their children to learn to appreciate others, so that they can see themselves correctly and cooperate well with others. You can often invite other children to participate in activities with your own children to guide them to appreciate others.

If we can teach our children that every time they meet someone from an early age, we can learn from them one good thing, then our children will be very good.