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Mainly regulate your psyche.
When I was a student, there was no conflict of interest between my classmates or it was very, very small, and it was not easy for some negative means to happen.
There is some truth to this saying that there are no friends in the workplace.
Because the formal workplace is a battlefield, only one can go up if one falls, and this must be the rule.
Therefore, we should pay more attention to interpersonal communication, no longer get along with school classmates, and keep our original intention, but also be guarded.
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I know the change of living expenses from my parents to my boss.
The so-called change of role mainly refers to the transformation from a college student who is proud of the sky to a realistic social job seeker, putting aside romance and fantasy, knowing the real status and harsh social reality of oneself, and facing the reality of employment realistically. If you want to choose the right career, you must change your role, and you must not regard the care, care and respect given by school, family, relatives, friends and classmates as the ultimate recognition of society. It is necessary to put yourself in a correct position, enter the state of job search objectively and calmly, understand the society, understand the society, take the initiative to adapt to the needs of the society with your own strength, accept the choice of the society while choosing a social career, and take the key step of life correctly.
First of all, we must have a correct understanding of ourselves, understand our temperament, personality, interests, hobbies, abilities, specialties, and even physical characteristics, and clarify what we are good at and what we are not good at, so as to better understand what kind of work we need or are suitable for. Second, in the process of choosing a job, we must dare to compete. First, college students should fully believe in their own strength and dare to achieve their ideal goals through competition on the basis of correct self-evaluation.
Second, we must be psychologically prepared to say goodbye to the tradition of iron rice bowls and big pot rice. We must deepen our understanding of the competition mechanism from the angle of social progress and deepening reform, strengthen our own sense of competition, consciously face up to social reality, change our concepts, and make good psychological preparations for participating in competition. Again, be good at competing.
In the competition for job search and job selection, attention should be paid to whether the expectations are appropriate. Expectation is the ratio of personal aspirations to social needs, and high expectations will increase psychological pressure, difficulty concentrating, cause anxiety, and affect the performance of normal levels. Be dignified and behave appropriately during the interview to make a good first impression; Exercise good eloquence, speak eloquently and clearly when communicating; Rational use of relevant rules, etc.
Finally, you need to be able to deal with setbacks correctly. Frustration in life is the only way to create a strong person, and setbacks are a good opportunity to exercise your will and enhance your ability. After encountering setbacks, you should let go of your psychological baggage, carefully look for the reasons for your failure, adjust your goals, move forward in a down-to-earth manner, and strive for new opportunities.
I believe that as long as you have a hard heart and can do a good job in changing roles, you will be able to find your own foothold in the society and encourage everyone!
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In the workplace, it's harder to say I can than to say I can't.
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I'm afraid that I will make others look down on me. But if you don't dare to do it, you will miss the opportunity to improve or train yourself.
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