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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......
Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.
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There will be a day when there will be interpretation, and it will be stronger in the end.
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Everyone's happiness and sadness are different, and the saddest time for me is to become very low-key, not talking to anyone, just doing my own thing. Find yourself a place where no one is around. And then for a few days, it would be like this, and when a friend talked to me, I would ignore it.
It wasn't until a long time that I recovered little by little, and I gradually forgot about it.
Thank you for the trouble to adopt!
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It mainly depends on why you are sad, hurt by someone you love, and to the extreme, you will forget to cry, you will be stunned, and then you can't help laughing, and then you will be relieved. Losing the most important person, crying until vomiting, crying until fainting.
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The tears in the eyes swirled in the eyes, no longer flowing out, they looked happy on the surface, but their physical health declined little by little, they couldn't sleep at night, they thought about some good memories of the past, their personality became withdrawn little by little, and they became depressed in serious cases. Or even unconscious.
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I would get dizzy, headaches, chest pain, and I would feel like throwing up, and then my stomach would twitch and I couldn't breathe.
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It's the kind of person who can cry without a sound.
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Crying until I want to vomit, crying until I can't cry, as if there is something in my throat that is blocking the ** crying silently.
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If you suppress your emotions for a long time, if you suppress sadness and sadness, it is easy to lead to a depressed mood, that is, depression; If you suppress your anger, you will become cold** and have violent impulses; If you suppress your fears and fears, you can easily become sensitive and insecure. Emotions are an energy, only venting will make it flow and release from your heart, if you blindly suppress it, it is easy to cause emotions to be fixed in the body, which will not only affect the personality, but also lead to physical diseases.
If you suppress your needs for a long time and don't dare to fight for what you deserve, you will become unconfident and easily doubt yourself. People need to meet physiological needs, need a sense of security, need love, need companionship, need self-realization, need aesthetics, if these needs are suppressed for a long time, people are easy to lose their sense of existence, lose the meaning of life, it will be very hard.
Suppressing one's own opinions for a long time and not being able to express them comfortably will affect interpersonal relationships, leading to loneliness and lack of support systems. In short, in a depressive environment, people cannot grow freely, their vitality is completely ossified, and their energy is stagnant, which has a bad impact on physical and mental health and social function.
Therefore, we must learn to release, decompress, drain, and decompose. Let those things that are deposited within slowly flow and be excreted from the body. Don't worry too much, as long as you find a way to release yourself, you will slowly get better.
Journaling, running, talking, crying, and counseling can all help improve depression.
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First of all, let me tell you, this is the worst for your body, relax, don't think so much, think about the things of the world simply, it's useless to be sad.
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If you are too sad, you will not be sad, and you may forget.
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Depressed, fainting, or even going crazy!
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Find a psychiatrist for counseling There is free psychological help on TV**.
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At that time, I didn't cry for 2 months, but I was in a very bad mood and forced to laugh. I feel that the saddest time for me is when I want to cry but can't, and I pretend to be strong.
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There is nothing more sad than the departure of the dearest person and the betrayal of the person you love the most. But these two feelings are different, and they can't be explained, only they can experience it. But I don't want you to encounter it, because it's all bad things.
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It really hurts! I have a blocked breath in my chest, I can't go down and can't get out, I feel nauseated, and I want to vomit all the time.
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My heart will really tremble, every time I tremble, it is more uncomfortable than a pinprick stick, my nose is pantothenic, the tears in my eyes don't feel like they want to flow out, and it hurts very much when I tremble.
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It's just thinking about that thing all day long, feeling depressed, sad, and even wanting to cry, or finding some sad songs, and crying while listening.
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When you are sad, your eyes will be glazed, your thinking will slow down, you will want to cry, and you will want to be hugged.
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Great sorrow is silent, most of the people who can cry out are for others to see, the real sadness is to quietly digest the silent tears, when you lose your loved ones, it is not an exaggeration to describe it as a thousand thoughts and ashes, because no one can comfort you, it depends on you to come out by yourself. It's a feeling you'd better never experience.
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At that time, I couldn't cry, although my heart was very uncomfortable, my hands would tremble, my whole body would be weak, and I would vomit non-stop. I guess it's very sad.
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My breath trembles when I breathe....
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This taste is really not very pleasant, obviously I feel uncomfortable, I want to cry but I can't cry, my heart hurts.
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I don't want to talk, I want to forget the whole world, and I want the whole world to ignore me.
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Not everyone who passes by will know each other, and not everyone who knows each other is worrying. In this life, in that place, when we turned around, you said that I appeared at the wrong time, but we can't forget that sincere love. It's just that there is a relationship that can no longer continue, there is a person who can no longer snuggle, there is a voice that can no longer ring in the ears, and there is a pair of hands that can no longer hold the temperature of the palms.
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My lover died, and his last words were to let me live happily, so I couldn't even cry.
The landlord still misses it, once you see it wrong, you may pay your most precious for it, and you will regret it when the time comes, (I have a friend like this) and miss it, because there is still a chance.
Find a way that suits you and try to make yourself happy; Me so now; It's really sad; Whenever I'm sad; I like to hide by myself; Do whatever you want; I don't want to think about anything; Do nothing; Ignore anyone; It may be that the person has grown up; The idea is different; When you are sad, go and help others; It would be better to help others; Like right now I'm trying to help you; If needed; You can listen to ** crying; After crying, the psychological side will be more comfortable; Otherwise, make an appointment with a confidant to a safe place; Drink to go; It's not to teach you badly; It's the more people who don't drink; drunk and drunk; Being numb is equivalent to letting yourself be temporary; Don't think about anything; Actually, I don't know how to help you; Just to give you some advice; Or so be it; When you really need someone to talk to; You can talk to me; That's about all I can do; Be happy;
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