How to educate a 16 year old boy, how to educate a 16 year old boy?

It is necessary to start by understanding his mental and physiological development.

1. Physiological characteristics: high school students are in the psychological weaning period of psychological separation from their parents, with the rapid development of the body, the obvious enhancement of self-awareness, the development of independent thinking and the ability to deal with things, high school students show strong autonomy in psychology and behavior, and are eager to be liberated from the shackles of their parents. And their feelings become implicit, that is, the inner world is active, but the external manifestations of emotions are not obvious.

These characteristics often hinder mutual understanding between parents and children.

Second, the characteristics of the subject: the depth and difficulty of learning in high school has risen to a new level compared with junior high school, the span is very large, especially in mathematics, English, and physics, many students can understand in class, and the homework after class has been completed seriously, the results are not satisfactory, many students even have failed, at this time parents and children are very confused, in fact, the crux is that the student's knowledge traction ability is poor, and the comprehensive learning ability needs to be improved. At the same time, it is emphasized that in high school, parents can not blindly believe that their children can solve the problem by themselves, because the learning of each subject in high school is an extension of knowledge, and there is a strong correlation, a problem with a knowledge point or knowledge module will lead to a bottleneck in the learning of this subject, and the problems of students should be sorted out and effectively solved after the monthly exam, and good results can be obtained in the midterm exam.

From junior high school to high school is a process from quantitative change to qualitative change, high school as a whole presents a "5 increase" trend of increasing the amount of knowledge, theoretical enhancement, systematic enhancement, comprehensive enhancement, and ability requirements, and the first year of high school is the most concentrated grade of mathematics, physics, and chemistry, so for most students, the third year of junior high school to the first year of high school is not a "slope", but a "hurdle", and it is necessary to "jump" to complete the process of qualitative change.

Are you the father of children or the mother of children?

Here's how to educate a 16-year-old:

1. Don't take an overly radical approach and treat your child roughly, not only can you not make your child really realize his mistakes, but also is likely to leave a shadow in his heart, and his personality is easy to become extreme.

2. To lead by example, if the parents are misbehaved, then the educated children are a copy of failure, and the influence of empty preaching is far less than that of actual action.

3. If parents have different views on the same thing, the status and prestige of adults in the hearts of children will be lost, and it will become more difficult to discipline children.

4. Don't stifle your child's interest, academics are important, but interest is the source of stimulating children's creativity.

To educate a 16-year-old boy, it is necessary to make him aware of his local responsibilities and his social status.

Let's see how it is educated, I think a 16-year-old boy can play too, right?

At the age of 16, he is already very sensible, there is no need to educate him, reason with him patiently, and let him know that his ideas are wrong or immature. Try your best to convince him, don't put pressure on him, use the identity of an elder to suppress them, and they will not be convinced.

At this time, children are more rebellious, so when criticizing education, we should talk about things on the facts, not on people. If you lay out the facts and reason, he will easily accept them.

Hello this classmate, you are a serious and responsible person.

Your brother's affairs depend on your whole family to help him, in fact, your brother (skipping class, skipping school, going to an Internet café, lying, stealing money, running away from home and not returning home at night, he has done it all) shows that his intelligence and behavioral ability are good, you must be sure of this.

1. His IQ of more than 80 is normal, and the reason why he repeats a grade is that he didn't enter the learning state at the beginning, didn't know how to learn, and no one guided him, which caused him to repeat a grade. (This also includes the quality deviation of your teachers there, who do not teach students according to their aptitude).

2. The study in South Shaolin School is wishful thinking on the part of your parents, and it is not analyzed and solved according to the specific situation of the child. caused his heart to be even more rebellious.

3. Because of the shadow left by his previous study life, junior high school is of course more serious. In addition, the current junior high school students are also very complicated, your brother is not good at studying, and the teacher is unfair to him, so it must be bullying, discrimination and insult to classmates like your brother. Now some teachers are really bad teachers, (because I'm also a teacher, I understand) so your brother must have suffered a lot.

The heart is hurt even more.

4. My parents love me and my brother very much, and sometimes the family of four is quite happy together. Look at your family, it's still a pretty harmonious family.

Suggestions: 1. Don't let your brother go to school. Because the school has a shadow on him, and if he continues to develop, it will be even more detrimental to him. This can lead to serious consequences.

2. Have a good talk with him and tell him that he is actually great. Find out what is good about him.

3. If possible, there is someone who is easy to communicate with him to learn a trade or you and him to do some small business. Let him find his self-confidence. Relieve his inferiority complex so that he can come out of the shadow of not being able to learn.

4. In the future, you will become a man who makes your whole family proud.

There are still a lot of things to say to you, you take a look at my text first, if there is a problem raised, I will help you!

Also, I don't know what your home is!

I am in Fujian, Jinjiang businessmen, you must know, they are based on children's preferences on the issue of children's reading, and never force children to learn how to learn, their big bosses often say: don't look at him now that he can't learn, when that day he needs knowledge, he will learn better than anyone else. I hope to share this sentence with your parents.

If you want, you can read what I wrote to your brother, and let you, me, and him communicate together.

1. Don't have a hard time with disobedient children. In an adolescent child, in order to prove that he has grown up, Xi Xi Weihuan deliberately does some angry behavior to get rid of the control of his parents. You must know that adolescent children have a strong sense of independence and self-awareness, and at this time they naturally like to contradict their parents, so the more severe the discipline, the more counterproductive it will be.

Then, smart parents must avoid the head-on conflict with the adolescent child, do not confront him, only patiently accept his behavior, he can experience and feel that the split Zen absolutely comes from the care and care of the parents, so as to slowly reduce his rebellious thoughts.

2. Don't quarrel with your children, don't embarrass your children, 15-year-old boys, they will become very short-tempered, they think that everything their parents do is against their will, they often show helplessness, anxiety, loneliness, etc., and feel that no one can understand their inner world, so parents must first understand their children's situation.

Stabilize children's emotions more, parents with emotions to educate children, it is definitely irrational, will cause children to resist more. Therefore, parents should not educate their children when they are impatient, upset, and not calm.

3. Face up to your child's self-awareness. As a 15-year-old boy's self-awareness grows, parents should not impose their own values on him. You must know that although adolescent children's cognitive ability of the world is gradually improving, there is still a certain one-sidedness in their understanding of things, so we should not apply our own experience to him, but should patiently help him overcome his own shortcomings.

4. Spend more time with your children. During adolescence, children often feel lonely and helpless, and if they do not receive the care they deserve at this time, they will often become dissatisfied with reality. Therefore, at this time, parents should be close friends of their children.

If you have time, you can participate in more activities that he is interested in, such as variety shows, football matches, mountain climbing, traveling, etc., and communicate with him more about his inner feelings in the activities.